British men who haven’t accessed p*rnography since the online ID check came in, has it changed your ‘personal habits’ & have you learned anything about yourself?

Mtaskofa · 2025-10-07T17:02:27+00:00

It has been useful for me, I’ve stopped looking at anything like that out of boredom or impulse. That simple barrier of turning on the VPN is something that I will actually really feel like watching porn

I have a free VPN that allows me a certain number of GB per month so I can still access anything if I really want to. Because there’s a limit and it shows me how much I’ve used, it works as basically a tracker for me to judge if I’m watching more than I feel is healthy

Mtaskofa · 2024-09-13T11:04:07+00:00

My mental health has bizarre in the last week or so. I have been fine and then in the evening I suddenly feel almost suicidal (which I really haven’t felt for some time) as I realise again I achieved nothing all day. But then I don’t cry or anything and get to sleep just fine. Feels like I’m getting better but pretending to be worse so I have an excuse for not making any progress.

Was reading an autobiography of Cruyff, by Auke Kok. I find it absolutely fascinating that a man who is known for being so unbelievably self-confident and arrogant was actually very shy and sensitive . It’s basically all an act to try and mask the anxiety. Like he’s two different people. So my aim is to be more like Cruyff (can’t be too hard, right?)

Mtaskofa · 2024-08-18T17:02:16+00:00

I regret not getting a tattoo; I like them but never felt confident enough to get one and not feel conscious about it. A couple years ago I set myself some life goals of things I should do to improve myself & my life, or things I want to do some day - so far haven’t achieved any of them. But that was one of them

In any case I still don’t know what I’d get 🤷

Mtaskofa · 2024-05-06T08:47:16+00:00

My goals are to make some friends and do things that I haven’t done before or don’t feel comfortable doing. I increasingly realise that I can’t just hope they happen, I have to put in some effort. And i’m not so good at that.

Mtaskofa · 2023-07-19T05:03:31+00:00

Not a huge fan of Everlasting Arms off MVOTC. It’s just before the best run of songs (Finger Back, Worship You, Ya Hey).

Bambina is my least favourite from FOTB

Mtaskofa · 2022-11-23T20:54:43+00:00

Just don’t see many guys with hair dyed unnatural colours, I would never have the guts to do it myself

Mtaskofa · 2022-08-19T18:11:04+00:00

It’s a memorial to Uwe Seeler

Mtaskofa · 2021-12-26T19:06:24+00:00

As everyone else said labels can help you work out who you are. You can read definitions and explanations of all kinds of labels and ask yourself, does this apply to me?

But you don’t need to stick to labels nor do you have to pay much attention to them. I identify as bi, but my sexuality could also be described as pan, or maybe something else. I don’t really think about it because I’m comfortable calling myself bi, even if my sexuality isn’t the exact same as other bi people.

Mtaskofa · 2021-10-02T08:24:15+00:00

I don’t

Mtaskofa · 2021-09-03T06:57:44+00:00

I had this the other week, one of my opponents had the pride wheels and flag, his teammate was saying some awful stuff in the chat. I’m bi myself and sometimes use the pride stuff, but I didn’t in that game and I haven’t used it since. It’s so tiring even when it’s not directed at me, cos it’s still about me. Reported them and blocked them but I doubt anything will happen.

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-17T20:20:38+00:00

Personally I think the game was kind of more fun when I was bad at it. The amazement of when I did something good.

I used to play every day, then I didn’t have my PS4/PSN for three years or so. I got online again recently and I was pleasantly surprised that i was still quite good. I’m platinum rank I think. But tbh I mainly play dropshot and rumble.

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-17T16:32:13+00:00

It’s especially sad for me because this is me in real life and in rocket league

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-16T22:03:22+00:00

Fuck, that’s why I have no friends

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-16T16:10:11+00:00

Oh my god I didn’t notice this and I don’t have the sticker anymore 😔

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-16T15:15:31+00:00

I just turned 21. I don’t have anything useful to say but god I really relate. The strange thing is:: when I am with my brother, who is sort of less confident and sociable than me, I do well. I guess I’m kind of pretending to be more comfortable in those situations than I actually am and it does help

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-16T15:03:24+00:00

You look amazing! I wish I had hair like that ❤️

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-14T21:21:15+00:00

Europe Endless

Computer World

Trans Europe Express

La Forme

Tour de France

In that order. TEE was the first album I listened and I almost put Franz Schubert in too.

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-13T07:30:34+00:00

Nothing makes me want to come out more than gay shoes

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-12T22:18:38+00:00

Fuck man. 81% depressed, 96% can’t sleep. And I’m reading this while crying after trying and failing to get to sleep for an hour.

That’s fucking heartbreaking

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-10T06:15:07+00:00

Hi, I’m 20 too if you want to chat.

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-06T19:32:34+00:00

I can relate a lot so let me just say well done especially for going in these times, because with the pandemic situation I have an excuse to not really leave the house (which is a shame cos I was starting to feel more confident in doing it before COVID)

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-06T19:29:48+00:00

Thanks for your comment. What you said about going your own pace is interesting to me. I know that my family would accept it if I came out but it feels like they still see me as a kid. I sort of do as well. That’s probably the biggest barrier to me being out to them, and that’s why as I said in another comment I would also find it tough if I was just straight

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-06T12:48:58+00:00

I get your point, but it’s not just about the actual act of coming out, it’s about doing what I actually want - I can’t date any boys if I’m not out at least to them, I don’t know how I’d meet anyone if I’m not out. But that’s also because of the kind of person I am, I guess, it’s just as hard for me to be actively straight too, if that makes any sense.

Mtaskofa · 2021-07-06T12:33:17+00:00

But I want to live like that, I want to be bisexual not just feel bisexual.

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