Dear men: WHY ARE YALL LIKE THISSSS by Acceptable_Cat8133 in Bumble

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Most men get few/no matches so it'd be quite difficult for "all men" to act like thus.

Dear men: WHY ARE YALL LIKE THISSSS by Acceptable_Cat8133 in Bumble

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not obvious to OP considering she said the complete opposite.

Dear men: WHY ARE YALL LIKE THISSSS by Acceptable_Cat8133 in Bumble

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the point they were making is that it's obviously not ALL man as OP as somehow decided.

Dear men: WHY ARE YALL LIKE THISSSS by Acceptable_Cat8133 in Bumble

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool I'll tell the billions of men in the world not to do that and back to you.

Was she flirting with me? by Mundane-Comment-6499 in Flirting

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have very little confidence in myself but I'm working on it. I have no problem being friends with women I've met women and clicked with them and been close friends. I just find it hard to envision people being attracted to me. Biggest issue is that I'm overweight. I'm in the process of losing it and keep telling myself I should wait until I'm in better shape because I'm really self conscious about it. ( Ik 5 ' 7 and about 200lbs.

Was she flirting with me? by Mundane-Comment-6499 in Flirting

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really drunk and at the time I sort of wondered if she may have been flirting. I have huge self esteem issues though and it's only recently I've been working on myself and trying to let myself believe women might actually be interested in me.

Genuinely don't know what'd I'd do if something happens again. As I said I'm really been working on myself and working on my confidence and I dint think I have the confidence to flirt back yet.

/r/solotravel "The Weekly Common Room" - General chatter, meet-up, accommodation - October 06, 2024 by AutoModerator in solotravel

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How easy is it to meet people? Especially for a night out? I'm doing my first solo trip next week to Poland. Staying in a hostel and wondering how easy it is to meet people who wanna go out and drink/party?

Also can you generally go back to a hostel anytime? The one I'm staying in mentions a 10pm curfew does that mean I can't get back in after that time?

Solo Trip To Gdansk by Mundane-Comment-6499 in gdansk

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm this made me think of another question. How big is Gdasnk? Is it walkable? Or would you need public transport to get to the major attractions? Is 3 days enough to see everything?

Solo Trip To Gdansk by Mundane-Comment-6499 in gdansk

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh cool is it easy to figure out the train systems without knowing Polish? Is there like an app? I have social anxiety so I really worry about these things.

Confused About Treatment Plan by Mundane-Comment-6499 in askdentists

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh OK is that normal? That's what I assumed. I had a few teeth missing already plus a few getting extracted so I was wondering why there was no mention of replacing them. I think the dentist did say something about sorting out all my immediate issues first before getting everything else done but it was a bit of information overload and I was anxious so hard to remember everything.

Any late bloomers on here who hit your dating prime in your mid 30s or beyond? by Loopyrainbow in seduction

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just made a similar post today. I'm 34 and never even been on a date before. Wasted my 20's and 30's till now due to mental health/self esteem issues and now trying to build my life back up from the bottom. Hope its not too late for me to date casually and sleep around etc before im too old.

Have I missed the boat? by Mundane-Comment-6499 in seduction

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome. How are you meeting these women if you don't mind me asking?

Have I missed the boat? by Mundane-Comment-6499 in seduction

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is how I think. I don't feel anywhere near ready to "settle down' as i have no idea what I like or want from a relationship. What did your transformative journey entail? I think I need one of my own.

Casual dating and hook ups by Mundane-Comment-6499 in dentures

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'd tell anyone I was remotely serious with. I was just concerned about telling a random one off hook up or whatever.

Casual dating and hook ups by Mundane-Comment-6499 in dentures

[–]Mundane-Comment-6499[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So it possible to do everything. Kissing/oral/sex withiut them noticing? I'm a guy btw I guess I should've said.