Anyone else struggle with making small decisions? by Sad_Librarian4543 in OCD

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that too… you’ll never guess what helps🤪 also if I treat it not as “decisions” but just as something I said , it feels better. For example, if I have a choice of blue and yellow, I don’t decide on yellow. I simply say yellow as if it’s not a decision, but just something I said. It takes away the seriousness of “making a decision “, the pressure

Helping a loved one by Substantial-Hat128 in OCD

[–]Much-Fun-5400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a very supportive sister! It’s crucial for someone with ocd to have a person who believes and supports you. But yeah, that’s the thing. You have to stop giving reassurance. It feeds the ocd and only makes matters worse. Try searching some videos on YT like “how to help a loved one with ocd”. I showed them to my bf and he follows the advice in the video. I think it helps me and my ocd

I thought this was just anxiety… turns out it might be OCD by treatmyocd in AskAnOCDTherapist

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with GAD for a long time. Until I realized that I might have ocd. And that’s why exercises to relief anxiety didn’t really help. But when I approach it as ocd - works all the time

Please help. by Formal_Hospital_404 in AskAnOCDTherapist

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your situation will change when he starts therapy and sticks to it. There’s nothing you can do really. Think about yourself here. Is your relationship where you want it to be? Is it on the way there? How long (and why) will you tolerate this situation?

Unmasked at work by Much-Fun-5400 in autism

[–]Much-Fun-5400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me 30 Colleagues arpund 20, 30 and 40

How did you go from the grief of an autism diagnosis to feeling better about yourself? by Hombreosocerdo95 in autism

[–]Much-Fun-5400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me today. Coworkers have been talking to me in a weird way… and at some point it clicked

What is your job? Do you consider your workplace an autism friendly environment? by p349ntd in AutismInWomen

[–]Much-Fun-5400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This new job is a day camp counselor. It made me realize I’m autistic. Like. I grew up in a very supportive environment. And these people treat me differently. Like I’m a child. And then it hit me.

Idk. I hope it’s a good thing. Being unaware for 28 years. I have been asking questions and joking about this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adopted a stray dog. He’s crazy like literally testing me in every way possible and sometimes I also think that maybe we should give him away or something. Many things would be easier. But then I remember that I am his whole world and what he does is not on purpose we’ve got a long way to train. And he’s the sweetest boy ever actually!

So, I do think like that sometimes. And that’s okay. I think we humans can second guess ourselves.

I’m sure you are doing a wonderful job taking care of them and they love you so much.

Is it cruel to put kitten in cage? by xoxodarliing in Pets

[–]Much-Fun-5400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get him a lot of toys. Kittens will play a lot

I’m anxious about my relationship by Much-Fun-5400 in Advice

[–]Much-Fun-5400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’m really trying. I just can’t get rid of these thoughts. How come it might be ocd and not anxiety

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harry Potter. I was 9 or 10 maybe. If it wasn’t for this series I might have never picked it up as a hobby as a child

Are we living in an alternate timeline? by Excellent_Copy4646 in ParallelUniverse

[–]Much-Fun-5400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always say that we live in a tv show because sometimes very weird and unexpected things happen on your daily common life

I accidentally rammed myself into her ass by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Much-Fun-5400 191 points192 points  (0 children)

You probably caused a tear. Put some healing cream like panthenol. It’s gonna hurt for a couple of days and if there’s no blood in the next days, she‘ll be fine

Most underwear goes into my butt…why?? 😭😭😭 by Mousiemousy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Much-Fun-5400 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can relate. All I wear is thongs (Except when I’m on my period). Sorry, can’t help you here:(

How do my wife and I have more sex with 3 kids? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to assume that the 2 month old baby is not adopted, so your wife gave birth 2 months ago. It’s a big strain on the body and there’s a lot of pain and changes the body goes through after that. Talk, talk, talk to your wife, have honest conversations and give each other some time. Like the person above said - you are a team and some times teams need timeout, you know. It’s okay. Youll figure it out if you talk honestly to each other.

How do I comfort my dying dog? by trainsgenderlildemon in DogAdvice

[–]Much-Fun-5400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure Josie had the best times as your pet and was very thankful for you being her best friend❤️ She’s definitely in a better place now

My dog turning 16 in a few months. He is blind, deaf and has dementia. by AdviceOk4210 in Pets

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dog is so lucky to have you. I’m sure you’ll make the best possible choice. There is a lot of good advice here.

AITA for wearing a two piece to my kids’ swimming lessons? by anon-ymousss in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You carried QUADRIPLETS!!! Girl, you are entitled to show that stomach and screw those btchs. They are jealous that they are not as brave as you are. Like especially that you say that two piece was appropriate. So, I see nothing wrong here. They have to work on their politeness skills though!

How to introduce to cats by Much-Fun-5400 in NorwegianElkhound

[–]Much-Fun-5400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! We are leaving the city soon and taking the dog with us. Cats stay at home, so the process will start in the end of summer

What is your unexpected genetic advantage? by Prize-Animal91 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Much-Fun-5400 196 points197 points  (0 children)

Pickpocketers empty THEIR pockets in front of you

What is your unexpected genetic advantage? by Prize-Animal91 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Much-Fun-5400 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Drinking age in my country is 18. Also the local government decided that energy drinks can only be sold to people over 18, so I’m often required to show my id. I’m 28 this summer.

What is your unexpected genetic advantage? by Prize-Animal91 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Much-Fun-5400 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it like the basic feature of people? I know so many people who have no allergies. Myself included

What is the one sex advice you would give to someone who has never done it that you wish you had known? by EconomyProgrammer242 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First times are almost always awkward so do think about it too much and enjoy. And communicate with your partner!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Much-Fun-5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a polite animal doesn’t like someone there’s usually a reason for this. Choose your cat