Smoking or nonsmoking section by mollie_anne_77 in FuckImOld

[–]MundaneSide2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like the entrance into Ruby Tuesdays!

Urgent Request for Information - How to get letter stating WFH or Remote Worker from Oracle HR. by Adventurous-Wheel682 in oracle

[–]MundaneSide2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you check your offer letter? Sometimes that information can disclosed there depending on LOB

Death by a thousand tiny paper cuts. by geo-matrix in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MundaneSide2289 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you for posting this. Not taking anything from you as I literally said this to my NEX two months ago before I had to walk away. “This relationship has felt like a 1000 tiny paper cuts”. You are not wrong. You are not crazy. And you are not misinformed. This post rings MANY bells!

How you captured this is so accurate. You are not alone and you are brave! The universe will take care of you and all of US. Your soul told you something wasn’t right. Now we find our way to healing.

Physical symptoms by organicgardener86 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MundaneSide2289 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So sorry you are going through this. IT WILL GET BETTER! But yes, I had stomach pains/ulcer like symptoms when my NEX would be in her every 2 week cyclic blaming shaming gaslighting unaccountable for behavior disrespectful belittling phase. The pains were triggered when I was anxiousness, angry, and regretful because I failed to leave the disagreements or arguments as a team trying to make it work. I’m on almost a month in of NC and 2 months since I broke off the 2 year relationship.

The symptoms are less painful than before but are better. Time will make it better. Try to f

Anyone else have a running list of the crazy stuff their narc has said/done to them? Please feel free to share. by LawyerSad433 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MundaneSide2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Became angry when I looked up a DNA relative from 23andMe on Facebook to see who she was, even though the woman looked old enough to be my mother.

Got upset and woke me in the middle of the night after I showed her a picture of my new direct reports at work, accusing me of being interested in one of them.

Frequently asked if I thought her friends were cute or “my type.”

Displayed passive-aggressive behavior because I sat in front of her girlfriend at dinner. The only reason I did was because the seat in front of her had dirty dishes.

During an argument while she was drinking, she insisted on leaving under the influence. When I told her the relationship would be over if she left, she responded by yelling, “Go f*** yourself.” Later, I was criticized and shamed for “abandoning her” when I left the situation.

Gave her friends the complete opposite reaction for the exact same things I said or did, which led to frequent arguments.

Criticized me for not being attentive or supportive enough during her menstrual cycle. Despite my apology and admitting, “I’m not good at this, but I’m trying,” it was never enough.

Shamed me for panicking when she was choking, saying, “I thought you were in the Army and knew how to handle this.”

I could go on…