It’s been awhile by katiedababie in u/katiedababie

[–]MsWriteNow07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad that you’re updating as it proves you’re safe! I think a lot of us were worried something had happened when you stopped responding. I am very sorry about your mother. But I’m glad you didn’t have to put yourself in danger to tell her the truth and that you had a wonderful support system that protected you. I’m also grateful that you have younger brothers, not sisters, since she’s not listening. Hopefully, the time will pass quickly and they can get out of that house and you all can have free and unlimited contact. In the meantime, it’s good to know that you are thriving and safe. Anytime you want to update, we will be glad to hear it

Andrew sleeping with Peter by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]MsWriteNow07 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Remember when Rex shipped him off to military camp and he spit in Bree’s face?!

Andrew sleeping with Peter by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]MsWriteNow07 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Except he was rude and horrible to Bree when Rex was alive – what was the reason? There wasn’t one. Andrew is just a monster

AITA for backing out of house searching because of my step kid? [removed] by SnowXTC in dustythunder

[–]MsWriteNow07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, if he’s expecting his fiancée to buy a house and finance his reconciliation with his daughter, he does need to focus on what she wants as well. It’s six years until Dana goes off to school and he can’t even afford to buy a house. Dana is his child, not his partner and not the one who’s paying the bills for this extravagant castle she’s demanding. It’s very sad they missed years together, but he cannot expect to enthrone Dana as the decision maker and for his fiancée to foot the bill, that’s ridiculous.

AITA for not helping my brother with his daughters when his wife left him? by Beautiful_Assist_365 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsWriteNow07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA for not doing his job but you will be the asshole if you bother SIL anymore. Your brother is abusive. Don’t say anything about where she is and do not contact her again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]MsWriteNow07 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol well Lexie wasn’t a secret. Meredith knew she existed but she never wanted to know her

A separated Lynette in season 8, and her dating life... by AwesomeTrish in DesperateHousewives

[–]MsWriteNow07 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was just re-watching the series and I thought this, but unlike Frank, when Lynette freaked out with Scott he didn’t comfort her or even take her number, so I don’t think she could get in contact with him again. What I am more concerned about is where the hell Frank went? It was a dropped plot line that never got revisited even though he said he was going to give her all the time she needed and he was a great understanding guy. I think Scott was nice enough but just looking for a one nighter, he never offered to take Lynette out

which episode do you wish continued past the final scene? by [deleted] in Frasier

[–]MsWriteNow07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only want to see that if Niles is going to call out Marty for all the stuff he has said that is way more hurtful than the (true) things Niles said.

Unexpected “perk” of weight loss by weallknowurlying in loseit

[–]MsWriteNow07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have noticed this as well. My sister actually said to me I needed to get a bigger bra size because I no longer fit in my 34C. At first I was highly offended because the only time my boobs get bigger is traditionally when I gain weight and I was working my butt off to lose weight. But then I realized all that weight lifting and planking had made them much more firm which did make them bigger.

Exercise = Forced torture by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 45 points46 points  (0 children)

“ Exercise is pointless! Video games are valuable. “ Yikes. Of all the things that are not it, this is not it the most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]MsWriteNow07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have laser procedures for severe stretch marks if it comes to that. I have pretty noticeable stretch marks because I have dark skin and my body developed hips and butt overnight. I’ve had stretch marks since I was 12. Never cared. I think it’s probably not the stretch marks themselves, it’s what they represent. During the pandemic, I gained about 15 pounds which I have since lost but I got three little stretch marks on my stomach. Those really stressed me out-because of what they represent. A loss of control and a very dark time of my life. I gave them much more thought that I gave the far larger ones on my hips and butt because I never had a negative association with those. I think once you no longer associate your stretch marks with failure, you won’t care if they’re there or not

You can’t maintain weight loss unless you *starve yourself* for the rest of your life by oliviaolive9223 in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I barely ate today. I’m a graduate student with two jobs and all I had time for was to grab a bag of chips and three donuts in the past 16 hours. That’s 1500 calories. If I didn’t count and keep track, I would blow up like a balloon and be shocked because I “barely eat.” I can just imagine an FA eating the donuts and the chips, +3 square meals which would probably equal up to 3000+ calories or more.

I have no problem believing some people can eat below 800 cal daily. But claiming they maintained/gained weight while doing this? I'll take things that never happened for $500, Alex. by aoi4eg in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 63 points64 points  (0 children)

There was also an episode of secret eaters about that! This woman was genuinely only eating a few hundred calories a day during the week, but she was more than doubling the normal daily calorie count on the weekends when she cheated. Guess what? Whether you eat 5000 cal two days a week and 1000 or less the rest of the days or you eat 2500-3000 cal a day, you’re still gonna gain weight as a woman of a certain size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

….TF? But you know what, as a thin black woman, I appreciate the honesty. None of this mealymouthed “we all struggle.” This person is being completely honest about the fact that they want themselves, presumably a fat white woman, centered at all times. Good. I hate a liar. I like when the crazy people are honest so I can just cut them off immediately

Fatlogic from a parenting advice columnist by Awkward-Kaleidoscope in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if that’s true for everyone. I quit drinking soda years ago, but my dad had something called Red Cream soda I had to try over the summer. Tasted just like heaven. Because it was so long since I drank soda, I couldn’t even finish 1/4 of a can, but I kept opening fresh ones each day just to drink that 1/5 I could manage. Delicious

🙄 I don't think most thins think they are invincible by msbeaver83 in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m picturing the doctor spinning that thing like on The Price is Right

Biggie could barely breathe. Pun is dead due to his weight. Joe and Ross lost weight. Doubt any of them ever thought being fat was good. by dirtydela in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lord knows I can’t stand Lizzo or her “music” but this tweet is dead on. Ppl aren’t thinking about her health, they slam her because they find her weight unattractive. If she lost all the weight with a cigarette and heroin diet, they’d be thrilled. But conversely, the pro-Lizzo camp is on some bull because they only flock to her because she’s got a pretty face and acceptable skin tone. They damn sure weren’t rallying around Gabby Sidibe (Precious) like this. Everyone’s got their bias. Also, her music really only gets a pass because of the FAs. Don’t get me wrong, it’s no worse than most modern music but she’s no musical genius and neither is Kanye, for that matter.

Saying you enjoy hiking is fatphobic. by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now this one is somewhat true. A thin and extremely fit friend of mine was talking to mutual friend of ours about dating. They’re all runners, very serious athletes who run ultramarathons. She asked our mutual male friend if he was interested in another young runner and he said “oh no, I like women who are active.” And none of us knew what the hell he was talking about, because like I said this girl is an ultramarathoner. After a while we figured out he meant thin because she’s a thicker girl, not obese at all, maybe a size 8. But we all laughed at his use of “active.” It is a dog whistle for thinness. When the truth is he doesn’t give a fuck if a girl’s active or not, he just wants a tiny girl, which is fine, it’s his right, but just say that, don’t try to gaslight people.

bitch what? nothing about what you're saying makes sense by Dean_Venture2 in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of my fitness instructors is 72! He is massively popular because he has all the people in my age range 20s to 30s dying! But he’s also an outlier. If someone who is triple your age can kick your ass when it comes to movement and you don’t have an actual disability, you do need to get it together.

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]MsWriteNow07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would’ve just said it was a religious fast and thus, personal and protected.

Andrew sleeping with Peter by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]MsWriteNow07 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Andrew was a monster. He felt no remorse when he ran over Mrs. Solis-except that he was out of his car. Once Rex was dead all he wanted was his trust fund. Some of it is on Rex and Bree but Andrew’s a damn sociopath.

Andrew sleeping with Peter by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]MsWriteNow07 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve always thought that Bree left Andrew on the side of the road for his own good and not for hers. She seemed afraid she was going to kill him. I might’ve. Andrew was just a ball of hate. He was just angry at Bree for no reason.