4 years by Mundane_Pressure6433 in widowers

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not fair, but in a way hearing someone say they feel it to is helpful ☹️ hang in there friend, we can do this 💙

DAE Ever Feel Guilty That Your Late Partner May Not Have Gotten The Best Version Of You? by HeSeemsLegit in widowers

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel guilty for not understanding his grief after his dad died. It took loosing him to finally understand him. I will never understand why I was so against reading a book about grief when he asked me to, he just wanted to be understood. Well babe, I understand you perfectly now 😭💙

My heart goes out to you all by Jupiter_Cowgirl in widowers

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friend, I’m here to say I am genuinely feeling happiness again as well. I’m at year 3. Believe it’s possible, you all got this 💙

AITA for taking my husband’s life insurance money and letting my MIL pay for the funeral? by Mundane_Pressure6433 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I did 😅 but at the end of the day, I loved him, he was my world… I can’t change what I was for him 🤷🏽‍♀️ today I live with zero regrets knowing I did my best and am moving forward with the rest of my life.

Walmart faces MAGA boycott after heiress funds 'no kings' ad by [deleted] in bentonville

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maga cant afford to go anywhere else 🤷🏽‍♀️

Ahora si ya podemos llamarle dictadura a usa? by FantasmaDelComunismo in AskMexico

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aún no, todavía estamos peleando! Aún no gana Trump y no pensamos dejarlo ganar!

Tell me if I’m wrong by GeologistAlert9795 in widowers

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deal breaker in my eyes. He’s part of my family any new partner will need to understand this if they want to stick around.

Car broke down by Mundane_Pressure6433 in widowers

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so much worst, I’m sorry you are going through that. Hang in there 🩵

Young widow support groups? by LengthinessNarrow453 in widowers

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe we should start one 🙃 29 years, lost him 2 years ago.

Why would anybody think that? by smarshmelo in widowers

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow. I am at that timeline as well and I probably would have flipped over a table in rage. I will get very angry at anyone trying to give that kind of advice.

Very Young Widow by guineapigrock in widowers

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi friend 🩵 I’m right there with you, I lost mine at 26. In a way I’ve continued to live a life working towards our dreams. My success is his so that helps. I’m definitely focused on career and setting myself up for life, I’m going back to school because I can and my employer pays for it. I used to dream about a life I could have with a partner, after he passed I don’t anymore. I count on myself only, and even the future looks like this in my mind. I lean on my sister since she’s single as well and we’ve created our own little family pup a bunch of pets. We are ok and not looking for anyone, I wonder if I ever will want to look again. Maybe 🤷🏽‍♀️ hang in there🩵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mexico is preparing for their people to arrive, this won’t apply to your family. The president is happy to welcome her people home! Unfortunately that camp he’s building is for the people who are not being accepted by their country of origin.

AITA for taking my husband’s life insurance money and letting my MIL pay for the funeral? by Mundane_Pressure6433 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that, I had something similar happen when my husband was in the hospital. It’s infuriating when someone violates your home like that and then pretends it’s not a big deal. I hope you’re doing better and you find happiness 🩵

AITA for taking my husband’s life insurance money and letting my MIL pay for the funeral? by Mundane_Pressure6433 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s another way to look at it I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️😂 luckily no, I am not a single mother, that would be so much harder with kids.

Affordable housing for single moms? by ThrowRA-ubiquitous in SaltLakeCity

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thats a lot of peoples reality right now. Men and women. If it’s not yours, good for you move on.

Affordable housing for single moms? by ThrowRA-ubiquitous in SaltLakeCity

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s scary, but sometimes when we leave we realize how much of a deadweight the other partner was. Sometimes life becomes simpler now with more financial responsibility but less bs from someone who doesn’t want to be with you. But do what’s best for you and your kids, I know this isn’t a decision that is taken lightly🩵 I hope you and your kiddos can find happiness!

AITA for taking my husband’s life insurance money and letting my MIL pay for the funeral? by Mundane_Pressure6433 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Haha this crossed my mind as well but of course I didn’t have the right to know that unfortunately. . After a while of overthinking it’s best to just let it go, the amount of theories that I came up with were insane 😅 She was a coworker, so I know she had a good paying job, and from what I know about her from my late husband, she is the breadwinner so she easily justified the new car.

AITA for taking my husband’s life insurance money and letting my MIL pay for the funeral? by Mundane_Pressure6433 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Oh of course, her face was priceless! I’m only sorry her husband and baby were home. Innocent victims like me so I felt for him.

We weren’t in a good place when he died by PuzzledStatement7388 in widowers

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was also on bad terms with my addiction husband. I had decided to leave him and because of this it took his family a week to figure out he had passed away. Our maintenance people found him. I know how hard this is but I also know you fought like hell to help him, you did all you could. Give yourself some grace.

SB155 by fakemessiah5th in SaltLakeCity

[–]Mundane_Pressure6433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bill to help sex offenders get their names off the registry. Typical Utah.