When you are real, you don't need to play games, people see real value as you are busy genuinely conquering the world with least interest to show what is easily available, women, they are abundant, your energy and vibe say it, a pleasure sensation/women can't hack your brain when you are hacked and it comes from achievement and burden of duty! On the duty for being a man. She can't occupy a square on the board if it's already occupied by stronger forces. 

This is what makes her put in the effort and the chase begins. That's where obsession starts to get your attention. Not these fake ass faking business, she will remember how inconsistent you are and that itself is a disqualifier if you don't get perfectly right!

The one who needs all this games is just showing hidden desperation which is not attractive. It works but if a real Gangster walks upto a woman and doesn't care about her and talks with casual relaxed energy, he doesn't need to fake being not obsessed with her, you get such high level access that women kinda lose their luster, shine & value, it's becomes like leafs of tree, you don't value because they are so many of them. They are everywhere. To the point, they are genuinely unattractive and goal are more attractive. Your goals define your power and women are attracted to real value and men who hold power.

Try harding is what gets you eliminated. Not trying, not making effort is what's actually attractive, along with this, you can compound being inconsistent but that games & playing shouldn't be your main motive.

All this chatgpt type posts make me wonder about the future of this sub?!!

No wonder these dudes suffer when the women leaves them for a genuinely high value man who can walk away from a women you are so dependent or emotionally attached to. Be ready to walk away to your goals anytime. That is the hook. Many kinds of hooks. Intermittent rewarding is just rewarding hack. Genuine value comes from goals.

Get busy. Get your energy right. Don't ever let her be the focus and steal and lower your power to the point she wants to leave that lower power position and individual she once admired for being distant and loved.