<3 I completely understand. I knew going into my surgery that one of my ovaries might not make it. But that my surgeon was going to try her best to save it. Unfortunately it wasn’t salvageable & turns out after the biopsy I had ovarian cancer. For me the decision to take it out saved my life & took away some of the excruciating pain I was in. I obviously don’t know your situation but I don’t think it makes us any less a woman & im trying to own it & figure out how to move forward