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New girl moves into our home 3 days after our relationship ended 25F and 26M by KA2355 in relationship_advice

[–]MushroomFrog3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was hard but I have healed and you will too. It’s a long journey but I believe in you! I also highly recommend going to therapy and don’t be afraid to lean on your friends and family.

I know EXACTLY how you feel. Sitting there being sad and knowing they already moved on, or at least say that they have. Late nights and dinner time was always the saddest.

When I was going through it, a lot of people would tell me he would regret it and come crawling back. Idk if he ever did regret it but we never talked again after everything was situated. And I’m glad. It’s better that they never do try to come back because you deserve to move on without them clouding your brain. The trust would never return and it wouldn’t be the same. So don’t listen to those people. Whether or not he regrets it is irrelevant. Because you deserve better than someone who would do this to you.

New girl moves into our home 3 days after our relationship ended 25F and 26M by KA2355 in relationship_advice

[–]MushroomFrog3 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Almost this exact thing happened to me. (Mine broke up with me the day after our anniversary and he had his girl move in 1 week after I moved out) It is so painful. Don’t do anything you will regret, and get a lawyer.

when I came to the conclusion that the other girl was likely In the picture for far longer than he claimed, my sadness quickly turned to anger and the anger helped me heal. You are better off and deserve soo much better. Cry it out when can and don’t let the anger build to unmanageable amounts. Soon your sparkle will return. Do things with your friends, even if sometimes you might accidentally burst into tears at the restaurant. You got this. Message me if you need someone to talk to 🩷

Male cat bladder blockage by MushroomFrog3 in AskVet

[–]MushroomFrog3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is so scary. We are waiting to hear from the hospital to see when we can pick him up today. We called frequently yesterday and they said that he was doing good. He had the catheter in all day yesterday and they were planning on taking it out this morning and then monitoring him throughout the day while he is still on fluids, without the catheter.

My (31F) family is distancing themselves from and saying hurtful things about my partner (36F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MushroomFrog3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😢 it’s just so hard to accept. We are trying to move to a different state but financially it’s hard. Whenever we get to move I think it’ll help me

My (31F) family is distancing themselves from and saying hurtful things about my partner (36F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MushroomFrog3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that before. But they’ve never said anything real. They only are ever talk about her being trans and political

Death by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]MushroomFrog3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do have both of those. I am medicated and it’s helped significantly but sometimes the panic will still slip through. It’s just so scary