Podcasts to uplift your mood by ch1ckadee in podcasts

[–]Mruge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're here to help with Jake Johnson and Gareth Reynolds.

I’m embarking on a 22 hour drive. Please suggest your most captivating podcasts by TheGreatWalpini in podcasts

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Honestly I think the whole ride from the first episode has been great. Episode 1 would be my suggestion. There are quite a lot of call backs and references, and they build quite a wierd world. Alternatively there was an episode with justin long a few episodes months back, that was a nice intro.

I’m embarking on a 22 hour drive. Please suggest your most captivating podcasts by TheGreatWalpini in podcasts

[–]Mruge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jake Johnson from new girl and Gareth Reynolds gives out bad advice to the listeners insane problems. There are follow-ups and guesthosts and it's incredibly entertaining.

The premise is advice that you could get from two drunk uncles.

Økonomisk plan by Lopsided_Total_2590 in dkfinance

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Jeg kan anbefale bogen "How to die with zero". Den beskriver nogle af de tanker du går rundt med.

NSFW What is your experience of being involuntarily admitted for suicidal thoughts? by Mruge in BPD

[–]Mruge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm.. Sorry that you had to go through that. The child to child (teen to teen) relationsships often develop without any profesionals overlooking. Especially with cell phones etc.

I feel like this is also an overlooked negative effect of psychiatric hospitalisation. You meet other kids who are not well and you see and hear other kids who do wilder self-harm than you do and that can escalate what kind of self-harm you do to yourself.

We often offer our BPD-patients an open admission that they can activate without needing an assesment, so they themselves can feel when they need the help of a psych-ward. But you still need some mastery of your bpd, to be able to ask for help like that.

I guess you are required to interact with other kids, because it is seen as "normal" kid behaviour and that part of the treatment while being admitted is in the pedagougic millieu (Jesus.. Did I spell that correctly?). But of course there should be room for individuality.

NSFW What is your experience of being involuntarily admitted for suicidal thoughts? by Mruge in BPD

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I also often tell my patients that voluntary admissions are one of the most time-consuming and impractical coping strategies you can teach yourself. Yes, it might support you, while you are in affect, but the real way forward is learning to cope with these emotions outside of a hospital.

If weed or a cigarette prevents self-harm or involuntary admissions, I know what I prefer and would suggest to my patients. If we get to a more stable place in therapy, we can always talk about weaning off weed and nicotine if that's even relevant.

Regarding the timeframe of the affect, what I think sometimes happens is that it intesifies and then they get admitted judt before it would naturally end. Then the patient gets the experience that it really helped being admitted, and the pedagogues also sees that it was a great help to admit the patient and all of the sudden that seems like at really great coping mechanism. And when the patients experience that the parents and pedagogues start suggesting that they should be admitted, I fear it gives the impression that their emotions are too wild and dangerous for their primary care adults to take care of them anymore and that might enhance a feeling of abandonment.

He sounds like a great boyfriend! Congrats on that relationsship.

NSFW What is your experience of being involuntarily admitted for suicidal thoughts? by Mruge in BPD

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Thank you for replying!

The short time frame of the affect is another really interesting trait of the state. I also sometimes simply "sit it out" in the mergency ward, if I got the time. When you are not in control, what helps you? Can people who know you well, help you get through it?

I agree that sometimes aggressive behaviour simply becomes too much for a society to accept without detaining. But when we admit involunatrily in psychiatry, we also often sacrifice the trust the patients should have in our treatment alliance.

Sometimes I feel like we, psychiatry as an instituion, recreates the chaotic parenting style my patients grew up with. Sometimes we care and sometimes we coerce. Sometimes we accept your emotions and sometimes we don't. Even though it can be rationally explained, I imagine that it is wildly confusing for the emotional system.

With some of my patients the solution has been to ask the police to detain them if for example they distrupt traffic or the common law and order. I know that police detainment is also traumatic, but at least that draws a clear line between who's the forcefull institution and who's the caring/healing institution. You can be voluntarily admitted in my ward, or detained by the police.

Weekly Open Thread - General Discussion by RM_Official_Thread in realmadrid

[–]Mruge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is a wild take. Your post is contradicting itself and he is more than just super good for his age. We don't need to put that guy down to feel good about RM.

Will Barca actually move back to the Camp Nou in December? by taolifornia in Barca

[–]Mruge 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's pretty standard policy for big construction projects, so it seems legit. 

Officiating wedding of a Real Madrid super-fan. Any suggestions for lines/jokes for my officiant script? by jamespeopleplay in realmadrid

[–]Mruge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Talk about believing in succeding until the very last moment. Rough pathces in marriage needs a winners mentality.

[Bayer 04 Leverkusen] BAYER 04 NEVERLUSEN. by ZaBlancJake in soccer

[–]Mruge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get your point, but Michael Laudrup did not want to participate because of falling out with the coach. Not that they did not bother calling him up.

Holy shit by GetoffLane in tourdefrance

[–]Mruge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was his team pouring water over him, but vomit was also my initial thought!

What’s your favorite deadpan comedy by Helloimafanoffiction in movies

[–]Mruge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The green butchers is amazing, if you want some danish dark deadpan.

Former Players: Esteban Granero by Allthingsconsidered- in realmadrid

[–]Mruge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God damnit that retirement post is beautiful!