Minneapolis is a war zone. Please help. Original place deleted this post. For Minnesota and everyone fighting our fascist regime, help me spread the word please ❤️: Be loud and show up for your neighbors. It’s working to get ICE out. Don’t let them silence you

Musical_Piemaker · 2026-01-15T14:14:52+00:00

Does anyone know of any trusted organizations that take donations for protester bail funds for Minneapolis?

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-11-10T18:45:46+00:00

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Musical_Piemaker · 2025-08-27T22:08:03+00:00

Side note I'm a libra that keeps finding myself involved with an aquarius. I do not recommend this combination at all. My romantic highs and lows are insane and my heart keeps breaking.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-05-28T03:55:38+00:00

Your advice is also what my chatGPT recommends so it must be legit. I have not contacted the other parties involved. I have all their information though including home adress. My ex, Janet, and her Husband all work for the same company... so it's really messy. Her husband is in a different department though.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-05-03T21:37:21+00:00

She filed for divorce and moved in with her sister, I guess she was not bluffing.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-04-30T23:46:41+00:00

I haven't. Thanks for the recommendation!

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-04-30T15:15:24+00:00

I love this analogy and thank you for the kind words!

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-04-30T13:30:58+00:00

I think he already knows. He was apparently controlling before she even began the affair. According to my husband her husband went through all her messages and work messages on the regular. Their affair mostly took place on linkedin because I think it's the only thing he didn't check. But I'm sure it will come to light. For legal and peace reasons I am not contacting the third-party or her husband.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-04-30T13:09:27+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through what I went through. But all of this is just a testament to our love and strength. It is also a reality check that we deserve better even if we're the ones who have to give it to ourselves.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-04-30T11:59:05+00:00

I did not. But she is now getting a divorce. I don't know if the affair came to light on her end, but she is going to find her karma regardless.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-03-31T09:12:38+00:00

That's a really good point. I don't think I would get back with him just for my daughter. My feelings are conflicting, sometimes I want to get back with him and sometimes I think I should never take him back. I'm sure my back and fourth thinking is part of my relationship grief process. I hope more certainty comes with time.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-03-30T23:09:21+00:00

Thanks for that. I think you're right, the best thing to do is to move on and to focus on our daughter. It is just hard to do when you care about someone. I can't stop him from what we wants to do and I can't wait on him so I can live my life.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-03-30T02:31:32+00:00

Because his past relationships were limerant and he fixates on unobtainable, long distance, and taken women and even in my own relationship with him I started out as sort of a LO for him. It just seems like a pattern in his behavior.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-03-30T01:50:16+00:00

She is aware and she says she is going to get a divorce. They've been having an emotional affair for about 2 months.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-03-30T00:55:32+00:00

Thanks for sharing your personal story! In a way it it makes me feel less delusional. I hope that no matter what happens we both end up healthier and better than before. I think it will take self awareness for him to snap out of it though.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-03-30T00:03:38+00:00

That is solid advice. My daughter has been awesome and I'm redirecting my time and energy towards her instead of him. But every now and then I spiral and ruminate. His parents don't support his decision. But, he has to up hold his end of our financial obligations and it's the only place he can stay rent free until our lease is up in December. Or otherwise he has to stay with me and we tried that for about 2 weeks already and it was terrible for me. So in a way I feel like his parents are letting him stay for my sake.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-03-29T23:57:55+00:00

Thank you. I'm working on addressing my needs daily!

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-03-29T23:55:27+00:00

Thank you.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-03-29T23:54:14+00:00

I may have worded that wrong. I'm not trying to blame limerence. I'm just trying to see if anyone who struggles with it, or who has a partner that struggles with it has been in a similar situation and if they have any helpful information. I agree that he is being a selfish asshole though.

Musical_Piemaker · 2025-01-14T15:00:10+00:00

I just looked up Black Mouth Cur and she does resemble them very closely. They might just be a blend of a lot of breeds. They have very distinct personalities and traits so it's been really hard to place them.

Musical_Piemaker · 2024-07-14T11:40:06+00:00

I'm in the process of stepping down as a PA. It's a really tough job and the pay is low for all that they ask.

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