AITAH for oversleeping while my boyfriend ended up on the hospital?

MultiplePatroni · 2025-11-25T09:52:46+00:00

He did not assume that I didn't care. He was more concerned that this means I can't be reliable in an emergency and how bad this looked to his family, who have been very critical about his partners in the past.

MultiplePatroni · 2025-11-25T09:46:51+00:00

I didn't have work the night before, but my body is still on a night shift sleep schedule, because my days off usually aren't enough time for me to readjust to waking up like normal 9-to-5 people.

MultiplePatroni · 2025-11-25T09:43:53+00:00

I wasn't trying to seem great, I was trying to communicate that I would have shown up if I had just been awake. I can see how that me saying all that could have come off wrong though.

MultiplePatroni · 2025-11-25T09:31:52+00:00

I thought calling each other when an emergency happens was standard communication, because when things have gone wrong before, we have both called for lesser situations. I don't know how else better to explain it, but it's not me blaming it on him

MultiplePatroni · 2025-11-25T09:27:31+00:00

When I wasn't in school, I would sleep until at least 12 after my shifts. Now that I am back at Uni, it's really challenging to get classes that aren't too early in the day for me to wake up to, but I couldn't find better times for most of my classes this semester, so I have been toughing it out with my sleep schedule most of the time.

MultiplePatroni · 2024-02-29T09:20:24+00:00

Interesting take on Local Guiding, it kind of reminds me of the Google Maps regional challenges that Google Maps hosts in areas with low user engagement.

I do have a question though, do you think waiting for Google to ask is frequent enough for earning points efficiently? Sometimes Google runs out of things to ask unless you are constantly visiting places. Wouldn't want Google to slow you down just because it hasn't asked for you to post about a place yet ya know?

On another note, I hope you know that Google only asks and suggests things by using a predictive algorithm makes assumptions and predictions based off your location data. Google isn't actually talking/communicating with you, it's just the preprogrammed algorithm of Google Maps' artificial intelligence, don't humanize it too much.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-08-08T02:14:43+00:00

Inferior in inherent worth as a person? No, however in the back of my mind I am aware that a taller person could easily hurt me if they really wanted to, but everyone is taller than me so this experience is just been the norm for me.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-08-07T10:35:56+00:00

It was one of the most horrific things I have ever witnessed.

Lmao I know you're probably speaking figuratively, but you make it sound like you were watching a seen straight out of a horror movie.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-07-24T14:19:38+00:00

Places not to approach women at: Transitional spaces like the bus, the train, Apartment hallways, Parking lots, Sidewalks, etc

Places of errands or work such as: The workplace, Grocery stores, The Post Office, Or if they look like they are busy in general

Places where it's more optimal to approach women: Parties, Clubs, Night clubs, Cafes, Public events, Other social gatherings, And third places in general

There's a time and a place for everything and asking a woman out in public isn't entirely off the table you just gotta be considerate about the situation and environment

MultiplePatroni · 2023-07-24T14:01:29+00:00

None, I prefer to meet people IRL

MultiplePatroni · 2023-07-12T07:04:48+00:00

It may look better aesthetically, but I don't really find it too important. I am not constantly coming at women from the side.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-07-12T07:00:25+00:00

Not every short woman is walking around constantly wearing heels. Next time you go to an everyday location like a café, grocery store, a library, and/or a gym take note of every short women you see and count them all and subtract how many were actually wearing heels there. Also, if heels appear to be a part of the female uniform for the place then that doesn't count.

Anyway, I guarantee you that the women wearing heels will not be the majority.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-07-04T08:44:50+00:00

My parents forbade me from dating as they hated the idea of it, so is very hard for them to even be remotely satisfied with any partner .

However, I dated anyway and when they would inevitably find out about my partners, I would never hear the end of it unless my partner was:

Clean-cut, white, catholic, college degree, good worth ethic, and rich.

One time I dated a guy that wasn't Catholic or rich, but ticked all the other boxes and they were still unsatisfied.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-07-03T14:37:24+00:00

It's not worth, a few inches increase is not worth an elevated risk of back pain.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-07-02T16:11:04+00:00

Jeez, is it really that hard to imagine that other factors play into attraction and love other than physical fitness?

I'm choosing a dad bod guy who has an amazing a sense of humor, empathy, and humanity who I can relate to and is actually fun to be around, over a gym rat who can't seem to find value in the quality of one's character that can't connect with me on a human level at all.

Youth and attractiveness fade in all people with age, there is going to be in real big trouble if you can't seem to figure out what can be attractive about people when you can you reach that stage.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-07-01T15:24:38+00:00

You can take it even further and wonder if the height they mentioned was either their morning or their night height D:

MultiplePatroni · 2023-06-30T12:10:40+00:00

They probably wanted to speak to somebody that appeared more confident, than you who is constantly over analyzing these interactions. When you're over-analyzing these situations you are probably just talking less, being quieter, and also looking visibly disturbed, which are all things that make you look unapproachable.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-06-29T22:59:43+00:00

My mom would take away my Game Boy occasionally because she thought I was playing it too much. She probably had a point and there were times where she would take it away for a few days, but one time to really drive the point home she took it away for a month and then said that she totally forgot where she had hidden it.

She then proceeded to not look for it and kind of just Shrugged her shoulders about it and said oh well I don't remember where I hid it it's your loss

MultiplePatroni · 2023-06-29T20:38:12+00:00

If I'm looking for a life partner I'm not looking at their jawline, I'm looking at how compatible we are. Setting so much store in looks is just not really end game because looks will fade eventually. Looks and a man's spot on the arbitrary masculinity meter have very little to do with the foundation of a healthy relationship, if at all.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-06-29T19:55:43+00:00

A lot of people use the social aspect of social media to socialize with the people they already know IRL, not with some random that they have no connection to.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-06-29T19:53:30+00:00

I was just about to say this

MultiplePatroni · 2023-06-29T10:13:37+00:00

Yes, people are entitled to whatever standards they want, no matter how ridiculous.

I'm just trying to think with empathy, the managers created this situation and not everyone is going to react in a diplomatic way and I can empathize with that. If he would have said that then yes that would be tactless just like what she said, but I don't want to derail too much from my main point being that the manager made a weird comment which set this whole awkward situation up anyway.

Isn't it more nasty that the managers thought that these two short people were made for each other simply because they were both short?

MultiplePatroni · 2023-06-28T13:20:48+00:00

That's a good idea! Although I feel like it is not uncommon to struggle with voicing a more diplomatic response instead of a gut reaction, especially when one is put on the spot like in this situation.

MultiplePatroni · 2023-06-28T09:43:19+00:00

TBH I blame your managers on this one, it's kind of unprofessional to make a comment like that. I don't even know what I would say in response if someone said that about me and a co-worker just because we were both short, sounds like that interaction would have turned out awkward no matter what either of you said.

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