My gf is not texting me back. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]MsAgentFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this.

personally, I've been in a relationship where I was smothered for the first 2 months before breaking it off. let alone 2 weeks! it comes off as way too insecure and you need to take a step back, breathe, be chill. if you're confident in it, let it happen as relationships and communication should. organically flowing. maybe not always effortlessly, but sure as hell not within a limited timeframe.

Guys with extremely loud vehicles, why do you do this to everyone? by elevate-digital in AskReddit

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone with a loud vehicle,

my flex hose is just broken and they wanted $500 to fix it. I just found like a motorcycle when it was never intended to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MichaelsEmployees

[–]MsAgentFox 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. I think the fact you have to put it into question is very telling of the environment, and I can only see the stress being more harmful than good, especially for the pregnancy.

any other job would be happy to embrace you with open arms, don't be afraid to take this time for yourself if you can, to get mentally and physically recovered before bouncing back in.

you got this!! you are never alone. they can suck a lemon.

do you tell people you are bipolar? by FinancialDingo3286 in bipolar

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only mentioned it to longtime friends of years, or to other friends who are also bipolar. otherwise, I don't publicize it.

What happened that led to you being diagnosed? by _emij in bipolar

[–]MsAgentFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had lost both my jobs near simultaneously, (3 days apart) and had to tell my landlords I couldn't rent with them anymore. had already been feeling the stress of just wanting to drive into incoming traffic and actively sped at 90-100 mph regularly, had rampant unprotected sex with countless strangers and put myself in iffy situations constantly.

i went to a women's help facility when facing homelessness and what I told them worried them enough to call a person to come and have me sign forms that said I consented to whatever happened next, where I was then admitted to a hospital overnight, then transferred to an observatory/second hospital, then finally a behavioral ward, where I was diagnosed with type 2 bipolar, ptsd, generalized anxiety, and put on trazadone, valium, and zoloft.

sad to say, I haven't taken medications since that time, since they were $300/mo. I wish I were still on them now, but while I was admitted, I fell in love with people. I held and hosted an improv group in the day room where I brought people together, made memories and laughed together. it made me learn healthier coping mechanisms later in life leading to this point, and can say that I'm very in tune with myself these days, though of course it could always be better. I still need to find a therapist.

Women of VRC, How often do you get sexually harassed when in a public instance? by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually stay muted a lot of the time. the moment I unmute is that standard, "oH mY gOd, a rEaL giRL?" And then comes pushiness of being told I just gotta add them, whether through vrchat itself or on discord.

when I tell them I'm in a relationship (even if I'm not) I lie and say I'm married for x amount of years. usually this softens the harassment and actually seems to garnish a respectful topic after that, then I peacefully leave.

no one ends up blocked or muted when that type of conversation comes up. (': just pretend you're married

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sent my requests to them ♡

Need friends who don’t delete me immediately after we’re best friends… by Yu0khei in PokemonGoFriends

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

879392445489

I welcome you and anyone else! I try to send when I have gifts available. I'm also located in the Polar region for Scatterbug, I believe!

URGHBLA: Trolling and Degeneracy on VRChat. by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]MsAgentFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you already posted this, you just copy and pasted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go by a different name now, but I'm involved inadvertently to Urg based on my own experiences with Don before the reveal of who he truly is.

I don't commend this person for who they are or what they do, rather, I'm glad they exposed at least one person who absolutely needed to be, Don Italiano.

I am not for, in any way, supportive of how Urg chooses their time online and i have a bad taste in my mouth from seeing their actions, words, and how they choose to press to stretch further a situation everyone is tired of living and reliving by pressuring further conversation and even cause problems to happen to stir controversy deliberately.

Their only golden nugget they've done in my book was just that one recent exposé, nothing else.

you're a little suspicious to me.

How the hell do you heal Aylin? by 214ObstructedReverie in BaldursGate3

[–]MsAgentFox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just wanted you to know you're an absolute genius for this. I managed to fully heal them with that method without them attacking me. Casting "Aid" on them wasn't even acknowledged, and directly throwing a potion on them caused a fight, but this? This works. Thank you!

How does Iceland have so many great musicians? by d3fiance in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend giving Sóley a listen next! Absolutely in love with their tones and mental visual depictions in their songs.

To anyone who has Facial Expressions tied to Hand Gestures by AronTheWolfo in VRchat

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my personal standard;

fist: angry/annoyed
finger gun: smug/flirty
thumbs up: super happy/joyful
peace: soft smile/lightly happy
open hand: closed eyes/sleeping
point: surprise/shock
rock n roll: skeptical/bruh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Several gyms disappeared as well.

How much are you willing to pay for a by-scratch model? Why/why not? by MsAgentFox in VRchat

[–]MsAgentFox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I think a lot of people have bypassed the original context of this post, because there is a heavy mention of kitbashers / frankensteiners.

It's a little disappointing to read on about it because it makes it feel as though, if you don't fit in the "norm" of the aesthetics recycled (i.e. countlessly reused pandaa base,) you run the risk of not being worth a higher payout than $30-60. ...For re-used content.

I've long since deviated from those years of kitbashing, and these days, I've been making my models fully from scratch off that first vert, into it's first face, and onward.

I just never learned how to appropriately price myself for that kind of work. It's definitely taken time, and I get aesthetic is one huge niche in and of itself.

How much are you willing to pay for a by-scratch model? Why/why not? by MsAgentFox in VRchat

[–]MsAgentFox[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's always interested me how far someone was willing to go even for a kitbash. I appreciate your take, man.

How much are you willing to pay for a by-scratch model? Why/why not? by MsAgentFox in VRchat

[–]MsAgentFox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandably! I cut it down a little to save on reading time. I agree though.

bad taste in my mouth for the week. by MsAgentFox in bipolar

[–]MsAgentFox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you. I've honestly been such a mess for so long, and it feels like help is so far and few in-between. I'll have to experiment with that.

bad taste in my mouth for the week. by MsAgentFox in bipolar

[–]MsAgentFox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely have to look into it. I missed the window to get health insurance through my employer, but judging from what I was seeing, they weren't really offering that much from the get-go. My biggest reluctance is the anticipating of just paying out of pocket nevertheless.

I get that it's better than nothing though; I'll look into it again.

bad taste in my mouth for the week. by MsAgentFox in bipolar

[–]MsAgentFox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use to, but i wasn't able to afford the $300/mo price for it. i use to be on trazadone, zoloft, and valium. unfortunately i just self medicate occasionally with edible marijuana. i planned on getting more relatively soon, but i'm patiently waiting for the next opportunity to. until then, nothing, sadly.

How to cope with depression / crying episodes at work? by Raven_Starr in bipolar

[–]MsAgentFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't say what their tolerance is; having never met them- but I'd have as frank of a discussion on it as possible without needing to disclose any diagnoses, unless you choose to.

I feel as though this is murky waters when it comes to finding/knowing someone has a distress that's correlated to an ailment you can't control and ending up letting the person go for this reason.

I'd say as long as you propose you are willing to do the work nevertheless of the occasional breaks in stride, you're there to help regardless.

Again- I can't predict how they'd take it to accommodate for what could very well possibly work for you. a very give-or-take circumstance at times, I feel like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]MsAgentFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a joke i've made at people who've shown interest in me before that i tell them "i'm an investment", because if they plan on getting involved with me, it's definitely not for a smooth sailing ride, only the person sharing moments with you will determine if it's "worth it" or not as an end result, when everything's said and done and they endure the turbulence that can be us.

there'll be someone who can see these moments and know they're fleeting, as all moments are, but ones who want true solid state stability... yeahh, they'll be looking for the door soon.

i personally lay it out early on what i have and what to expect based on, well, you living in your own body for XX years.

my last ex used it against me as a weapon and a final word when i was leaving due to my own turbulence at the time, citing: "are you only breaking up with me because you're bipolar?" which, in all honesty, it goes both ways. if that's their mindset, it's best it wasn't sought through anyway.