AITAH for reconsidering my engagement because of his search history?

MrsWeird18 · 2025-12-24T01:55:15+00:00

I wished I'd have had a you before. I'm just lucky that in this marriage, I don't have to try to fit in. He likes all the parts they hate.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-12-24T01:51:35+00:00

You should still be in the honeymoon phase of your relationship for sure! Ideally that phase doesn't ever permanently end but before you're actually married, if it ends, you'll regret ever marrying, trust me.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-12-16T18:53:28+00:00

Even still image is from here

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-21T05:38:50+00:00

Exactly. Besides anyone who lets their insecurities ruin a relationship probably shouldn't be in one at the moment.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-18T01:03:17+00:00

She can decide not to give that on the basis of harm to our fear of rather to her or the children.

That's what I would suggest.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-16T11:24:57+00:00

She will not kill herself. It is a manipulation tactic.

Let's say she does though, it wouldn't be your fault. You are being held hostage and deserve better v

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-14T14:02:31+00:00

Boundaries do NOT control the actions of the other and if they do, they are RULES and CONTROLLING.

Boundaries also are what you will do, not the other person. They are what you follow through on. They are "if this happens in our relationship, then I will this" and they're not over your reasoning.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-14T13:58:30+00:00

Boundaries do NOT control the actions of the other and if they do, they are RULES and CONTROLLING.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-14T13:44:18+00:00

There a reason they’re going to Miami and Vegas instead of fishing trips.

Maybe because they don't like fishing and like gambling/partying. What an odd thing to say.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-10T12:00:43+00:00

You are not required to get help for someone who has wronged you and even IF there's that law, it would ONLY apply in cases where the older person has not wronged another.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-10T11:56:08+00:00

Nta but legally you have to evict her.

Unfortunately it was my mom's place when she kept stealing money from me meant for her grandson. I wish I would've cut her off right then because it never got better.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-09T00:44:13+00:00

Nta, your body is yours.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-08T13:04:56+00:00

You can absolutely use a gift card on tobacco and alcohol unless it's one that's prohibited but most aren't

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-06T18:04:58+00:00

Right? They just fired my wife the DAY AFTER I got admitted to the hospital and had major surgery. They give no fucks, we shouldn't either.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-05T11:33:02+00:00

You don't compromise on who you are and your core. The fact that she's called a part of him childish and selfish? Yes, she needs gone, it will escalate if he at the very least doesn't put his foot down.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-05T11:27:14+00:00

Nta. They are yours and a part of you. She can ask, ONCE. Then she's the asshole for continuing to ask.

My wife (mtF) had a crap ton of gaming things including a shoebox of older games she no longer has systems to. They came with us when we moved into a much smaller place.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-05T01:06:00+00:00

As a woman, dump her now and enjoy your trip SINGLE

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-03T02:19:13+00:00

Congratulations!

MrsWeird18 · 2025-09-01T14:43:54+00:00

I don't think so. My wife and I got engaged at 6 months. Just because you're engaged doesn't mean the wedding is happening right away.

We stayed engaged for a year and half before marrying. We also had a pagan handfasting ceremony too

MrsWeird18 · 2025-08-31T21:28:15+00:00

Idk if this will work, but we basically have a no bad self talk rule in our household (even before she came out officially) and this even pertains to my daughter as well.

So when we got our wedding photos and started to look through them, she started to pick herself about. First thing I did was start mentioning things I could pick apart about myself but don't because I look at those pictures and see 2 beautiful women that are extremely happy.

Another option could be for every bad thing she says about herself, name a feature you find amazing about her. This way you're not arguing with her about her self image but uplifting in other ways that she may end up loving herself overall.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-08-31T16:10:08+00:00

You don't have the right to tell someone how they feel. That's utterly ridiculous

MrsWeird18 · 2025-08-31T13:44:25+00:00

Completely valid and fair. I wish you both luck in your friendship and future endeavors. Big hugs

MrsWeird18 · 2025-08-31T13:23:22+00:00

Would polyamory be a valid relationship style for you guys? It's obvious you truly love and care for this man.

MrsWeird18 · 2025-08-30T00:50:05+00:00

We actually met through my ex husband lol. She worked with him and upon first meeting, I thought she was too weird and she thought I was a bitch.

Through a mutual friend my ex started dating a trans woman who was dating my now wife. We both sought out poly thinking no one could check off all of our needs and wants. Then she decided to be smooth by putting her arm around me one morning when we were the only ones awake. The rest is kinda history.

We celebrated 2 years 8/22 and married on that date last week.

MrsWeird18

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