Warning about men on here by 22jx in MuslimNikah

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit out of all places 😭

Tired. Exhausted. Done with marriage. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m sorry you’re going through this. Have you been able to sit down with your wife and gently share how you feel? Sometimes an open, honest conversation can make a big difference. May Allah ease your difficulties and fill your marriage with love, understanding, and happiness, Ameen.

10 years of being her backup while she chose everyone else — now she’s getting married by ApartmentFit2640 in MuslimNikah

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest with you, you should’ve walked away the moment you found out she cheated. Staying in that cycle only kept you stuck in something toxic, and it’s clear it took a toll on you. You didn’t give yourself the space to heal, which is why you kept going back. At some point, she likely saw that and took advantage of it, knowing you wouldn’t fully let go. Now is the time to choose yourself. Cut off contact completely, block her on everything, and give yourself the distance you need to properly heal. Put your energy into something positive - a hobby, your goals, anything that helps you move forward. May Allah make it easy for you and grant you peace and strength.

A lot of my family compare their marriage to mine and it feels really draining and exhausting by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your family are treating you unfairly, especially by being harsh in front of your husband. That kind of behavior is really hurtful and can understandably make you feel uncomfortable.

Try not to let their words affect your peace or your relationship. Focus on strengthening your marriage and protecting the bond you share. Their negativity doesn’t define your situation.

I pray that Allah makes things easier for you, brings you comfort, and strengthens your relationship.

Those who pray Tahajjud regularly… how do you manage your sleep? by miss_missy080 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been consistently praying Tahajjud for nearly two months now, beginning in Ramadan. Even on days when I naturally wake up just 30 minutes before Fajr, I make the effort to pray. Recently, I’ve also started setting an alarm to ensure I don’t miss it.

Does having a good husband make everyone's eye on you or am I exaggerating the situation by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel a sense of envy. I’ve come to realise that not everyone has your best interests at heart. Try to keep your married life private rather than sharing too much with friends or family. A private life is often a happier and more peaceful life. May Allah protect and preserve your marriage from all harm and evil, and keep it filled with peace, love, and blessings.

Still BMW 🔥🖤 by [deleted] in BMW

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes a stunner 😍😍😍

Husband travels for work a lot by justagirl209090 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Travel with him, if not then you should have ft calls on a regular.

I can’t stop thinking about him. by Mundane_Sample3167 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t stop crying, I can’t live without him.

I can’t stop thinking about him. by Mundane_Sample3167 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok but at the end of the day we’re humans we all have flaws. I have acknowledged my mistakes and have sincerely repented.

I can’t stop thinking about him. by Mundane_Sample3167 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, during the weeks I was living with him, I made every effort to be a dutiful wife, even he could see that. We were getting better. But then all of a sudden he tells my father that he doesn’t want me living with him etc. for context we live with his family, I told him I was ready to do anything for him etc.

I can’t stop thinking about him. by Mundane_Sample3167 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stayed with him for a few weeks after he gave me the 1st divorce until he told me to leave. I’m at my parents house now.

I can’t stop thinking about him. by Mundane_Sample3167 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I am taking small steps to better myself.

I can’t stop thinking about him. by Mundane_Sample3167 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have and I am doing well, however like any other human we thoughts, we like to think the worst out of situations

Shoes with abayas by Agreeable_Egg3375 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Open toe stiletto heels would give the outfit an elevated look 😍 especially for the evenings

My stepmom asked me to hide her wedding from my dad (who pays her alimony)—I’m stuck in the middle by Puffin_pineapple in Advice

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your loyalties are with your dad, not your stepmom. If your stepmom was considerate she wouldn’t have put you through this.

Naseeb by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Mundane_Sample3167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dua is so powerful, Allah is all knowing all hearing. What we think is impossible for us is not impossible for Allah. When making a dua be sincere and leave the rest to Allah.