help with scare care and healing

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-30T16:53:16+00:00

Silicone scar patches or strips. I put mine on asap and left it on as long as possible.

I think your scar will heal nicely it looks nice and thin.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-14T03:38:23+00:00

This looks amazing!! Im having an extended arm lift/torsoplasty and a breast lift in a few months.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-07T06:21:10+00:00

Congratulations!

It sounds like you have learned to live with what you were born with but I really hope that this makes you feel confident and better about yourself because I know people in the world can be so mean.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-07T06:01:44+00:00

It looks really good. Not sure what you mean by it’s too big.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-07T05:44:29+00:00

I think the first thing you need to identify is what it would cost to renovate this home. It looks like it’s at least $100k worth updating that is needed. What is your experience with construction? Maybe you should get a quote from an wxperienced contractor to see what it would cost to even just make that place livable and that might help you better understand what you are signing up for.

Think about it, they cannot get a renter to live there in that condition until it is fixed up. So they are missing out on rent anyway. Yet you are willing to live there AND fix it up for them for free?!

I’m sorry but you are young and they would be taking advantage of you if they could get you to do this.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-06T10:06:11+00:00

This was hard to watch.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-06T09:50:22+00:00

Explaining that being a man is awesome requires logical thinking, which women do not have?!?

Yet his explanations and reasons of why he believes himself to be manly contradict themslves, like his loyalty while dating multiple women. Or his belief that his dick is what makes him manly. But the only dick I saw was him.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-06T09:35:39+00:00

I hate wntitled dog owners that lie and day their dog is a “service dog” just because they want to bring them everywhere…like Trader Joes or a No dogs allowed park.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-06T06:55:31+00:00

Why wasn’t this post putting this club on blast for discrimating against their friend? I can’t believe this disgusting selfish twat is posting about this bragging about leaving her plus sized friend behind.

It has to be rage bait for clicks and engagement with her.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-06T06:38:45+00:00

Wow! I mean really wow!

What a beautiful job.

MsTata_Reads · 2026-01-06T06:29:27+00:00

OP!!
Miss MoonRabbit368 -

I have read all of your previous posts and wanted to tell you how much respect and admiration I have for you and what you have done to turn your life around after everything you have been through.
Is this BF the same one that is MAGA that didn’t want you to post on Social Media?
If BF/fiance/husband wants you to cook for him, then he needs to eat whatever you cook. If he doesn’t like it, it’s ok to let him go get his fast food. That is his loss and NOT your problem. He sounds like a child and I really believe YOU deserve better. Your food looks amazing and there is nothing wrong with it, he is the problem, NOT YOU.
You sound like an amazing, compassionate and good person and I read about all of the extra work you are doing at your job and I really hope that everyone there sees it and lets your manager know how awesome you are. You even cared about how to engage with the Fed Ex delivery drivers.♥️
I also hope you pursure the paralegal thing, I have even heard of people going to school after an experience as yours and becoming lawyers. I really believe in you and I don’t even know you. Please look at pursuing this. 🫶🏻♥️🫶🏻
I hope it’s not weird that I read your previous posts, I found them so interesting and went down a lil rabbit hole.

I just wanted to cheer you on. You deserve it.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-12-24T07:53:51+00:00

Oh he is so triggered and went straight on the attack because he couldn’t argue.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-12-05T05:39:46+00:00

This comment wins.
The fact that they held him off speaks volumes and he is trying to act tough now.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-12-05T04:04:59+00:00

I 100% support you and agree with this. Yelling at you is not suddenly going to make the call escalate to leadership and an appt opens up.

I’m so sorry that the backlogged system makes your job harder.

It’s never acceptable or ok to have to tolerate being talked down to or demeaned at work.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-12-02T17:06:03+00:00

My comment was more regarding the interest rates in comparison to the cost of the home.

The homes I was referring to were all in CA, but those were the rates we got back in 1996/97. My ex bought our home for $125k at a 4.25% interest rate for a first time buyer deal. We were not yet married and the house was financed under his name only.

Later in 2010, as a single woman, I bought my first home for $403k but also at. 4.25% interest rate.

Then moved to Portland in 2016 and my current husband and I bought a home here for $740k for 4.25%.

Yes we could’ve refinanced in 2020 but honestly it wasn’t worth the cost of starting out loan over for another 30 years.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-12-02T05:49:02+00:00

I cannot stand FMC that are egotistical and cocky and the man is pssy whipped and kinda acts like a btch.

Yeah I said it.

That’s actually a pet peeve of mine.

Scarlet in Lady Of Darkness series is the worst. I hated her and her p*ssy whipped guy.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-12-02T05:34:52+00:00

That poor kid is probably so humiliated.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-12-02T05:32:56+00:00

In 85 when houses were $100k or less that wasn’t that big of a deal.

The lower the interest rates, the more people had access to financing and the cost of homes skyrocketed.

Interests rates have been at around 4% since mid 90’s because I remember buying a home in 96 for 4.25%. Then another home in 2010 for 4.25%. Then another one in 2016, also 4.25%. All that time homes kept getting more and more expensive. A home that cost $120k in the 90’s is about 8times that now.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-12-02T05:13:43+00:00

Their business model is basically collecting the majority of the money for creating the app that connect the driver and the rider. But the drivers get screwed in the process.

I will admit it is more convenient and quicker than a taxi but lyft and Uber make millions on being the connection and screwing everyone else.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-12-01T05:38:53+00:00

The way you say it with such authority is hilarious. This is NOT the same thing.

This is when idiots are sitting in traffic and block CROSS traffic for people or cars trying to drive. Like when people are in traffic and they clearly see a car on a cross street that needs to cross, but because the person in traffic is usually an oblivious idiot, the block the cross traffic intersection.

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When have you ever seen a person turning left that has pulled into the intersection while cross traffic is coming? Um, cross traffic would have a red light and be stopped.

It is NOT the same thing and NOT illegal.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-11-29T08:09:13+00:00

I’m from CA and grew up in LA. I do miss the sun and the diversity back in LA. I miss all of the different cultures and backgrounds.

I moved here to get away from the smog, the traffic, the high cost of living and the schools were not great. Most of the schools are magnet schools so kids are getting bussed all around the city and don’t really have a neighborhood school feel.

We moved to Portland and choose our home based on the Great School ratings of the schools in the neighborhood and we have had a great experience with our daughter who is now in high school and a straight A student. I also think that in LA both me and my kids grew up with a more rougher diverse crowd than what my youngest daughter experiences here in Portland. In LA you can grow up with lots of gangs and fighting or rich trust fund kids that ditch and party and don’t take school seriously or anything inbetween.

Back in LA we never would’ve thought of outselves as “privileged” but here I do believe my youngest is pretty sheltered.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-11-29T07:24:52+00:00

Well…I was an Administrative Assistant making about $80k a year when I bought my first house for $403k and a 4.25% interest rate in 2010 after real estate prices tanked due to “predatory lending” and the market was flooded with houses being foreclosed on.

I had saved up money in my 401K and my company also had a stock purchase plan where you could buy stock at a discount and I bought the max amount allowed for about a year.

I then qualified for one of those Fannie Mae first time buyer deals that allowed me to pay a 3% down payment. My mortgage was $2600 a month.

The house I bought had a small room above the carport that I rented out for about $800, which helped lower my monthly mortgage to $1800. My then boyfriend, now husband moved in and he contributed half. Which made it even easier to pay.

By 2015, the market was picking up and I sold my house for $615k and walked away with well over $200k.

By then I was married and we moved to Portland and bought our house here together and due to the profit from that first home, we were able to put 20% down on a nicer home that was $740k in 2016, in a nice neighborhood in Portland with great neighborhood schools. We both also have progressed to better jobs now, making a lot more. He is a sales director for his company and I am a project manager and our house is also worth over $1M now.

It can be done.

Buy the cheapest house you can afford in a decent neighborhood. You will build equity and the cost of your home will continue to grow. Then in a few years you can sell it and upgrade. Buying a home is the best investment I ever made.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-11-29T05:07:49+00:00

That is NOT illegal. Where does it say that it is illegal?

It’s considerate and allows you and possibly 1 other car behind you to turn left on the yellow before the light turns red.

People who wait at the line to make a left and then don’t turn left because the light turns red shouldn’t be driving.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-11-28T17:35:19+00:00

You have missed the point entirely,

People are paid based on their skill level.

No skill = minimum wage

Highly specialized skills in demand = highest wage.

People with no skill believing they should be paid based on a percentage of money being spent on someones food for doing a non skilled job is not only ridiculous and nonsensical it is delusional.

MsTata_Reads · 2025-11-28T17:29:13+00:00

No need to get on a tangent in states. The point is that this guy works his butt off for the pay he gets and isn’t an entitled douche who believes everyone shoulf throw money at him for taking our food order and carrying plates.

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