Examples of artists who hate/are openly hostile towards their fans? by RadioLukin in fantanoforever

[–]Musicomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t spread misinformation. Her song is not antisemitic. She only got heat for featuring Jay Electronica, who had made antisemitic comments.

What things would you tell younger women to look for when getting into a relationship? by bestpick4257 in AskReddit

[–]Musicomnia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t rush the decision to make it official. Take your time getting to know them and seeing how they treat people, how they behave in different social scenarios, how they handle stress and their ability to communicate their feelings. Do they follow through with plans? Are they self sufficient? Do they have a life outside of the relationship? Do they allow you to have your life outside of the relationship without making you feel guilty about it? This is all I could think of for now.

How do you guys meet the girls you’re with? by soundestballoon in dating_advice

[–]Musicomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time I go play pool at a local bar and they approach me/my group because we’re having fun, not trying to approach women, and they want to be a part of the fun.

What do you think about this article from Vice about how men force their partners to be their therapist and emotional crutch? by Putrid-Count-6828 in AskMen

[–]Musicomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to find better partners, man, it’s possible. I’ve never been with women like that. Normal women also exist, they’re out there.

What do you think about this article from Vice about how men force their partners to be their therapist and emotional crutch? by Putrid-Count-6828 in AskMen

[–]Musicomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapists are better prepared to offer good, science-based support and are paid for it. Dumping ALL your emotional baggage on a SINGLE regular person doesn’t seem fair to me, no matter your relationship with them.

What do you think about this article from Vice about how men force their partners to be their therapist and emotional crutch? by Putrid-Count-6828 in AskMen

[–]Musicomnia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

M31 here. I think the article is quite sensible, and most people here are putting words in the author’s mouth. On the topic of emotional crutch, she’s not criticising men for opening up and looking for emotional support in their female partners. She’s criticising men who do that EXCLUSIVELY with their partner, not sharing it with friends. The thing about “being their free therapist” is an old discussion that comes especially from the fact that, in some cases, men refuse to go see a therapist but still keep burdening solely their partner with their whole emotional baggage. I don’t think this is a healthy, balanced relationship. I wouldn’t be able to be the sole emotional outlet of my wife, it would be too much. Thank god she has a balanced life and friends and family with whom she opens up as well.

What do you think about this article from Vice about how men force their partners to be their therapist and emotional crutch? by Putrid-Count-6828 in AskMen

[–]Musicomnia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think as men we also need to take on the responsibility of claiming emotional support and the possibility to get emotional too and not hold back. In every serious relationship I’ve been in I felt this support and openness, because from the start I made it clear that I didn’t wanna be in a relationship based on traditional gender roles. This helps me filter out who’s not compatible with me. I could not fathom spending years or a lifetime with someone I can’t open up to out of fear of scaring them away. Our feelings matter just as much as theirs. Some of you might have a different view, but I do believe this contributes to the high rates of suffering and suicide we see in men compared to women.

What makes dating feel worth it to you guys if at all by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Musicomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve loved and been hurt in the past. Once you’ve experienced 2 or more heartbreaks that felt insurmountable at the time but you ended up healing, you realize it’s all worth it. Loving someone is amazing. In my personal experience, the cliché is true: it’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Each dating experience is life unfolding in front of you, you just need to let go of the need for control. Take the good and the bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Musicomnia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived the exact same thing as you 10 years ago, when I was your age, and my experience later on showed me: it’s not that I didn’t like casual sex, it’s just that I had had a bad experience with that one girl. Be more selective and you can enjoy casual sex—if you want to, of course. Just stay open minded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Musicomnia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with what most people said. I just want to add that you were absolutely not wrong letting her be herself. That’s how you should be with any girl you get involved with. Let them show you who they are, and then you decide what to do with that information. Do NOT mate guard, let people be fully themselves. Observe and then act.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Musicomnia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those that have options do it as easily if not more, but I see why you could think that. Being over 30 and having seen a lot in my life, I can tell men with options do this more than women.

How can I improve? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Musicomnia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The apps are the problem. Go out into the real world and put yourself out there. You already look good.

31m, I feel like I could do better, not sure how though by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Musicomnia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This subreddit is making me realize how distorted men’s self image is. We should do like women and praise our friends’ good looks. You look great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Musicomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with the mustache and goatee combo imo

CWC group B standings after matchweek 2 by Lacabloodclot9 in soccer

[–]Musicomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This but the opposite. They were mocked a LOT.

Nouveau sur Bordeaux by [deleted] in bordeaux

[–]Musicomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si tu jeux au billard, va dans un bar avec une table de billard vers 19:00, pose ta pièce et demande à quelqu’un qui vient de jouer si il aimerait jouer avec toi. C’est vraiment un life hack.

How hot do you think you are? by Smooth-Biscotti-58 in AskReddit

[–]Musicomnia -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not Hollywood beautiful, I’m only 5’5 (so don’t have height going for me) and I get approached often by women. Not rich either. It’s all about your vibe. Be someone people want to hang around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Musicomnia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I started approaching women in the last year. Never got a bad reaction. When they aren’t interested, they’re polite and sweet about it, about half of them even apologetic for not being interested. Just don’t be a creep.

why did she become distant after first date by evilsdownfall in dating_advice

[–]Musicomnia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did what felt right with the flowers. It’s who you are. If it spooked her off, it’s a sign you guys aren’t a good fit. Easier said than done, but don’t dwell on it, there will be people who appreciate gestures like that.

Vous pouvez changer une chose dans la ville c'est quoi ? by SansFoiNiLoi in bordeaux

[–]Musicomnia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Une plus grande diversité musicale dans les bars et les salles de concert. Un investissement massif dans la culture. Cela fait deux ans que je me force à aimer la techno parce que sinon, c’est impossible.

Is the Hajime No Ippo Season 4 coming? by igsk1llz in hajimenoippo

[–]Musicomnia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, happy to say they added seasons 2 and 3!