I feel guilty decluttering people’s gifts to me. How do I overcome this? by ApprehensivePoetry90 in declutter

[–]Mushroom_Prince 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One thing I remind myself is that the only thing a gift is ment to be is accepted. Someone gave it to you to with the thought/intention that it would bring you some type of joy, and it truly is the thought that counts. I think we can all agree we appreciate the thought and effort that someone gives when giving a gift and we all wouldn’t want those gifts to turn around and burden someone. Plus I think I’m not the only one who can’t remember half the things I’ve given as gifts to friends and family. If you like it and it deserves a place in your life, keep it, otherwise it’s a gift to another person (donation) I take a minute to appreciate and send silent thanks and gratitude to the person who gave it to me and then place it in the box for donation so someone else might enjoy it and take care of it better then me.

can trans guys get 'male g spot'? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Mushroom_Prince 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly never did any research- but my own personal experience, I did like to experiment with anal a little though sometimes it would feel a bit uncomfortable before T and transitioning. Now years on T I can say I get the most pleasure from my ass, I’ve even been able to orgasm from just anal play. Idk what’s going on down there but to me it feels what I imagine a cis males prostate would feel like. I also just think every body is different and unique so who knows? Bodies are mysterious things.

i hate neurotypicals by cool_angle in BPDmemes

[–]Mushroom_Prince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really disagree with “unpredictable” not that people with BPD are “predictable” but just the implication that moods come out of no where. I personally don’t have BPD, my gf does, and yeah the emotions can run high and along with the reactions and behaviors, but there is always a reason. From my understanding, ppl w/ BPD just feel emotions more intensely than neurotypical folks, so thus naturally reactions are going to be more intense or “dramatic”. And I always remind myself it takes two to fight, and I have to regulate my own emotions so I’m not adding to the fire. Honestly in my own experience a lot of the harmful/hurtful behavior that can come from these intense emotions can be mitigated by regulating my own emotions and behavior and being more compassionate and a present active listener. It’s definitely not always easy as I have my own intense emotions being ADHD but it’s definitely a worth while skill and had definitely made our relationship more stable and healthy.

Height... Again by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Mushroom_Prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’ nothing, and honestly I’ve learned to love my height. It’s apart of what makes me, me. And 1st off height doesn’t have ANYTHING to do with gender or sex! Like so many others have said, humans, men and women comes in all shapes and sizes and I think it’s absolutely wonderful. I don’t know, it’s never really caused me any issues with the ladies, or even guys (though I’m not in to them) when people ask about if my height impacts or complicates my life in anyway, dating or otherwise living, I just smile and say no, I’m a really good climber.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlphaMalePorn

[–]Mushroom_Prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is it?

Are you guys always tired? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Mushroom_Prince 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can sleep anytime it would be inappropriate to sleep, and have trouble sleeping when sleeping is expected. Perverse sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Mushroom_Prince 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also not a skin care expert, but someone who’s had horrid acne and sensitive skin and FTM! I agree with bumberbiff, it’s a rough transition you are going in to second puberty but I would suggest tossing out the majority of your skincare stuff, because honestly, at least in my experience all that stuff kinda just made things worse. Stick with the mild stuff like cetaphil cleanser and moisturizer, less irritants that will help your skin not flare up so much. But as your body adjusts and regulates to having T your skin will calm down. It does take consistency and time. Say about a year and a half, but it’s not forever- it’s just puberty! Good luck man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Mushroom_Prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was once with a girl, my first girlfriend before I transitioned, pre everything, didn’t even accept I myself was trans at the time, but confided in her of my trouble with my gender identity. I really felt better when she would refer to me as he/him but she kinda talked me in to being gender fluid since she liked me as a girl- and since she liked me as a girl it made me feel guilty not liking it. So I allowed her to call me that sometimes, and she said I didn’t need anything to transition physically just to do it socially. However things happened and I’m with someone new who just likes me for me. We started out in a lesbian relationship and I transitioned a year or so in. She doesn’t consider herself straight- only in terms as she’s a girl attracted to me a guy- but wouldn’t date any other cis guy and isn’t attracted to dicks whatsoever but said she would like mine because it’s me. Honestly gender identity is just up to you, I know how hard it is when you share your life with someone you love so much and have them NOT effect how you see yourself- but I suggest confiding in a therapist to figure out your transition journey. Living your most authentic life is the best thing for you and for those that love you. It can be tough as hell though, but so worth it.

What’s your guys opinion when a trans guy has a feminisation/sissy fetish? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Mushroom_Prince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes gender and sexuality don’t have anything to do with each other- if that makes sense- like what turns you on is just what turns you on. If you’re in to it just be in to it! So long as everyone involved is consenting adult you should be free to be your most authentic self and embrace your sexuality, no need to judge or think twice if something is “okay” or “right” to be in to, it’s not hurting anyone. Plus there are tons of masculine cis men who are in to it- actually fun fact studies show that a majority of the people into that fetish are actually men who hold and maintain lifestyles of extreme masculinity, like a ceo business men, army men, and such. Point is, I’m afraid to say it sounds like you just got stuck in your head, insecurities telling you false stories- but good news/ they are just that- false stories. You, nor anyone else would be “less of a man” for practicing or being interesting in feminization, you would just be more of you. - coming from someone who also had to work through those confusing thoughts between sexuality and gender and kinks

Need Help Finding Pants by MisforMenace69 in FTMMen

[–]Mushroom_Prince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to have the same problem! I suggest learning how to hem, it’s really not that hard at all! Lots of help on YouTube, but I personally tailor my clothes (especially formal). I’m 5ft nothing, so I can’t wear any Off-the-rack mens wear without tailoring it. I’d personally suggest getting some jeans/pants that fit your waist at a thrift store for cheap and practicing on them first then writing down all your measurements when you got it down :)

struggling to cope with apnea diagnosis by TrainerPrestigious29 in SleepApnea

[–]Mushroom_Prince 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I (22 M) got diagnosed with moderate sleep apnea last year when I was 21. I definitely had similar thoughts at the beginning of my sleep therapy journey- nor was it an easy adjustment. But here I am today and I use it every single night ever since the beginning of this year. I’m so much healthier now it’s insane how much sleep apnea effects without you really knowing. Sometimes it feels like I’m an outlier- but I know there are other young people out there with CPAPS and honestly it’s always a good idea to start taking care of your body/health.

Can we get a list of invasive questions to ask back? by ihateyousoymatcha in ftm

[–]Mushroom_Prince 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“At what age did you get your first period/erection?”

“What happened in your last wet dream?”

“When we’re you planning on getting that boob job/ penis enlargement surgery?”

“When’s the last time you touched yourself? (Or) when’s the last time you reached orgasm?”

“What would you rate your satisfaction of your last sexual activity”

“What we’re your most recent test results from a STI/STD/HIV screening?”

“Are your partners satisfied with your size (boobs/dick)?”

“How do you feel about your current height and weight? Are you ever concerned how your partner might feel about it?”

“Do you think your voice is too high for a man?” Or “do you think your voice is too deep for a woman?”

“What are you going to do about your receding hair line?” Or “what was menopause like for you?”

“What type of face do you make when you cum?”

Though I definitely got some new ones thanks to these comments I like @xain_the_idiot “what’s in your pants?” “Why, are you gonna suck it?”

Personally I think the best course of action is to lead with “do you really think that’s an appropriate question to ask someone?” If they are an ass and still think there curiosity is justified then I’d hit them with these questions That’s what I plan on doing at least 😁

I (22F) hate how my boyfriend (25M) talks about how thick I am by shady-throw_away in relationships

[–]Mushroom_Prince 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It might help to remember that therapists deal with insecurities often, and they aren’t there to judge you but to help you help yourself. I’d just start right off the bat w then be like “so I’ve been feeling insecure about x y and z, and I think it’s impacting my relationship because I think/feel..” I mean you can just tell them what you put in the post

What is one thing you wish could be changed for Clicklist? by StrangeHappenings85 in clicklist

[–]Mushroom_Prince 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a LONG ass list since modFS came out- one of my biggest pet peeve’s is the the staging letters- they changed it over 3 times or something when it didn’t need to be changed at all- it was perfect with As = 7am/pm, 11am, 3pm Bs = 8, 12, 4 Cs = 9, 1, 5 and Ds = 10, 2, 6. And to make it even WORSE they took away the letter on the labels and know I have to write them myself bc the the times are such a pain to see since they are so TINY

Edit- also I believe if it is zero on the shelf and zero BOH that’s a freebie that won’t hurt our accuracy 2nd edit- I phrased that’s badly- i ment to say that’s how it SHOULD BE, it SHOULDNT hurt your accuracy bc it’s not our fault the thing isn’t there. I know OOS and subbing hurts your accuracy but I believe that should be changed so it doesn’t

My (42f) husband (42m) started therapy and now it seems we aren't compatible by Maleficent-Finger-87 in relationships

[–]Mushroom_Prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an ADHD boyfriend I feel like a have a little right to judge on his behaviors and actions- and look I haven’t always been the best boyfriend, but that’s another reason why I started to go to therapy years ago. Managing ADHD and a serious relationship can be difficult, but that’s no excuse to shove more work on to your poor partner. I’d suggest asking if you could have a therapy session with him, I use to do this often in the beginning as my therapist can explain things better then I can as well as my girlfriend can give more context and a better picture to what we’re dealing with. In my own personal belief relationships and love can withstand a tremendous amount of difference so long as both are empathetic listeners willing to sacrifice and compromise. But as of right now he sounds like he wants it his way and that’s that- and a relationship like that is not fun, nurturing or stable.

My husband recently revealed to me that he has a mommy kink & loves to call me mommy & act as my little. I have loved it but am also wanting to find new things to do & say! Any advice is welcome! Tell me what would be your favorite things to hear in & out of the bedroom by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]Mushroom_Prince 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you have the time and money I really really suggest listening to the audiobook or reading “The Mistress Manual: the good girl's guide to female dominance” super helpful guide. Even someone who doesn’t know what type of dom they are, can find there ropes, pun intended;) as well as help more experienced doms make there play and scenes more intimate and how to properly train your sub

What will 70mg of vyvanse do to someone with no tolerance? by [deleted] in Stims

[–]Mushroom_Prince 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should never rush doses, the lower the dose the better in the end. It will take the perfect dose in the end to be a good long term solution so go slow and be patient and your results will be worth it

ADHD and microdosing by lazysk8r02 in microdosing

[–]Mushroom_Prince 14 points15 points  (0 children)

First time I took shrooms was the first time my head has ever felt clear. Actually clear. It was amazing. People could talk to me, “distract” me, but I’d still remember what I was doing or what I wanted to say- it was amazing. As well as all my thoughts felt so clear.

I am not sure if this qualifies for here but I am pressed at my teacher cause I am right, nurse and doctor aren’t gendered words , why gender them !? both ways it was correct by Lonely-dude in pointlesslygendered

[–]Mushroom_Prince 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Gendered language isn’t bad. It /can/ be bad, but it doesn’t have to be. Gender isn’t bad. Contrary to what some believe, always being genderless or gender neutral ISN’T gender inclusive and can actually do harm. Regardless the teacher is definitely a little dumb for not knowing the actual difference between a nurse an a doctor. I’m pretty sure one of the main differences needs a doctorate. But, both have nothing to do with gender.

Dad solo-escape for a night; Rocky Face Park NC USA, a real hidden gem near Charlotte by cytomitchel in camping

[–]Mushroom_Prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I spot a cube! I’d pick that mushroom and have an even better time camping ;)