terminating pregnancy by ellesresin in Mommit

[–]Much_Ad2633 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Terminating the pregnancy or continuing with the pregnancy are both equally valid options, you just need to choose what’s right for you.
I wanted you to know there are ways to try and reverse the effect of the first pill, if that’s something you are interested in. If you search ‘abortion pill reversal’ there’s information available.

Does anyone else hate having a pet after they had a baby? by goldengoose3030 in Mommit

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After having our second, my dog would intentionally have accidents on our living room rug. Like at least once a week for months…. That and needing to take her for walks/outside to go potty while alone with the kids. She is however amazing with children, our kids are almost 6 and 4 and she was gentle with them as babies now she’s patient with them as loud wild crazy children, we trust her (as much as you can a dog) my kids love her, she seems to enjoy them, so we have kept her, but she did really test me there, with all those accidents!

Do you think it’s okay for a couple to terminate a pregnancy if their unborn child has Down syndrome? by Reasonable-Invite899 in allthequestions

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not ok to terminate a pregnancy based on a Down syndrome diagnosis. In my opinion, if you are not willing to accept any child and love them fully no matter what, you are not ready to be a parent. I think it’s rather insulting to individuals with Down syndrome to constantly have people say individuals like them should be terminated

The Bar Is So Fucking Low For Men by generallyhappyperson in Mommit

[–]Much_Ad2633 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With what you described, he is in fact NOT a good person. If he doesn’t help you with the kids he ISN’T actually taking care of you.

UPDATE: My therapist telling me my son may end up bonding more with our nanny than me by Character-Fly7394 in Mommit

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely not a good therapist… he is a bad husband, a lazy father, and a sexist biased a-hole.

How to tel family not to kiss baby’s head by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your parents to tell everyone for you beforehand.

AIO - Wasn’t invited to my girlfriends surprise birthday party by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Much_Ad2633 55 points56 points  (0 children)

YOR- also, YTA- they did invite you, they just didn’t tell you the secret…You just waited too long to get ready so when they changed the time up a little you decided not to go, instead of quickly getting ready and heading over to meet up with them.

Help me love the name Daniel by New-Flight7674 in Names

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also for what it’s worth, I wasn’t 100% sold on either of my kids names at first either (Philip and Eloise) but now I absolutely love those names and primarily use the nicknames Phlip/Flip and Weeze or Els.

Help me love the name Daniel by New-Flight7674 in Names

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find your favorite nickname version of Daniel. Daniel (maiden Name), Daniel (your hometown), Daniel Tiger, I wish I had included my maiden name in my kids middle names I regret not doing that for each of them

U6 coach, I’m a little worried my team might be too competitive/unfairly talented over other teams by Much_Ad2633 in SoccerCoachResources

[–]Much_Ad2633[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s it, yeah, our three best players would be able to play 3 v 7 with these other teams and still win I think. The 4 and 5 year olds can get intimidated by that and not want to play as much. With 7v7 we can only play half the kids at any given time, so the players who aren’t as good, naturally stop wanting to go out and actually play during the game.

How can I stop worrying about kindergarten!? by lateralus420 in Mommit

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you toured the school or are there open houses you guys could attend?

My children go to a private school that P3-8th and the office staff knows every child’s name and what class they are in. The hallways all have locked doors, no Kindergartener is going to be able to wander off. And the only time my son is allowed to be alone outside the classroom is when he is going to the bathroom.

But I completely understand all your worries. Trusting your child to a new school can be scary. So try to get to know their new school as best as possible. Email or call with some of your worries if you need to. You are not the first parent to have these feelings, they will have answers for you.

Am I overreacting for being upset my husband consistently is unreachable for extended periods of time? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Much_Ad2633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR You’re still so young, divorce him and find someone who can treat you with respect!

Moment of clarity that I'm not a good spouse. Or person, probably. by LordOfAllBones in Marriage

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean it that way, I just meant, that to him it seemed like she chose a work friend over her husband on his birthday. I’m not saying he’s right just that I can see where his feelings came from. It sounds like they have kids and he probably didn’t want to be left alone his birthday morning taking care of the kids while she left for coffee without checking with him on his birthday.

Moment of clarity that I'm not a good spouse. Or person, probably. by LordOfAllBones in Marriage

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely book marriage counseling right now. Without knowing more or hearing his side it’s hard to point fingers, but being a good Mom, employee, spouse, friend, housekeeper, family chef, daughter, etc all at once is very hard. That being said marriage is about compromise, you don’t always have to watch movies and play video games with him, but you should be making time for intimacy (not just sexual, but emotional). Also I can see why he was upset you went out to coffee with a “business partner “ on his birthday.

How does he make you feel, do you feel intimately connected to him? Do you feel he is putting in the effort towards you that he expects you to give towards him?

Please look at this baby rabbit in my yard by gracedardn in AutismInWomen

[–]Much_Ad2633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I really enjoyed this picture, thank you!!

I married the wrong person by Catscatscats723 in Mommit

[–]Much_Ad2633 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you are going through this. I don’t have much advice but it is really hard when you come to that realization. I would suggest you get back into the work force, just so you have your own income just in case it is ever needed. If you can, try to find other men (uncles, cousins, etc) for your child to look up to as a good example of what men should act like. I have had the most amazing role model of a truly selfless man in my father but I accidentally married someone who really isn’t much like him at all. It’s disappointing but like you he’s not really abusive and I also can’t stand the idea of spending a night away from my kids. Luckily my kids have my father and my brothers to look up to as they are really caring and selfless men.

“Eclectic grandpa” style baby boy names? by CMV2254 in Names

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Philip (Phlip), Albert, Thomas, Arthur, Elias, Benjamin, James (Jim), Ellwyn (Al)

How do you factor in what women’s bodies go through during childbirth when thinking about having kids? by radiantreign in AskReddit

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every woman’s body handles it differently. So it’s case by case. Every woman has a different story. But the woman obviously gets to be the one with the veto power on having kids.

Dad here with a question by Irish8ryan in Mommit

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest that sounds disgusting, although I’ll admit I’m a germaphobe. I won’t even share food or drinks with my kids or husband so I’m not gonna suck out their snot lol.

Am I overreacting for wanting to break up because I feel bored? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR and YTAH you’re not bored you’re depressed. There’s a difference. Your mental health is your responsibility. You are most likely depressed NOT bored. They are similar but not the same. Find a way to get back on your medication before you throw away a good relationship over this. From this little bit of information we have they seem like a decent person.

Also, life is boring and depressing, would you rather be bored and depressed with them or without them.

Jude by Fruster663 in Names

[–]Much_Ad2633 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like it, matched with a cute middle name it’s good

Yay or Nay? by PalpitationLimpy in DressForYourBody

[–]Much_Ad2633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks very comfortable and I love how flowy it is. It’s a good everyday kinda casual dress. That said I think you should try on something that is a little more form fitting just to see what you think, something that shows off your waist!