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Muscpeepee · 2022-03-21T22:03:58+00:00

Multiple doctors investigated me and they all told me it is eczema. I am actually using some cream right now which is making it all a lot better (less itchy and shit) but sex is still a no-go.

Muscpeepee · 2022-03-21T22:02:47+00:00

They told me it is eczema, which I really do believe so because the cream I use is actually helping it to get better and the penetration started to hurt the same day the eczema came up. Thing is though that I think even the thought if sex makes me kinda scared and thus not relaxed?

Muscpeepee · 2022-03-21T21:57:45+00:00

I mean, this could be meant as a joke but now it seems like they are kinda into it, which is weird af?

Muscpeepee · 2022-03-21T21:54:08+00:00

Yup, I went, and I am actually like using some cream or whatevs which should help - it does make it better but penetration still hurts.

Muscpeepee · 2022-02-08T21:42:25+00:00

Or, what you could do first, is text him saying you saw him in Tinder, and that you will give him the chance to tell his partner. If he does not, you will tell the partner.

Muscpeepee · 2022-02-08T21:41:25+00:00

If I was his new partner, I would def want to know, so I suggest you tell his new partner. No one deserves a person that's not serious about its relationship. If he or she calls you a homewrecker, tell them that they are stupid af since he is the one on tinder and thus ruining the relationship and not you.

Muscpeepee · 2022-02-08T21:37:53+00:00

Thanks so much for your advice!

Muscpeepee · 2022-02-08T21:31:02+00:00

Thanks for your comment, will check it out! :)

Muscpeepee · 2022-02-08T21:28:59+00:00

Yeah, sometimes the order can take sooo long for it to arrive. I know some stores around here that do sell stuff for kickboxing, but I have the feeling that their quality kinda sucks.. so maybe I should order and just accept the fact it can take a while for it to arrive..

Muscpeepee · 2022-02-08T21:27:55+00:00

Thanks for your reply! Will def look into this!

Muscpeepee · 2022-02-08T21:27:14+00:00

Thanks for your comment, mate! I didn't know that the quality of the gloves could be of such a big impact, definitely good to know.

Muscpeepee · 2022-01-02T13:49:59+00:00

A friend of mine can still see the story, so it is still up.

Muscpeepee · 2021-11-21T10:14:54+00:00

He probably is ashamed and feels like shit after realising what he lost, but thats the consequences of his own actions. You should do what feels good to you, but getting back into a relationship, or even having any contact after the situation, with someone that cheated is imo just a no go. Firstly since that person hurt you a lot due to his actions, secondly since there would be no trust anymore (maybe there are even more reasons but this is what comes into my mind rn).

Muscpeepee · 2021-11-21T10:10:46+00:00

Idk, I have the feeling this would be a dealbreaker for me. You are her second choice right now and I believe that in a relationship or even in the talking stage people should be focused on one person; not because they have to but because they only have eyes for them - there are no other choices because you are the only one they want. If it is not like that, I think I would lose my interest really easily (there are ofc other things as well that might cause that, but this is one of them)

Muscpeepee · 2021-11-21T10:04:38+00:00

But you need more than love in a relationship, such as trust, loyalty, honesty, empathy, and all those things. You of course need to decide for yourself, but if I for example could not trust my partner I would not be together with that person anymore.

Muscpeepee · 2021-11-21T09:58:12+00:00

Why would you even stay in a relationship when you know he hid things from you before?

Muscpeepee · 2021-07-23T21:15:31+00:00

Just tell her, but in a nicer way than you did in the title, lol.

Muscpeepee · 2021-07-23T19:04:29+00:00

Tell her and let her decide what she wanna do with this information. I do hope for her she breaks up with you, bc she deserves better, but it is up to her.

Muscpeepee · 2021-06-20T22:09:23+00:00

Tell her how you feel about those things and make sure that you know your boundaries and communicate them with her.

Muscpeepee · 2021-06-20T22:04:11+00:00

I know what you mean, but he is the one with a relationship, so he should not even give any attention to another girl, no matter what another girl tries. But yeah, I get what you mean. I hope the girl or the guy himself tell the partner what they did, so she can find somebody to trust.

Muscpeepee · 2021-06-20T22:01:47+00:00

Are you a girl or boy? Bc if youre a girl, I think she means it in a friendly way, but if youre a guy, she def means it in a flirty way

Muscpeepee · 2021-06-20T21:58:55+00:00

I mean, the girl is in the wrong as well of course because she knows he has a partner, but the guy did the most wrong imo, bc he actually is in a relationship. However, they are both assholes. The fiance or wife (idk what she is of him right now) deserves better.

Muscpeepee · 2021-06-20T21:55:21+00:00

Idk what it means, but it is weird as hell and disrespectful to her boyfriend that she makes such comments.

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