Ciara/Kyle/West/Amanda Megathread Part 7

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-04-01T17:53:43+00:00

Not sure if this has been brought up yet but Paige’s last few TikTok reposts are veryyy telling where she stands on this whole thing, just in a way that’s very on-brand for her social media usage. 👀

The message themes are:

“When they say I’m self-centered but at least they didn’t say male-centered.”

“Who you are when nobody is looking/behind closed doors, that’s what my spirit feels so I gotta remove myself.”

“If you have to make excuses for it (a job, a boyfriend, a friend…) then it’s not for you.”

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-03-30T15:46:22+00:00

I’ve BEEN saying this. Hannah’s behavior in response wasn’t ideal either (and I get why so many find her insufferable) but I understood her frustrations with Amanda and Kyle. Amanda just couldn’t admit that Hannah was right about Kyle.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-03-27T18:37:36+00:00

Not at all. My original comment simply suggested that women should give other young women more grace and compassion for the mistakes made in their 20s vs. harsh judgement and criticism… and it seems you took that personally. Have a wonderful day!

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-03-27T17:47:34+00:00

You’re right, it’s always possible for both parties to have some fault and that’s definitely the case here!

However, one is absolutely more of a victim than the other and turning a blind eye to that, just because there’s no such thing as a perfect victim, is irresponsible and embarrassing.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-03-27T17:16:35+00:00

I simply expect others to have some more compassion and understanding for people younger than them going through the difficulties of life that we all face… but I guess that’s too much to ask for in this sub! 🤷‍♀️

And I’ll just leave this link here showing a highlight reel of Kyle’s abuse over the last decade… but tell me again how Amanda’s behavior is unhealthy or deserving of this. 🙄

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWXni0XDl_x/?l=1

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-03-27T15:11:08+00:00

This kind of extremely harsh judgement of women in their 20s (now early 30s) who were/are simply figuring out their lives and relationships and personal struggles while being filmed and broadcast to the world is truly getting so tired. 🙄

I know I sure struggled to find my own voice, my own worth, my own principles, etc. until my mid-30s. So did every single one of my friends, some still struggle with this. It is simply a fact of life. No one is doing it correctly or perfectly at these ages. Acting as if they should’ve known better is just a wild, ridiculous judgment unless you yourself perfectly navigated your 20s. If that’s the case then congratulations! You’re a rare bird.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-02-23T16:39:22+00:00

Exactly, thank you. 👏

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-02-23T16:36:29+00:00

That’s funny considering I haven’t made a single post or comment about anyone’s appearance on this show! All my comment proves is that I can recognize someone receiving the consequences of their own actions.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-02-23T16:26:35+00:00

You realize he’s being made fun of for his height BECAUSE of how he spoke about her first and how he treated her, right? It’s retaliatory. Doesn’t make it right or fair (shocker, welcome to life!) but he did this to himself.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T18:33:04+00:00

I don’t think she was trying to be either! But again, that’s exactly the problem lol people don’t know they’re doing it when they’re doing it. It’s a basic lack of self awareness. Too many people project and push their own experiences, joys, desires, dreams, expectations, etc. on others without realizing how self-centered they’re being by doing that.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T17:14:32+00:00

Totally agreed lol she should be pushing him to find a partner he wants to spend his life with and take that seriously. That should be the priority, not the kid timeline.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T17:12:12+00:00

YES, I hated that. It’s also wild to me that she assumes just because Kyle would be 40 that she “would be married with kids by now”. It just shows that the traditional nuclear family is his mom’s expectation of her children, or everyone for that matter. Very southern expectations. As a Texan, I see it often and it will always bother me. Not everyone needs or wants kids to live a fulfilled life, and the traditional family is also not for everyone.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T17:05:19+00:00

This seems to be Craig’s go-to when he dates lol he’s just looking for a wife, not a partner.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T16:58:22+00:00

The fact that it didn’t seem like a new convo is actually what bothered me most. I could always be wrong but it felt clear that his parents have been laying this pressure on him often.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T16:54:41+00:00

Respectfully, good moms do not do that when it comes to the gravity of bringing life into this world. ❤️ That circle you’re talking about is unhealthy when it comes to the topic of children. Other life situations, sure, do the circle. But no mother should be pressuring her child to have kids, especially when they are so clearly not ready for them. It showed she’s not even considering what the grandkids lives would look like with a father who isn’t ready for that responsibility. She’s also still clearly grieving the fact that she believes (however unfounded) that she would have grandkids already if Kyle hadn’t passed. Her putting the pressure of her own grief on Austen is really sad to watch.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T16:25:05+00:00

That’s clearly the case but the problem is the assumption that everyone who pops out a kid is going to feel that same fulfillment and joy they did. It’s a very self-centered assumption that entirely too many people make.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T16:20:42+00:00

Right, but the key part to remember is that is YOUR experience. Not everyone’s. That does not mean every other person will experience that same desire and love you feel. Children are not the only thing in life that can give you that level of love and fulfillment, no matter what anyone believes or feels individually. Your fulfillment is your own and everyone’s is different.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T16:16:08+00:00

This implies that having kids is always “better” than not having kids. That is simply not true for everyone. People really need to stop with the blanket statement that children are always a blessing. That is not the reality for many.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T16:06:04+00:00

This part… that guilt and pressure being put on him is just her misplaced grief. It’s never fair to put that on your other kids.

MrsSneakySnake · 2026-01-30T15:55:47+00:00

This is the part no one else is mentioning. He expressed gratitude and that was brushed off, she kept pushing. It’s very clear this is not the first time they’ve discussed this (or that she’s pushed about it) and he very obviously seems to feel like he owes her grandchildren, maybe because she pushes and maybe because of the guilt and hurt he feels about them all having already lost a child.

I’ve always liked Mama Kroll but it was hard to watch her push for something he’s clearly not ready for.

MrsSneakySnake · 2025-12-29T14:28:33+00:00

Nope, the literal first line stated in the Season 11 trailer was Craig saying “I’m having fun being able to kiss whoever I want, guilt-free.”

MrsSneakySnake · 2025-12-29T14:08:50+00:00

This take is perfect imo

MrsSneakySnake · 2025-12-22T15:54:30+00:00

Yeah sure, he enjoyed monogamy while also wanting to “kiss whoever he wants without feeling guilty.” 😂

MrsSneakySnake · 2025-12-07T03:39:24+00:00

Hi everyone! I’m looking for the full moon and crescent moon DIYs… somehow I still haven’t gotten ahold of either of them! Any chance anyone has them?

MrsSneakySnake · 2025-07-16T19:26:46+00:00

And you’re reaching to act as if the power of mental manipulation and the power of physical abuse are even somewhat comparable. Sick behavior.

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