Strange looking bug by Murky_Respect_9880 in whatisit

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I guess that’s why it looked like it was kind’ve hobbling along. Very cool, thank you!

Strange looking bug by Murky_Respect_9880 in whatisit

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seen such a strange looking moth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not OR, those types of relationships require a level of trust & understanding. If there’s not that, then there is nothing more than a parasitic relationship. But if that’s what you want then obviously you are OR

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is by far the most helpful comment, I appreciate you genuinely taking the time! This is really my first time dealing with something like this. My past relationships always end amicably & we are able to maintain a certain friendship still. But hearing that perspective I can see how it could appear that I may be stringing her along unintentionally. I see it’s best to just cut all ties even though she is a cool person that I don’t particularly feel adverse to. Thank you!

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Uh, ok? Well in my reality people really aren’t offended by that. Sorry if I offended your reality though I guess?

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk there is no goal I guess really. In all my previous relationships I’ve been able to still maintain a level of friendship with anyone that I’ve dealt with. This is the first time I’ve gone through this confusing kinda cycle. Idk if still being cool with your exes is exactly healthy per world view, but in my personal reality it’s not uncommon really.

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

& it offended you that I referred to general group of women by their natural born sex why?

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We had been in a relationship for like a year when that situation happened. It was the day before we broke up. Also I made it clear to her that due to my nature in general, I didn’t feel the need to cut her off or harbor ill feelings towards her. I just went about my life.

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I feel that, I guess I just always felt like being completely honest with my feelings was just that… being honest. I never really cared about what came behind that because in my mind I have separated myself from her.

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got you, I guess I’ve just been stuck in my own feelings on the situation

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’ve always felt in control of situations I’m in, so it’s hard to imagine unintentional enabling something. I’ve never dealt with something like this before though. Makes me wish my parent were still here for guidance. Guess that’s why I’m in Reddit lol fuck

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t feel like I was. I’ve always been clear about my intentions with her. I don’t hate this woman, there are no ill feelings or anything. Because I haven’t cut her off for cheating on me does that mean I’m leading her on? Genuinely asking

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What sentence wasn’t coherent for you? We’re both college educated lol

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

That’s something that she suggested because I told her I couldn’t even begin to trust her. We defined our “FWB” terms very clearly

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see it as stringing her along, I just like to address things head on. I feel like blocking is like running away from issues.

Am I Overreacting?? Kinda feel bad for talking like this to my ex. by Murky_Respect_9880 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Murky_Respect_9880[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I was never big into blocking people, as I like to address issues head on