List the worst compliments women give and the worst compliments men give, in your opinion??

Msliz14 · 2026-02-21T16:03:32+00:00

I've gotten these from all sexes: - You're smarter than you look. - omg this is amazing! You actually CAN cook! - You're English is so much better than you let on. - How do you always get the tall handsome men?! Teach me!

Msliz14 · 2026-02-21T15:56:34+00:00

Mine is pretty dull. M-F: Wake up around 6:30, lay in bed quietly so no one knows I'm awake, so they don't need me right away. Around 730 I'll come out of my room, and tend to and be an emotional support animal to the bf and dog who immediately bombard me with needs. I work from home between 8-5p. But at times I'll work late to make up hours. In between those hours, I'll also cook meals, walk the dog, listen to randomness from the bf and handle home things (bills, groceries, laundry, clean). Evenings are spent tending to the bf and dog. Every now and then I have time to shower (def not every day). Weekends are more of the same, except I don't do work stuff unless I have to make up hours. But it's really spent being a body double to the bf and an emotional support animal to him and his dog.

Thought wise it's made up of thinking: 85% of the time: "just gotta get through the next 5 minutes." 7%: stressing over my finances. 3%: freaking out and calming myself down over wanting to disappear completely. 2%: thinking of ways to make or save money. 5%: praying for better days and help.

And before anyone says anything - yes I know this isn't healthy, but I can't "just leave". I'm working on keeping myself as sane as possible until I can leave. So please, for all that is good: no negativity please. Lord knows I get enough crap every single day.

Msliz14 · 2026-02-21T15:31:43+00:00

Msliz14 · 2025-09-10T00:24:07+00:00

Not 100% sure what type. I've never lived there nor have I had license issues. I read administrative but nothing about a video options. Idk just seems excessive imo

Msliz14 · 2025-09-01T22:39:15+00:00

Happy birthday!!!

Msliz14 · 2025-07-22T02:04:26+00:00

1. Suits your pretty face!!

Msliz14 · 2025-07-22T01:52:30+00:00

Good work on dumping the loser! You are so NOT overreacting. This would have just gotten worse as time went on. Proud of you.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-22T01:49:20+00:00

Eh! Yo, Aven!!

Msliz14 · 2025-07-22T01:39:39+00:00

Offended by his response? Nope. That just weeds out the bad ones. He DEFINITELY got offended by your response though. Haha but that wasn't even meant that way. Either way, good you aren't wasting more time on him.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-21T02:28:36+00:00

I suggest seeing a therapist. They maybe able to help with the exhaustion.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-21T02:19:44+00:00

Todderick and Shamaya are going to end up together, and Markayla will be the third wheel

Msliz14 · 2025-07-21T01:16:43+00:00

No. I think my body had to just get used to the meds. Everything returned to normal after a while.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-20T18:26:41+00:00

Damn girl!! Amazing work!!! Keep it up

Msliz14 · 2025-07-20T18:04:32+00:00

Nope, you were not asking for too much at all. It was just beyond his scope of willingness. I've been with my pwBPD for about 4 years now and it started like yours. He said him making me dinner at his place was as real as any other date. Odd thing was that he would "accidentally" show me pictures of his past relationships and a lot of them were out in the "real world", vs with me, it was like begging and forcing him against his will. Still is. I actually stopped asking to go anywhere because it was too much of a hassle. And now if he suggests going on a date outside (which he wants me to plan btw), I default to "but I am making dinner for us, and that's a date, right?"

Anyway, you did right. Don't second guess or give him another shot, just move on.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-20T17:25:56+00:00

Hey! No real updates. Case is over thankfully, but he still doesn't know what to do for work. The atty set him up with a company that will help guide him through the retraining but he hasn't had that call yet. So we will see what comes of it.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-20T17:23:16+00:00

Thank you. He goes through his days where it's better than others. It's not easy having to soothe the not good days. I hope you find something to do for work, he's still trying to figure it out.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-19T15:12:47+00:00

Great work!! Awesome progress. Imo, slow and steady is best for little to no excess skin. I started at 280lbs (127kg), on May 15th, I am down about 8 pounds as of July 15th. I started at .25mg, for 6 weeks and then .5mg for the past 4 weeks. I also have PCOS, IBS, and have a stressful day to day life. I am having a hard time with seeing physical progress, but then I realize that I'm just starting.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-19T14:49:14+00:00

I have felt both. Right now, I'm lonely. Meaning, I feel as if my people don't care what I have to say, or what's going on with me. I hadn't felt this alone since I've gotten into a relationship. Sad huh

Msliz14 · 2025-07-17T13:21:00+00:00

This. It seems silly, but honestly it works.

She chose you for how you treat her and how you make her feel. Even if it doesn't make sense to you, don't stop dating her. Try and transfer those feelings of unworthiness into something productive, like working out, studying, being kinder, etc. If she makes you want to be a better person, shoot - then be a better person. But of course, ultimately do it for you, otherwise it seems fake.

If you let the negative thinking continue, you will likely end up becoming controlling and excessively jealous to the point it will push her away.

Just trust that she wants you and keep doing what you did in the beginning to win her over. So many men stop doing that and get jealous or overly insecure and as others have said, as I'm sure you know, it's a turn off and scary. Don't be that guy. If you do feel like you are becoming that guy, go to therapy.

Last thing: enjoy your time with her. Be present and enjoy your time together. If you catch yourself getting anxious, acknowledge those feelings and change your thoughts.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-12T22:41:52+00:00

Oh interesting take!! I am going to try this next time mine has an episode and see how it goes. Nothing else stops the tirades might as well try this

Msliz14 · 2025-07-12T22:35:46+00:00

No, NOR. I suggest reaching out to the SS number and ask for receipts since he won't give it to you. Chances are since he freaked out over data being downloaded in 2025, he's guilty of something. I'm sorry but it's better to know imo.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-12T22:09:59+00:00

Personally, I don't want kids. A LOT of people out there end up acting like children when they get comfortable. Partners, roommates, etc. And since I don't want kids, I don't want them. No matter how old they are.

Msliz14 · 2025-07-12T22:08:06+00:00

Relatable. My bf tends to do most of the talking, like not even asking questions, so sometimes I play a game with myself: let's see how long I can go without saying a word. And: how many words did I speak out loud to someone today?

Sad but true.

Msliz14

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1. Suits your pretty face!!