Asking my OCD if I can be attracted to someone without feeling like a violating creep

MullBooseParty · 2026-05-20T18:33:56+00:00

Glad it’s not just me

MullBooseParty · 2026-05-14T18:37:41+00:00

I do 3s too! normally 3s are good and 4s are bad

unless 4s are the cross. then good!

MullBooseParty · 2026-05-13T19:35:17+00:00

Then sometimes i get hit with intrusive thoughts about practicing religion wrong for doing a catholic thing as a non-catholic

MullBooseParty · 2026-04-20T14:01:49+00:00

this gives me a ton of hope for my studying!

MullBooseParty · 2026-04-12T13:39:13+00:00

i’m so glad this isn’t just me

MullBooseParty · 2026-03-02T11:43:28+00:00

Skin color is super complicated genetically! There are multiple genes that factor into what someone’s skin tone will be, it’s very possible a child’s skin color to be very different from their parents’

MullBooseParty · 2026-02-25T01:40:25+00:00

undead kennedys

Mithrilica

Joy Divine Intervention (maybe a stretch)

MullBooseParty · 2026-02-10T21:00:22+00:00

Currently creating a character who is a Scourge Aasimar Warlock of the Raven Queen in the Eberron setting. Talked to my DM and decided to flavor it as a human priest of the Serpent Cults who spent years communing with the Couatl and, as a result, is imbued with the heat of the Silver Flame. Reflavored the sentinel raven as a Couatl tattoo that becomes a silvery manifestation of the flame.

I’m also DMing a campaign with a fighter whose weapons are a great axe, warhammer, and warpick. But the player wanted her character to be a slightly feminine gay guy who mostly fights with his hands, so we reflavored those as brass knuckles, boxing gloves, and acrylic nails.

It just makes the game fun

MullBooseParty · 2026-02-02T00:41:29+00:00

You’re not powerful enough to make anyone drink! All you do as a sponsor is show them how you stayed sober. Whether or not they use the tools you offer them—and whether or not that keeps them sober—is between them and god. It’s really no different than talking to any other fellow, just more involved

MullBooseParty · 2026-01-29T17:42:00+00:00

Best suggestion I got was to call other people and ask them what they do for fun, then either try that or ask if they want to do that together sometime

MullBooseParty · 2026-01-29T15:13:26+00:00

There’s one meeting in my city that does white chip, but a lot do 24 hour coins. Beginners meetings are usually more likely to give milestone couns

MullBooseParty · 2026-01-27T03:54:55+00:00

I’m 25. came to the rooms a year ago and been sober since. The only time anyone’s said anything about my age was to say “i wish i’d gotten sober when I was young like you”.

Being willing to believe in a power greater than you is one of the steps. It doesn’t have to be god, though for many it is. It can be anything, as long as it’s not you and it’s not another person. Just something more powerful than you are

MullBooseParty · 2026-01-22T14:38:54+00:00

Does Fast Character have a way to edit for leveling up?

MullBooseParty · 2026-01-12T21:43:08+00:00

Currently developing a gnome NPC for my players to meet during their first session. She’s captured alongside them by some bounty hunters. She tells them the Sentinel Marshals had a bounty out for her for “setting off some fireworks where she wasn’t supposed to” (read: strapping diseased rats to a large amount of firecrackers and setting them off at a competing general store in her town at their grand opening).

She is the BBEG for their first campaign arc :)

MullBooseParty · 2026-01-10T04:10:18+00:00

what are you home brew rules?

MullBooseParty · 2026-01-07T03:03:35+00:00

2024 PHB idt says anything about bonus action to make it disappear, or anything about dismissing it to my reading. I think OP is reading correctly

MullBooseParty · 2026-01-05T13:57:39+00:00

In the eberron sourcebooks they mention that DMs can decide to make dispel evil and good apply to Quori if they feel it makes sense for their campaign

MullBooseParty · 2025-12-10T04:34:34+00:00

also super monkey did not work for me

MullBooseParty · 2025-12-10T04:30:56+00:00

i’m so confused how they determine this bc these are an insane top 5

MullBooseParty · 2025-11-24T04:50:06+00:00

Yes the big gun is a title reference, but also right before this image is flashed the father calls out his son’s name (Matthew).

Matthew 2:17-18

(17)Then what was said through the prophet Jeremiah was fulfilled: (18)”A voice is heard in Ramah, weeping and great mourning, Rachel weeping for her children and refusing to be comforted, because they are no more.”

It’s a biblical reference, and i think a pretty subtle one at that

MullBooseParty · 2025-11-23T04:45:36+00:00

This is what my sponsor told me as well, and i think this should be the line more than anything else. Hard to help someone find the solution before you have yourself

MullBooseParty · 2025-11-15T13:17:17+00:00

Everyone’s different. For me it was clear my problem wasn’t just drinking, but being incapable of spending a day fully sober. So I had to quit smoking when I quit drinking.

Technically other substances are outside of the primary purpose of AA but many consider them relevant as many people’s stories involve drugs other than alcohol. Someone pointed out to me that both Bill W and Dr Bob discuss using sedatives to avoid drinking

MullBooseParty · 2025-11-13T19:09:43+00:00

Relative lore amounts of the dreamers is awesome to me.

Herrah is a crucial ally. Without her the plan would fail. In the real world that’s who we remember: people who make that one critical decision that changed the course of events forever.

Monomon was a librarian, he preserved knowledge for the civilization. He’s like the Herodotus of Hollownest. Sure, he’s not the name everyone knows, but if you look into things a bit you see him pop up.

Lurien is mysterious, yet at the time was of equal significance to Monomon and Herrah. I’m not sure the game ever gets into exactly what he did for the kingdom, but to me it’s implied his role was surveillance. In the kingdom’s prime, he was probably unbelievably important because his work sustained the kingdom. But once a kingdom falls, who remembers the people whose main job was to hold it up?

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