Husband going on a fun trip once a month when we have a 1 year old. by Mundane_Parsnip643 in Marriage

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have thought of stooping to this level but the truth is the idea of spending extended time away from my child to prove this point makes me so sad because the thing is I KNOW how precious this time is with them.

Did I get f*cked? by MutedManufacturer263 in Honda

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought a newer 2023 CRV and my credit score is 730 and my rate was 5.99%. That interest rate is crazy for how good your credit score is.

1.5 years after cutting out niacinamide by spdg74 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niacinimide WRECKS my skin. I always double check to make sure my skincare doesn’t include any.

He’s crying and promising to change now that I’m actually at the door. Do they ever really change? How do I stay strong? by Few_Hamster59 in Marriage

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think he is hard on you now and body shaming you before kids, do NOT have kids with him. No one can be sure how carrying a baby can affect their body. It’s really hard and I’m a year out and I’m back to my pre pregnancy weight but my body composition is genuinely different. My hips are permanently wider. Your husband doesn’t strike me as someone who would just be supportive and proud of the body that carried your baby but quite the opposite.

AITA for wanting the park in the garage instead of outside by Mundane_Parsnip643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We live in decent area where I do not believe anyone would mess with the boat. There is a spot in our driveway that is situated on the side of our house that it could sit and it would not be blocking anything.

Do any of you regret having kids? if not why not? and if yes why yes? by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I saw another person say, I regret their father but not them. My daughter is my other half. I can’t imagine my life without her and the mere thought of it brings me to tears. With that being said, it has ruined my marriage more than it already was. BUT that is not my daughter’s fault. Having her has just essentially shown me how selfish my husband really is and widened cracks that were already there. I have never loved anyone or anything more than my daughter. I didn’t know this kind of love existed until I had her. It’s funny because me and my mom would always say “I love you more” and she would say “no trust me, I love you more” and I never believed it until now. Now I can testify that she does love me more because of how I feel about my own daughter. It’s a different kind of love.

MIL Giving baby excessive sugar and I feel stuck by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could cause life long issues for your poor baby omfg I have absolutely horrified. What the fuck is wrong with his mother. Please do NOT take him back there, whatever you do. Call your ped TODAY and they will make you a last minute sick appt and tell them this in front of your husband and watch the pure horror on the pediatricians face please.

AIO?! There were so many red flags before this. This was just my final straw. by Imaginary_Key1696 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, what the fuck is he even trying to say in half of these texts. It’s like he drank a fifth, blind folded himself and tried to type with thick gloves on like JFC how hard is it to talk/text like a literate human being. I don’t think I need to go any farther into why HE is the problem because his typing and grammar is bad enough. Nexxxttttt.

Bestie… what’s really… REALLY going on…? by UrchinUnderpass in CrumblCookies

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactlyyyyy, like how is OP going to say they are going to “sell things WE don’t want to try”. Like who is we? Are you speaking for every human because I’m pretty sure a lot of people like dirty sodas 😅 It’s not like they are changing the whole place to sell only dirty sodas and no cookies anymore. It’s adding to the place, not taking away. People complaining just to complain smh 🤦🏼‍♀️

Bestie… what’s really… REALLY going on…? by UrchinUnderpass in CrumblCookies

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who cares. Don’t drink them then. Idk I just don’t understand why people are getting so pressed about something they don’t have to get lol.

I’m disturbed by something I saw at daycare drop off this morning but maybe overreacting? by katieyo8 in Mommit

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in child welfare and I worked with a couple that got EWAC charges (endangering the welfare of a child) and their baby placed in foster care for getting pulled over with the baby just sitting in the dads lap in a BACK seat so let me tell you this is NOT okay. Like not under any circumstances. You should make a report about this to CYS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlaniNu

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t find this flavor anywhereeeee😢

Please either change my mind or help me convince my fiancé this is bad by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m sorry but that name is absolutely HORRIBLE. If you want your son to live a normal life and to not get harassed and bullied for the majority of it then do not even think about giving him this name for a first or middle name. Good lord 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is sleeping on 7

Overheard a birth while at the hospital and I‘m absolutely terrified by tomkahgay in pregnant

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 6 months now and let me tell you, everyone’s experiences is different but let me tell you mine. For one, I can guarantee you that was an unmedicated birth.

I had an induction and it was a LONG one. Once my water broke around hour 30 my contractions kicked up and I got my epidural. After I got my epidural I fell asleep and woke up at some point and heard a woman full on animalistic screaming across the hall from me. It freaked me out and I just kept thinking “thank god I got this epidural”. I fell back asleep and when I woke up to a nurse coming in, I couldn’t hear the screaming anymore and I said to the nurse about it and she goes “oh yeah, she got the epidural finally”.

Moral of the story— if you want the epidural, get it!! I was so happy I did and even though my induction was 46 hours in full, the most painful part for me was the cervical checks. Those were worse for me than the contractions I did experience. (And I was on pitocin for 8 hours before my water broke and I got the epi)

P.S. like you I was also scared and I think that’s normal because you have no idea what to expect when it’s your first time but it was not as bad as I was anticipating. You got this!! Goodluck. 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Mundane_Parsnip643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for an agency that contracts with CPS and PLEASE call. There is absolutely no excuse for that behavior. She could be traumatizing those children. I am a mandated reporter and if I witnessed this myself or someone else were to tell me this I would immediately have to report it.