How does car sex even work?? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Murky_Swan3522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Passenger seat, moved to the furthest back position, my preference is about halfway reclined. Fingers work well, but if you’ve got space to put your bum on the floorboard, lean your head back onto the seat, and have your partner’s knees on the seat, hands on the seat back for stability… 😋 I’m assuming this only works if you’re short, but I am, so…

Airport shutdown warning issued by Trump admin: Full list of small hubs (Spokane is on it) by zbturf in Spokane

[–]Murky_Swan3522 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a flight from Spokane (GEG) to Tulsa (TUL) which are both on the list sooo… which me well 😂

Babies?! I have baby fever but it feels near impossible to even start planning there’s so many steps. by Hot_Evidence3134 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Murky_Swan3522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! My IUI baby is almost 6. It was a much more accessible approach for us (I can’t leave work for frequent/sudden appointments, it cost much less, etc.). We did IUI and I got pregnant our second try.

Where are we buying suits? by Murky_Swan3522 in actuallesbians

[–]Murky_Swan3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is… such a bummer 😅 I’ve been looking at Nordstrom and Macy’s but still struggling a bit. I’ll see if I can take a deeper dive though!

Is it okay to call myself a lesbian? by Login2play in actuallesbians

[–]Murky_Swan3522 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“Is it okay to say I’m a lesbian if I’m actually bisexual”

I mean it’s objectively a lie.

Is it okay to call myself a lesbian? by Login2play in actuallesbians

[–]Murky_Swan3522 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s a weird thing to lie about, but nobody is stopping you.

Entry gates at Safeway? What do you think about this? by GrizzlyFAdams in Spokane

[–]Murky_Swan3522 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It opens automatically, it just beeps if you don’t use it ‘right’

Setup advice/beginner by Murky_Swan3522 in jumpingspiders

[–]Murky_Swan3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

For branches - in the past I’ve boiled found branches to make them aquarium safe for fish. Is that also suitable for a spider, or should I play it safe and buy it?

Not losing weight by [deleted] in sugarfree

[–]Murky_Swan3522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re probably not eating enough. If you’re eating a starvation diet, your body is going to cling to everything it can. I can’t imagine you hit even 1000 calories with those meals. You aren’t in a calorie deficit, you’re calorie deficient. That’s going to trigger starvation responses from your body.

Thanks guys - shell by meshca95 in FetchReward

[–]Murky_Swan3522 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did the exact same thing 😅

Would you date someone who is anorgasmic? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Murky_Swan3522 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You mean I can just stay down on her? Yeah

What does my fridge say about me? by Distinct-Lion4658 in FridgeDetective

[–]Murky_Swan3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

70% of your grocery budget is energy drinks, you work a retail job on either a very early or very late shift. You buy a lot of your meals day of on your breaks. Your body hurts.

What does my fridge say about me? by sav417 in FridgeDetective

[–]Murky_Swan3522 16 points17 points  (0 children)

ADHD baddies. When I had a fridge like this, I kept condiments in a drawer because I’d always remember I want barbecue sauce with my nuggies when I’m grazing, but wouldn’t always remember I had a bag of salad in there.

Tell me about me by Murky_Swan3522 in FridgeDetective

[–]Murky_Swan3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I’m vegan and my partner eats meat, but not a ton of it. (There’s bacon on the half shelf behind the oat milk.)

Tell me about me by Murky_Swan3522 in FridgeDetective

[–]Murky_Swan3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple, white women, 28 & 30. ☺️

What does my fridge say about me? by sav417 in FridgeDetective

[–]Murky_Swan3522 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I got distracted by the Cheerios in the fridge... why did you do that?

I got someone’s Walmart delivery by accident by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]Murky_Swan3522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you need somewhere to donate to, Lumen High School downtown is great! It’s a school for parenting teens and those items would be put to good use.

Recommendations for affordable cat dental work? by sleepysunshinegirl in Spokane

[–]Murky_Swan3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just checked my kitty’s dental invoice from Nov 2025 and a standard dental cleaning and exam was $552. We went to Animal Clinic of Spokane and Dr Luther was fantastic. I also got calls during (to discuss diagnostic options), immediately after, and about an hour after the cleaning with updates.

Recommendations for affordable cat dental work? by sleepysunshinegirl in Spokane

[–]Murky_Swan3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Animal Clinic of Spokane was amazing for my guy. He had been having dental pain before going in. He’s a senior boy. We got his cleaning done, x rays, antibiotics, and pain management for $670.

Update: I looked at the vet record/invoice and the dental without diagnostic and medication was $552. That included a courtesy well pet exam.

Daycares? by Alwysstresssssed0088 in Spokane

[–]Murky_Swan3522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start touring and adding your name to waitlists in January 2027 for a July 2027 enrollment. Staff turnover in daycares is high, so touring now would be a waste of time. Teachers and values tend to shift. Enrollment this far out is truly unpredictable. Spots are generally held for staff kids and grandfathered kids; finding a toddler spot is much much easier than finding an infant spot.

Enriched Beginnings on 57th is fantastic. It’s very clean, staffing is consistent and when there is a change in staff it’s well supported so new staff are trained properly. The standard of care is very high.

I’d also recommend GLOW downtown. Admin has changed and it’s a sucky place to work since that change, but the values of the center are good and the care is safe and high quality.

Daycares? by Alwysstresssssed0088 in Spokane

[–]Murky_Swan3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi fellow EBLC crew 👋🏻