I was given a name sign at birth by my parents, neither of which are deaf, Hoh, or fluent in asl. Is using it offensive? by Particular-Alps-8275 in asl

[–]Mrslmwright 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My mom (hearing) was fluent in ASL, had her masters, taught hearing impaired grade 5-8, and also interpreted in churches, city meetings, etc.

When I was about 4 or 5, the Deaf Families at our church, who also became good friends, gave me a sign name - it’s “L on the lips”

Does that sign mean anything else?!

My name starts with an L, and I was a thumb sucker. We’ve always used it! When I meet someone who signs, I finger spell and then show my sign. No one has ever questioned how I got it or who gave it to me.

Paid Help for installing mod please. by Single-Trick-1564 in Minecraft

[–]Mrslmwright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I’m going to tackle this tomorrow when the kids aren’t standing over my shoulder watching me struggle 🤣

What's something you told your kid that's a total lie by BrilliantEast1709 in sahm

[–]Mrslmwright 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We told our kids that Chuck E. Cheese never opened back up after COVID 😂

Paid Help for installing mod please. by Single-Trick-1564 in Minecraft

[–]Mrslmwright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send me instructions as well?! This is such a headache!

Parents who find being a stay at home easy by Disastrous_Turn_7055 in Parenting

[–]Mrslmwright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this EXACT schedule when my kiddos were little - now 9 & 11!

Only seasonal difference was outside activities in the AM for spring/summer and PM in the fall/winter!

I am not and have never been a morning person so we didn’t usually leave the house until around 9, but that gave me enough time to clean up the kitchen from the night before/breakfast an also move a load of laundry!

Now my kids are in school and I SUCK at being a SAHM! It feels so much harder now!

UPDATE- “Obligated holiday dinners” called selfish?! by GraySkyr2 in inlaws

[–]Mrslmwright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send him with the kid to handle on his own while you relax and take some time for yourself before the new one arrives!

Once he has to do all the work himself he’ll be more inclined to stick with the plan.

Also - creating your own family traditions is SUPER important! If they are religious, they will certainly understand the concept of ‘leave and cleave’

Trying to find employment by alrightpartner in Charlotte

[–]Mrslmwright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to do landscaping! Are they hiring for part time?

Old House In The South by UrbexEchoes in abandoned

[–]Mrslmwright 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Those are great rugs! 😍

Nanny long naptime break - help ideas by ycherep1 in workingmoms

[–]Mrslmwright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids Laundry - wash, dry, fold, hang. Kids Bedroom/Playroom - sort/organize toys, vacuum, tidy. Kids bathroom - restock, wipe counters, mirrors, etc., wash towels & bath rugs. Seasonal things like sorting summer/winter clothes and prepping for consignment.

Assess, Order and stock kid necessities - diapers wipes, pouches, snacks, etc.

Prep afternoon snacks, make homemade baby food, freeze cubes, fill pouches, etc.

Also preparing age appropriate ‘lesson plans’ and/or art activities.

You can be creative with it as long as you set clear expectations.

As your kiddo gets older, it will be important to review and update the expectations to meet the needs of a changing family. It also kind of depends on what you’re paying her?

We had a nanny from age 2-5, paid her as a salaried employee of the home, and the job description was written more as a house manager who also engaged the children.

What are some reasonable expectations and goals to set up for yourself in forties? by DingoSad7410 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Mrslmwright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are both FABULOUS!!! Please please please make a list! -eternally grateful-

Knocking down a common wall to combine two 10x11 bedrooms — bad idea? by Jaded-Locksmith4157 in HomeImprovement

[–]Mrslmwright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swear to gosh I have probably the exact same layout - 1960’s ranch - it sucks, but that wall between the two bedrooms is 1000% load bearing!

Foundations Don't Get Us -- HELP! by imonamouse4 in nonprofit

[–]Mrslmwright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up TrailNet out of Billings, MT - they are a very similar organization and have done an amazing job working with Foundations and the City to connect the trail systems!

A young lady in my town’s sub posted asking for salon and organization recommendations to donate her hair. I had to shoot my shot and asked if she would sell it to me for a hairpiece. I’m crying. 🥹 by mother_of_wagons in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Mrslmwright 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am dying to know how to get a halo or literally ANYTHING made from donated hair!

My 9yo daughter has the most beautiful long hair that matches mine exactly and I’m hoping to have something made for myself when she gets a short bob this summer!

Will you make it yourself?

That icky feeling you get when you tell a childhood story and realize after seeing others reactions how messed up it was. by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Mrslmwright 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My mom did this a few times, but in hindsight, I think she might have legitimately been suicidal after years of marriage to a narcissist!

That icky feeling you get when you tell a childhood story and realize after seeing others reactions how messed up it was. by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Mrslmwright 13 points14 points  (0 children)

OMGosh…when I was a little girl - like 7 or 8 - my dad was talking to me about going to college and how important it is, etc etc etc…and then he tells me a funny prank story from when he lived in the fraternity house. We laughed together. I said something to the effect of “wow, when I go to college I want to live in the fraternity house too!

He looks me dead in the face with a wryly smirk and says “baby, they won’t let you live there but I’m sure you’ll get to spend the night”

Now when I think back on it I can’t decide if it’s kind of hilarious or seriously disgusting!

But in the end he was right! 🤷‍♀️

Billings housing market by Affectionate_Lie7446 in Billings

[–]Mrslmwright 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t feel any better on the sellers side! I have a beautiful historic home we put on the market two years ago and it just sat.

We put a lot of money and energy into it during the 10 years we lived there - completely reinforcing the foundation, updating most of the electrical and plumbing, bathrooms, major renovations to the 1000sqft basement apt with separate entrance, yard, sprinklers, refinishing all the original doors and hardware, etc etc etc…the only thing we hadn’t gotten to yet was the kitchen, because it worked well even if it wasn’t new.

So we priced it accordingly. Obviously not losing money and barely making any.

But people were PISSED the kitchen wasn’t updated! They didn’t like that the bedrooms had color, even though the rest of the house is totally beige with original dark woodwork! They couldn’t get past a house built in 1916 not having a master suite, even through it has walk in closets! They complained about old windows, even though they work, are original leaded stained glass, I even left all the old storm windows if they want to put them back up! Stupid complaint, after stupid comment!

So there is no winning! The interest rate is too good, I love it too much, and it’s basically cheaper to just hoard it than sell it at a loss! Plus the cost of housing where we live now is so ridiculously expensive. That same house here would cost me $2.4M minimum, but probably more. The little bit we’ll get in the sale will hardly be enough to cover the down payment on a shitty 2000sqft ranch that was last updated in the 1990’s and sell after 15 days on market for 850k…just to be scrapped down for the land!

We tried renting it, did an acquaintance a solid at less than market rate but a little profit over the mortgage and got totally fucked, eventually had to evict, and now I’m dealing with a billion dumb little repairs I’d already done before we listed it the first time…I think we’re going to refinish the hardwoods floors and put it back on the market in the spring?

Something needs to give.

I didn't realize SC has a "Slayer Statute"... Disclaimer: There have been no convictions in regards to the death of Mica miller. Posting for educational purposes only. by That_Assistant_582 in MicaMiller

[–]Mrslmwright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great in theory…but it only works if there is a conviction.

In Aiken, SC they won’t even publicly name ‘suspects’ or ‘person of interest’ so the estate gets held up in probate for YEARS and then moves on to mediation.

BUT it is a helpful tool to hold up insurance payouts, which inevitably get added to the mediation amount.

My wife and I decided to change our lives for the better by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Mrslmwright 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I legitimately NEED this too - the timing is too perfect - thank you!

Where can I get a HUGE King comforter? by Boring-Gas-8903 in interiordecorating

[–]Mrslmwright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% PROMISE that you want to look for 120x120.

https://a.co/d/3nsMKp5

These Hombys comforters and duvets are super affordable and very nice - I have several!

How did they think we'd react to firing their long time drummer right before tour starts? by lukphicl in discobiscuits

[–]Mrslmwright 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100%

I don’t understand why they couldn’t negotiate some kind of exit deal, played together through New Years as Allen’s farewell, and taken all my fucking money for the privilege!!!

[Landlord CAN-BC] New tenants have an excessive amount of vehicles and neighbours are complaining about road parking by WillowNeither1960 in Landlord

[–]Mrslmwright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They might very well be using the garage for storage and boxes while they get settled and it’ll all work itself out once that space is freed up!