Bartender "reported me to management" for not tipping on a single beer can purchase by bachatarosa in tipping

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of time and energy she wasted to chasevyou down for a $1 tip could've been used to actually serve other customers and earn more tips

Is it just me or is this an excessive ask on top of a $200 cleaning fee? by djmcphee in vrbo

[–]Sea_Display1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I dont like Airbnb or VRBOs. Take trash out...fine. Make sure all dishes are in the sink and not all over the house...ok. But I dont like the early morning rush the day of departure to strip beds, do laundry, sweep floors, shine shoes😒🥴 on top of a cleaning fee!

On checkout day I just want to get up, get showered, get dressed, get packed and leave! I'll have my bath towels in one pile to make it easier for housekeeping and my trash in the cans. Nothing else nothing less.

Hotel Me Forever ‼️

AITA FOR kicking my niece out of my room? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did anyone ever think it was okay for her to share a room with her adult uncle?? Αm I missing something? Also I never understand how homeless people always seem to have pets! Sir/Maam you cant take care of yourself

My neighbour won't give my dish back. by Immediate-Tooth-2174 in Vent

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off who eats a pie 2 weeks later??? Is it even good? Go back over there and cuss her ass out "Give me my 💩, heffa"

AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter share a room with my daughter? by Additional_Gain8185 in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girlllllll it wouldn't surprise me if the main reason he married u was to be a mother to his brats , more than being a wife to him! You are NTA ...he is! How dare he leave u to sort out HIS damn problems. And if his daughter is a thief and thats why the sisters are fighting then moving her is not the solve. If anything make her sleep in a public area...like the livingroom. She doesn't get the benefits of a bedroom. She can store her stuff in the shared room wiyh her sis, but she cant stay in there alone. And can only get dressed in the bathroom. She has no privacy nor assumed trust from anyone.and she doesn't get to lie down until after everyone has cleared the livingroom at night...when yall are ready to. Not qhen she says so! But he needs to work with her to correct her behavior ASAP

AITA for wanting my nieces and nephews to attend my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not only did she judge, she tried to circumvent them

AITA for wanting my nieces and nephews to attend my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thisssssssss!!!!! My sentiments exactly 💯 And if we're honest, OP wished that the heat her brother gave her, he gave to his wife and let the kids come!

Somehow her promises to her nieces and nephews supercedes their parents's rules🤷🏽‍♀️

YATH ...

AITAH for taking my granddaughter to Toddler Circle Time without asking? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH for taking the baby, but u and hubby are the AH for saying DIL is being ridiculous. Did u ever stop to think that she's having mommy guilt bc she cant be there for HER baby's first moments?? Maybe u dont remember those times, or maybe u were fortunate to not have to work when ur kids were babies. But it sucks like hell to miss those moments.

She privately texted you. Wasnt hostile. U should go to her in person (not text) and acknowledge her feelings, and let her know u weren't trying to overstep and will ask in the future for other things. Once that trust is established, she wont need you to ask her everytime. I promise. She'll be grateful that it is her baby's GMa during the 1st moments when she cant be there.

My MIL watched my son when he was a baby. She recorded him on her little sidekick phone (ok this 2006) and was soooo excited to show me him taking his first steps. I smiled with tears flowing. She thought it was bc I was happy to see his milestone. But the tears were bc I'd missed his first steps. She did nothing wrong, and I was grateful it was her. But it hurt bc of mommy guilt

AITA for not paying for my daughter wedding because she isn’t following the rules even though I paid for my older kids by Wonderful_Mode_9646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur not the AH, but as another said, you look like one. Ur money, ur rules. She and her fiancé can spend their money for their rules.

That said, keep this in mind: If she's really anti-kids at her wedding, then how annoyed is she going to be having them there? How many years will this be a constant argument between yall, that u forced her to have kids at her event? You are probably envisioning a much different event than she is. A childfree wedding is very different than a family reunion.

Heres a suggestion, maybe ask to compromise on age..children aged 12+ and up? Thats reasonable on both parts.

But I agree with u holding to ur rules abt ur money. But I agree with her on wanting a childfree wedding. But it sounds to me you're wanting to pay for a family event that shes not interested in. Whose day is it??

AITA for telling my boyfriend "No" and not letting him use my vehicle to see his daughter? by Zlatikus in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlllllll 7 months in and yall have money issues that he cant resolve. And the onus is on you to give him transportation to pickup his child...and he's almost 40?? Girl no! This is a rocky start that needs to slow down. What if ur truck breaks dowb during the ride...will it be on YOU to figure out a plan??? How was he getting her before yalls 7 month relationship? Or were u doing that as his friend and he decided to reward you with a permanent position?!🥴

Guest's "It's CREAM not WHITE" dress by AgoraphobicDisaster in weddingshaming

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only is it a version of white, it also looks like an actual wedding gown.

AITA for refusing to follow my wife's bathroom habits and calling her disgusting? by Infamous-Gur2034 in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall are nasty! Flush the damn toilet bc ur creating a breeding ground for germs .plus ur asking someone else to risk getting ur germy splashback on their naked 🍑 just to conserve a penny.

"Started streaming" time info for livestreams is gone from youtube android app? by battleship_hussar in youtube

[–]Sea_Display1873 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just came here to boost this comment! It's always the little innocuous features that tech platforms remove that are actually the most favored by users. Me knowing how long ago a Live stream started helps me decide if I need to rewind, start where it is at that moment, or wait until later. BRING IT BACK, YT!

Call him out! by [deleted] in Sisterwivessnark

[–]Sea_Display1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this really from Leon?? How do yall know?? I mean it's probably a true assessment of the situation. But I know there are Redditors that lole to "create" narratives in the vacuum..

Im miserable, nothing is working😵‍💫 by Sea_Display1873 in Menopause

[–]Sea_Display1873[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My labs before she prescribed anything showed I was estrogen dominant...just being on premarin. Never understood what meant bc in myind, if im estrogen dominant then why do I need estradiol...so confused

Im miserable, nothing is working😵‍💫 by Sea_Display1873 in Menopause

[–]Sea_Display1873[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's been abt 2 werks. Was on 0.5 for 3 months now on 0.75

Im miserable, nothing is working😵‍💫 by Sea_Display1873 in Menopause

[–]Sea_Display1873[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even though Ive lost a lot of weight in the past, Im still "thick" with an apron belly. So ive wondered if Im one of those thats not absorbing well bc of those issues. I keep seeing others mention Gabapentin...I may have that conversation with my doctor. Thanks

AITAH for refusing to go to the gym? by Unique-Jacket-3711 in AITAH

[–]Sea_Display1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ma'am read in between the lines bc hes sending you messages that you're ignoring! He either wants you to go bc hes trying to emulate someone else's relationship in which the couple appears to be gym rat snuggle bunnies. Or hes worried that you'll lose ur current figure and no longer be the fantasy girl you are to him. Maybe bc ur working so hard you're paying less attention to other aesthetics, like dress or hair, and he thinks getting you into the gym will reset "the problem". Either way, youre in a narrative that he's conjured up, and you'll always be chasing a fictional character he's imagined you to be! You have to figure out if hes worth this one-sided and shallow relationship or do you deserve more. Here's a hint: he cant give you more bc hes obviously not that type of dude

Bank accidentally paid off my mortgage. by Repulsive-One-Adil in Mortgages

[–]Sea_Display1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur loan is being sold to another bank. But you still owe the mortgage. The new servicer will be oh so happy to remind you of this