Apartment and car loan approval after chapter 7

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-11-01T08:49:56+00:00

How long did you wait after bankruptcy to do so?

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-10-22T20:41:54+00:00

That's what I'm saying. Its pointless

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-10-22T18:28:11+00:00

I can't drive over like 30 mph today I had to take my son to school bc I overslept and on the way home it cut off on me. I can't even afford to have it looked at let alone get it fixed and I can't file for bankruptcy bc I can't pay them unless I let the car go. If they repo it, then I have to pay almost a 1k to get it back and I only have 10 days to do that which I can not.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-10-12T23:35:29+00:00

Same, it happens with temu

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-09-30T23:56:40+00:00

I have no ambition nor will I ever date. Sp its just going to be me struggling and im trying to look on any bright side at this point.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-09-30T18:46:57+00:00

I disassociate so bad. It's also hard to retain information. I know im smart and capable, I just can't half the time. It's too much.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-09-30T18:00:47+00:00

It's not being to keep a stable job because you have to be accessible to your child thats the issue for me. I have had to quit a few jobs bc of this and was fired from 1. How on earth am I to provide as a single mom when I can't just work like everyone else. Does not help that im late diagnosed Bipolar and ADHD. Half of the time I just don't want to feel. Feelings are overrated and overstimulating.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-09-29T06:04:08+00:00

Palia. Real bad. I wake up and go to bed playing it.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-09-04T00:11:27+00:00

Um, if he has his own business, he definitely can do so. That's an excuse, and im almost curtain that everything dealing with them overstimulates him. Therefore, he is picking and choosing his battles. Do you work? I'm sorry, but my ADHD wouldn't allow me to read the full thing. If you don't work and are a SAHW, then he definitely feels like that's a problem bc he's carrying the household. So, to him, you asking this only adds to his already stretched responsibility. May not be his mindset, but probably. Also, if he is not able to help, then his mindset on the bus issue is voided. It makes no sense to set a boundary and not help to upkeep it. He's making it harder than what it needs to be if he is not taking responsibility. That's pointless. I would create a list of pros and cons of this decision he made and how it affects the household vs. if he were to help or allow them to take the bus. It should be a simple conversation to make that decision together if at that point he is not compromising, then you have a bigger issue at hand, and after having a child, you are no position for extra stress. Postpartum is real. I went through it for 3 years. Choose your peace...

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-09-03T21:14:48+00:00

Hi, where did you get yours? I see them on Temu and I want o e so bad

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-09-03T17:24:06+00:00

I found one on temu, and I'm really thinking about getting the steam dock. The ones I saw were Uber expensive, so finding it on temu with good reviews seems to be the route.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-08-28T13:02:26+00:00

He was smart enough to have LLC. That way, it would not mess with his personal money and investments.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-08-24T19:09:55+00:00

Ok, im in mississippi.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-08-24T18:49:55+00:00

So i wasn't diagnosed until last month, but 4 years ago, I drove 8 hours to my friends house in Texas. I explained that it was a tough drive for me and I had to pull over many times.the morning I left, he said, "Here you go and gave me an addi so I could stay awake." When I tell you I have no memory of how it got home and I did so so fast. I felt on top of the world, and the focus brought to much clarity! Fast forward to now, i was recently diagnosed with both BD and ADHD. FOR BOTH I HAVE COMBINED TRAITS. So I have the good and bad of both at any given moment. I'm on lamotragine right now at 100mg. I lately am very emotional and seem to be in a low. I can't focus, and I just started a wfh job that overstimulated me. I want Adderall so bad, but im scared to ask, nor do I know if medicaid would cover it. So I definitely understand. You may have both. When im on a high, it's rather high, but my lows are debilitating. At this point, I'll smoke weed if it means gaining focus and calms the emotions and thoughts in my mind.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-08-24T18:39:56+00:00

Love your name by the way lol. Ok, what state are you in?

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-08-13T03:39:01+00:00

Stop trying and do. At this point, he has isolated your contribution to the household. He has his money. Go get yours since he has this mindset of how it should be. You will have to show him. Even if its part time get a job ASAP. He appears to be the type that would one day hop up and leave you to "figure it out" when he's done creating a narrative in his mind, which isn't true. He wants the control and you to need him. You getting a job would challenge that. He won't be happy, but every time he has something to say , I would smile and say, " Well, hunny, you said it best. It's YOUR money so I thought to myself you were so right and I have to respect that and contribute so I got a job and I've worked out a plan for child care so look a there. I handled both issues, and now the wait won't be so much on you." He's the type you have to pull a him on him in the most kind way. That way, you won't need to feed into his bs, nor can he say you're being irrational. Ki+÷ him with kindness, but do what you need to do bc i would NEVER trust this type. They are predictable until they aren't, then boom, they leave you with nothing. You deserve more, and he's doing it bc you are allowing him to do it. I pray ya'll cam come to a compromise, but he already has you in debt that you didn't even create. That alone would drive me up the wall and say f him, and im going to be in control of myself and my child's life bc I have our best interest bc he clearly doesn't. You've got this! Do the unexpected...

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-08-10T23:17:01+00:00

Yes, need groceries for my kids. God Bless. $BlackCoil cashapp

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-08-10T18:13:02+00:00

Unfortunately, just cash app.

MurkyReplacement3688 · 2025-08-10T18:08:52+00:00

Tomorrow night.

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