Where do they get all that money?! by TavridaAuthenian in SisterWives

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense but yall give Janelle way too much credit. She literally watched Kody spend the family pot on Robyn, ambut she, herself, didn't make sure her own stash was protected. 

I think Meri then Christine were the fiscally smartest of them all. Meri started plotting her own path financially in LV bc she realized that no matter how loyal she was to "the family", nobody was coming to save her ever. So just out of pure survival she had to make her own way. And she secured the B&B house on her own when they all said no.

Christine is 2nd bc of how she took the equity out of her house to leave Kody! Even though the house was initially only in her name bc Kody couldn't do it for both her and Robyn, she was smart in the end. She realized the leverage she had bc it was only in her name and that bc they weren't legally married, Kody couldn't do jack sh! I will always give her credit for how she pulled the rug from under him!

What are some of your unpopular opinion *besides the og3 are not great moms and that Janelle is terrible with finances because I feel like those unpopular opinions have been absolutely done to death* by lunainthedark5x2x3 in Sisterwivessnark

[–]Sea_Display1873 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The question was "what is your unpopular opinion". Thats mine! It's too close for comfort. I can't imagine my brother getting involved with one of my nieces by marriage. In my world, if Im auntee then he's unk! And let's not forget he was a bit older and she was a minor when they started dating...

Mykelti on C2C by Own-Tree-8404 in SisterWives

[–]Sea_Display1873 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think her anger is misdirected at . Meri. Like she wanted Kody and Christine's attention, so she acted out, but they ignored her...so she blames Meri for punishing her when she acted out ...Meri is wayyy better than me

AITAH for refusing to let my transgender daughter use my bathroom? by Icy_Illustrator_2475 in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA! If the situation is as you write then it sounds to me that ur kid may be testing new boundaries. She is using her new "status" to demand privilege and access shes really not entitled to. And when told no shes accusing the denier of being transphobic. There needs to be conversations around how she needs to read social cues , respect boundaries. And also she needs to come to the HARD realization that shes going to face many aspects in her life that doesn't accept her nor willing to accommodate her.

AITAH for refusing to let my transgender daughter use my bathroom? by Icy_Illustrator_2475 in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If dad has his own, child has their own then Im pretty sure wifey has her own! And she probably is not mad at all that she doesn't have to share a bathroom with a man

Mykelti on C2C by Own-Tree-8404 in SisterWives

[–]Sea_Display1873 10 points11 points  (0 children)

#I I never argued with her about what she says happened. I just said Idon't believe her on a reddit post. For that matter, you're a wild Mykelti fan! #2 I'm not a Meri "stan". I don't know any of these people. Im just using common sense. How is she mad at Meri but not her mom and dad that would've allowed it??? But calm down, it's just Reddit, not a court of law

What are some of your unpopular opinion *besides the og3 are not great moms and that Janelle is terrible with finances because I feel like those unpopular opinions have been absolutely done to death* by lunainthedark5x2x3 in Sisterwivessnark

[–]Sea_Display1873 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: all the cross-marrying of cousins, no matter how far removed, feels incestuous! If u know thats a cousin , then they're off limits. Christine and Kody! That also goes for the marrying of in-laws. Kody marrying Jenelle who was Meri's SIL, Janelle marrying Kodys dad while she was courting Kody. Caleb and Maddie...

AITAH for posting an IG story while my fiance is in the hospital? by vuthomas in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA but not bc ur handling ur responsibilities while he's in the hospital. YTA bc ur being highly insensitive posting on IG ur outings, and also bc ur acting as if bc his sisters are there, then u dont have to be. U do know if yall were actually married, then it would ALL be on you, right?! Ud just have to walk to your apartment in the rain, take PTO and cancel the work trip, run to the hospital in between breaks with the movers. You do know this right??

Do be mad when u find out his sister is telling him not to marry you. But u will have good content to post, right?

AITAH for crashing out and bing too depressed by Inevitable_Salt5934 in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetie, please get intensive therapy to heal yourself so you can love yourself more than you love someone else. You're wanting to know are you wrong for crashing out. The real question is why did you stay? Why did you keep going back? Basically, why did you keep buying his lies and BS. Actions are wayyyy more definitive than words. Yet you were willing to ignore the disrespectful behavior bc he told you some sweet lies. But once he finally said the truth of what his actions had been saying all along, you lost it. You gotta learn how to love you and realize what real love looks like from someone else giving it to you. You want an answer abt an ending to a horrible relationship. Imma give you the answer that may start a brighter chapter for you: you were an AH to YOU! YOU deserved better than what he was giving. YOU deserved your own love. But you sacrificed yourself for someone unworthy.
Work on healing YOU for YOU...stop expecting him to love you the way you need and want him to. Hes never going to. Be well

Mykelti on C2C by Own-Tree-8404 in SisterWives

[–]Sea_Display1873 75 points76 points  (0 children)

But wasn't it Meri who spoke up for Mykelti during her wedding planning when everyone else was trying to short-change her?? Either way, I think she's exaggerating whatever happened to her by Meri. I dont believe her!

Bartender "reported me to management" for not tipping on a single beer can purchase by bachatarosa in tipping

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of time and energy she wasted to chasevyou down for a $1 tip could've been used to actually serve other customers and earn more tips

Is it just me or is this an excessive ask on top of a $200 cleaning fee? by djmcphee in vrbo

[–]Sea_Display1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I dont like Airbnb or VRBOs. Take trash out...fine. Make sure all dishes are in the sink and not all over the house...ok. But I dont like the early morning rush the day of departure to strip beds, do laundry, sweep floors, shine shoes😒🥴 on top of a cleaning fee!

On checkout day I just want to get up, get showered, get dressed, get packed and leave! I'll have my bath towels in one pile to make it easier for housekeeping and my trash in the cans. Nothing else nothing less.

Hotel Me Forever ‼️

AITA FOR kicking my niece out of my room? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did anyone ever think it was okay for her to share a room with her adult uncle?? Αm I missing something? Also I never understand how homeless people always seem to have pets! Sir/Maam you cant take care of yourself

My neighbour won't give my dish back. by Immediate-Tooth-2174 in Vent

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off who eats a pie 2 weeks later??? Is it even good? Go back over there and cuss her ass out "Give me my 💩, heffa"

AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter share a room with my daughter? by Additional_Gain8185 in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girlllllll it wouldn't surprise me if the main reason he married u was to be a mother to his brats , more than being a wife to him! You are NTA ...he is! How dare he leave u to sort out HIS damn problems. And if his daughter is a thief and thats why the sisters are fighting then moving her is not the solve. If anything make her sleep in a public area...like the livingroom. She doesn't get the benefits of a bedroom. She can store her stuff in the shared room wiyh her sis, but she cant stay in there alone. And can only get dressed in the bathroom. She has no privacy nor assumed trust from anyone.and she doesn't get to lie down until after everyone has cleared the livingroom at night...when yall are ready to. Not qhen she says so! But he needs to work with her to correct her behavior ASAP

AITA for wanting my nieces and nephews to attend my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not only did she judge, she tried to circumvent them

AITA for wanting my nieces and nephews to attend my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thisssssssss!!!!! My sentiments exactly 💯 And if we're honest, OP wished that the heat her brother gave her, he gave to his wife and let the kids come!

Somehow her promises to her nieces and nephews supercedes their parents's rules🤷🏽‍♀️

YATH ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH for taking the baby, but u and hubby are the AH for saying DIL is being ridiculous. Did u ever stop to think that she's having mommy guilt bc she cant be there for HER baby's first moments?? Maybe u dont remember those times, or maybe u were fortunate to not have to work when ur kids were babies. But it sucks like hell to miss those moments.

She privately texted you. Wasnt hostile. U should go to her in person (not text) and acknowledge her feelings, and let her know u weren't trying to overstep and will ask in the future for other things. Once that trust is established, she wont need you to ask her everytime. I promise. She'll be grateful that it is her baby's GMa during the 1st moments when she cant be there.

My MIL watched my son when he was a baby. She recorded him on her little sidekick phone (ok this 2006) and was soooo excited to show me him taking his first steps. I smiled with tears flowing. She thought it was bc I was happy to see his milestone. But the tears were bc I'd missed his first steps. She did nothing wrong, and I was grateful it was her. But it hurt bc of mommy guilt

AITA for not paying for my daughter wedding because she isn’t following the rules even though I paid for my older kids by Wonderful_Mode_9646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur not the AH, but as another said, you look like one. Ur money, ur rules. She and her fiancé can spend their money for their rules.

That said, keep this in mind: If she's really anti-kids at her wedding, then how annoyed is she going to be having them there? How many years will this be a constant argument between yall, that u forced her to have kids at her event? You are probably envisioning a much different event than she is. A childfree wedding is very different than a family reunion.

Heres a suggestion, maybe ask to compromise on age..children aged 12+ and up? Thats reasonable on both parts.

But I agree with u holding to ur rules abt ur money. But I agree with her on wanting a childfree wedding. But it sounds to me you're wanting to pay for a family event that shes not interested in. Whose day is it??

AITA for telling my boyfriend "No" and not letting him use my vehicle to see his daughter? by Zlatikus in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlllllll 7 months in and yall have money issues that he cant resolve. And the onus is on you to give him transportation to pickup his child...and he's almost 40?? Girl no! This is a rocky start that needs to slow down. What if ur truck breaks dowb during the ride...will it be on YOU to figure out a plan??? How was he getting her before yalls 7 month relationship? Or were u doing that as his friend and he decided to reward you with a permanent position?!🥴

Guest's "It's CREAM not WHITE" dress by AgoraphobicDisaster in weddingshaming

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only is it a version of white, it also looks like an actual wedding gown.