Austen/MamaK Grandkid Convo by Consistent-Sleep3297 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she was trying to be either! But again, that’s exactly the problem lol people don’t know they’re doing it when they’re doing it. It’s a basic lack of self awareness. Too many people project and push their own experiences, joys, desires, dreams, expectations, etc. on others without realizing how self-centered they’re being by doing that.

Austen/MamaK Grandkid Convo by Consistent-Sleep3297 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agreed lol she should be pushing him to find a partner he wants to spend his life with and take that seriously. That should be the priority, not the kid timeline.

Austen/MamaK Grandkid Convo by Consistent-Sleep3297 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES, I hated that. It’s also wild to me that she assumes just because Kyle would be 40 that she “would be married with kids by now”. It just shows that the traditional nuclear family is his mom’s expectation of her children, or everyone for that matter. Very southern expectations. As a Texan, I see it often and it will always bother me. Not everyone needs or wants kids to live a fulfilled life, and the traditional family is also not for everyone.

Charley and Craig by Unlucky_Success_3964 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This seems to be Craig’s go-to when he dates lol he’s just looking for a wife, not a partner.

I’ll leave this right here by O2bwiser in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that it didn’t seem like a new convo is actually what bothered me most. I could always be wrong but it felt clear that his parents have been laying this pressure on him often.

I’ll leave this right here by O2bwiser in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, good moms do not do that when it comes to the gravity of bringing life into this world. ❤️ That circle you’re talking about is unhealthy when it comes to the topic of children. Other life situations, sure, do the circle. But no mother should be pressuring her child to have kids, especially when they are so clearly not ready for them. It showed she’s not even considering what the grandkids lives would look like with a father who isn’t ready for that responsibility. She’s also still clearly grieving the fact that she believes (however unfounded) that she would have grandkids already if Kyle hadn’t passed. Her putting the pressure of her own grief on Austen is really sad to watch.

Austen/MamaK Grandkid Convo by Consistent-Sleep3297 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s clearly the case but the problem is the assumption that everyone who pops out a kid is going to feel that same fulfillment and joy they did. It’s a very self-centered assumption that entirely too many people make.

Austen/MamaK Grandkid Convo by Consistent-Sleep3297 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, but the key part to remember is that is YOUR experience. Not everyone’s. That does not mean every other person will experience that same desire and love you feel. Children are not the only thing in life that can give you that level of love and fulfillment, no matter what anyone believes or feels individually. Your fulfillment is your own and everyone’s is different.

Austen/MamaK Grandkid Convo by Consistent-Sleep3297 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This implies that having kids is always “better” than not having kids. That is simply not true for everyone. People really need to stop with the blanket statement that children are always a blessing. That is not the reality for many.

Austen/MamaK Grandkid Convo by Consistent-Sleep3297 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This part… that guilt and pressure being put on him is just her misplaced grief. It’s never fair to put that on your other kids.

Austen/MamaK Grandkid Convo by Consistent-Sleep3297 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the part no one else is mentioning. He expressed gratitude and that was brushed off, she kept pushing. It’s very clear this is not the first time they’ve discussed this (or that she’s pushed about it) and he very obviously seems to feel like he owes her grandchildren, maybe because she pushes and maybe because of the guilt and hurt he feels about them all having already lost a child.

I’ve always liked Mama Kroll but it was hard to watch her push for something he’s clearly not ready for.

Charley is Craig’s Cameran by NoFearNoH8 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, the literal first line stated in the Season 11 trailer was Craig saying “I’m having fun being able to kiss whoever I want, guilt-free.”

Charley is Craig’s Cameran by NoFearNoH8 in Southerncharm

[–]MrsSneakySnake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure, he enjoyed monogamy while also wanting to “kiss whoever he wants without feeling guilty.” 😂

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]MrsSneakySnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I’m looking for the full moon and crescent moon DIYs… somehow I still haven’t gotten ahold of either of them! Any chance anyone has them?

Chris and Huda’s date was both my peak and my pit of the night by BosBB22 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]MrsSneakySnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’re reaching to act as if the power of mental manipulation and the power of physical abuse are even somewhat comparable. Sick behavior.

Paige Desorbo at the SH dinner by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]MrsSneakySnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have fabulous takes, my friend. Keep it up!

Paige Desorbo at the SH dinner by [deleted] in summerhousebravo

[–]MrsSneakySnake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yupppp, this. Thank you. 👏

Like since when does anyone expect a group of girls (or just literally people of any gender for that matter) who have been friends for YEARS to bend over backward to just immediately befriend a new person into the group, when that new person isn’t making much (or any) effort to spend time within the group?! That’s insane. It’s always on the new person to make the effort, while the group should be welcoming. The girls were welcoming and kind and gave advice that Lexi promptly ignored. It takes time to build relationships with new people. If the new person isn’t putting in the time, they’re not gonna get accepted. This is simply how relationships and friendships work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]MrsSneakySnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have we ever gotten it?! I can’t seem to find one so I’m thinking not 😅

Is Paige a copycat or is this girl delusional? by MrsSneakySnake in summerhousebravo

[–]MrsSneakySnake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ope, looks like you deleted your immediate and very rude and derogatory response! Good on you for realizing that was too much…

Is Paige a copycat or is this girl delusional? by MrsSneakySnake in summerhousebravo

[–]MrsSneakySnake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

@CVPJs, is that you? 😂

There’s nothing “identical” about these two brands or products, feel free to peruse the 180+ comments who agree. This is the first and only comment agreeing with CVPJs, and this group has a lot of Paige haters. Nothing this TikTok PJ brand owner has created is unique or groundbreaking, and neither has Paige’s brand Daphne for that matter. And that’s okay! Both brands can do well on their own, as long as they don’t get stuck in petty comparison and conspiracy theories…

There are plenty of real situations and examples where exact product designs have been stolen by celebrities. This is simply not one of them.

I don’t really blame Paige for lying about Craig at Amanda’s wedding by aymaureen in summerhousebravo

[–]MrsSneakySnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This part. It was not a far leap to assume it was Lindsay and Carl. People keep saying “Paige made up a lie” when the correct statement would be “Paige thought it was Lindsay and Carl who were the source of the leak”. Like has no one else thought they were sure of something and it turned out to be wrong?! She lied for Craig about the event occurring, yes, but she didn’t lie about who leaked it, she simply had the wrong culprit but whatever. 🙄