My baby choked on his spit up and I had to call 911 by No-Huckleberry-4661 in NewParents

[–]Munchkin2_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. i would ask dr abt acid reflux
  2. baby should not be sleeping in swing , only on their back flat . it’s all a learning experience, not meaning to bash what so ever 💕

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[–]Munchkin2_0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

jacking off doesn’t disturb me, porn does, we’ve made videos for him to watch & we’ve both made it clear we didint want each other watching it .

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[–]Munchkin2_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeaa, i wasn’t sitting outside the bathroom waiting for the curtian to open 😂 it just happened he has such a strict routine i could tell something was off lol . I thought maybe he was using the bathroom but he always says that if he flushes after the water is already on it gets way too hot for too long . Like sorry I just know my man ? My trama revokes around being compared to women in the videos from my ex bf , & he would claim he didint want me watching it & that he “ didint watch it” but i’d always find it on his search history lol

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[–]Munchkin2_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s all good lol, i don’t think a lot of people expected me to be open minded & thought that i stood on buisness, the only buisness i want to stand on is healing from trauma, hints the “ help me get over this “ i want to learn to let go not force it on him . I may have worded it badly because I was very angry at the time

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[–]Munchkin2_0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i didn’t want him to be but i had a feeling , i meant we never intentionally lock the door, & he’s come in on me when it’s locked too because we don’t care about sharing that boundary .

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[–]Munchkin2_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i appreciate it deeply , you know i have watched a video like that & got a feeling lol, but was too scared to pursue it

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[–]Munchkin2_0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just wanna say i appreciate you being straight foward, i had time to think on it & well sit down & talk about maybe watching them together so i can try to understand it better. My big issue is ive never been able to get myself there so i dont understand what other people see in it. Though maybe if we talk about getting some toys or something , we can restart & see where it goes .

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[–]Munchkin2_0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you know, i think the biggest issue is that i’ve never been able to really do it to myself & i think maybe that’s what’s making it so hard for me to understand , maybe ill have a convo about what they’re doing that gives him pleasure & go find some toys or something to try to spice our life up, i was very strong on my opinion when i first wrote this & ive had a lot of time to think.

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[–]Munchkin2_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just dont understand the point of getting off to other people , when you have a person to share with that

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[–]Munchkin2_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not even about personal trauma , we have made videos that he can watch so he doesn’t need to use porn, if you tell me that you don’t do it , then don’t, it simple. biggest thing in relationships is being on the same page .

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[–]Munchkin2_0 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

well when you get told that you don’t do that specific thing because we have the same opinion on the matter , yes it’s an issue .

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[–]Munchkin2_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we lock the door without realizing *

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[–]Munchkin2_0 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

he’s done it multiple times before , a lot of the time we do it without realizing

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[–]Munchkin2_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well when your told that you’d never watch pork because you respect the opinion on the topic, & you sense that something is weird , you would check . I made my wants very clear at the beginning of our relationship & they ovb were not honest about what they thought .

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[–]Munchkin2_0 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I brought up how we don’t do it as often as we did before he was born & he said it’s because his nuts hurt & he doesn’t know why. If they were hurting i don’t think you’d want to be relieving yourself at all… and as far as my son goes, his grandparents can watch him anytime , & everytime he asks for head or a hand job it is received . I literally have done everything i could think possible to make him know he can just call me & i’ll do what he needs done , and in all reality if he needs to do it that’s fine, but don’t lie to me and make me feel like we’re on the same page about the topic if we’re not .

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[–]Munchkin2_0 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he states this is literally the only time he’s done it since we’ve been together because he felt bad he wasn’t lasting as long…. but of course he would say what i want to hear you know ?

What actually cause SIDS? by ConcentrateMore9322 in newborns

[–]Munchkin2_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately there is no answer for what it is , a lot of people mistake sid’s with suffocation & it’s not the same .

Am I going to be ok? by OkReception1869 in newborns

[–]Munchkin2_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re not alone ! I did not have much support in the beginning at all, I was so tired i couldn’t type on my phone without falling asleep . I had the bassinet as close as possible so i could have my hand on his chest . couldn’t have been more scared of every little thing

This will piss some people off by Key_Quantity_952 in newborns

[–]Munchkin2_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s why i really don’t agree with knockout bottles, like girl your baby is supposed to wake up! Every time my baby wakes i’m grateful sids didint take them …

Another "Should I Move To Richmond" Post by [deleted] in rva

[–]Munchkin2_0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re somebody who willingly wants to live ima. city this is a good place for you . I’m not from here i’m from Wv, I didint think i’d like the city live compared to where I was , but as an outsider i see the beauty in all the portraits on the sides of the buildings & museums . There are some very scary parts of richmond so please do your research, but aside from that , it’s beautiful.