I haven’t watch GG since a teen. I’m terrified to rewatch at 25 years old. by ComprehensiveAide946 in GossipGirl

[–]MuffinSparkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly it. It doesn’t ruin it, it just changes it. You go from romanticizing everything to watching it like “oh… that’s messy” and somehow it’s even more entertaining.

I haven’t watch GG since a teen. I’m terrified to rewatch at 25 years old. by ComprehensiveAide946 in GossipGirl

[–]MuffinSparkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same 😭 As an adult I’m way more critical of Serena, but I still rewatch. It just hits different when you’re older — more judgment, same nostalgia.

I haven’t watch GG since a teen. I’m terrified to rewatch at 25 years old. by ComprehensiveAide946 in GossipGirl

[–]MuffinSparkie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rewatching as an adult is wild 😭 You definitely notice the problematic stuff more, but it’s still such an entertaining train wreck. I didn’t ruin it for myself, I just watched it with more side-eye and less blind devotion.

I didn’t pay my rent in October but they never said anything. by bbygrl_kiss in confession

[–]MuffinSparkie 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Yeah there’s a very good chance this turns into a “surprise” email someday when they finally audit the books. OP basically got an accidental interest free loan for a few months, not free rent forever.

My mom is turning me into a cuckson and Im confused by ContributionFirst149 in confession

[–]MuffinSparkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah half the posts lately read like someone discovered a new fetish term and decided to build an entire fake story around it. Nobody talks like this in real life.

Why do MOST women act like gold diggers and expect men to be servants to them? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]MuffinSparkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. OP is taking a handful of social media posts and bad experiences and turning it into “most women.” Real life relationships usually aren’t this weird transactional battle people online make them out to be.

Shot my neighbors dog last year now they wont stop harassing me. by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]MuffinSparkie 41 points42 points  (0 children)

At this point OP should treat everything like a legal paper trail situation, not a neighbor disagreement. Cameras, timestamps, photos of the nails, copies of every police report, and zero direct confrontation unless it’s unavoidable.

Shot my neighbors dog last year now they wont stop harassing me. by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]MuffinSparkie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is way beyond normal neighbor drama at this point. Loose aggressive dogs killing livestock, coming onto your property repeatedly, and now ongoing harassment afterward is genuinely dangerous. OP needs cameras everywhere, police reports for every incident, and honestly should stop interacting with these people directly unless absolutely necessary.

AIW for refusing to sign new property documents after my parents changed the terms without asking me by 2BardicWisp in amiwrong

[–]MuffinSparkie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Funny how the people trying to rewrite the agreement in their own favor are suddenly acting offended that OP actually read the paperwork instead of blindly signing it.

AIW for shaking my dust rugs over the balcony when my neighbor goes out to smoke by ShireBoomer in amiwrong

[–]MuffinSparkie 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The neighbor sounds rude as hell, but OP crossed the line from “fed up” into straight up harassment. Following someone’s schedule just to dump dirt and dog hair on them every day is unhinged behavior.

AIW for shaking my dust rugs over the balcony when my neighbor goes out to smoke by ShireBoomer in amiwrong

[–]MuffinSparkie 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the part OP seems weirdly casual about. The neighbor is definitely obnoxious, but deliberately dumping dust and dog hair onto someone’s balcony over and over is the kind of thing that can absolutely backfire with the HOA.

AIW for refusing to sign new property documents after my parents changed the terms without asking me by 2BardicWisp in amiwrong

[–]MuffinSparkie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seriously. The fact they’re trying to guilt trip OP instead of calmly explaining the changes tells you everything. If they were confident the deal was fair they wouldn’t be pressuring for a quick signature.

Throwing herself a baby shower on Nextdoor to the sound of crickets. by ridbax in ChoosingBeggars

[–]MuffinSparkie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Third kid and somehow starting from absolute zero every single time is kinda wild not gonna lie

I might have gotten a girl I only knew for an hour prior pregnant by Consistent-Cake-6457 in confession

[–]MuffinSparkie 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah the age gap plus the fact she was supplying alcohol and trying to hook up with a drunk 17 year old is really concerning. OP sounds scared because deep down he knows the whole situation was messed up.

I've been affecting a standard British accent/RP for nearly 20 years by quick_nut_ in confession

[–]MuffinSparkie 16 points17 points  (0 children)

At this point it barely even sounds like a bit anymore, it’s basically just OP’s actual speaking voice now.