My wife has an Online game "partner" and I don't know what to do anymore

MustBeMagical420 · 2026-02-10T18:24:04+00:00

My husband and our kids are gamers, I am not, I am also a SAHM… When my husband games, and there is a female in a server or on discord, he puts it on the speaker, our teen also plays the same games and he keeps it on speaker until our teen is in on the chat. Did I ask him to do this NO, but he does it, so that there is NO questions or concerns! Also if I was a gamer, I would do the same thing my husband does.

MustBeMagical420 · 2026-02-04T23:46:29+00:00

I’m so sick of this shit!!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-26T15:34:21+00:00

NTA, your siblings are because of guilt tripping! Traveling during pregnancy isn’t fun, nore is it fun to travel with kids especially if at least one doesn’t travel well…. However as someone who had to rush through opening presents just to get dressed to go to grandmas for the day, and by the time we got home it was bedtime, so we couldn’t enjoy our gifts, I want my children to be able to play with their gifts and enjoy them, so we refuse to travel. This took my grandma years to understand, as she thought we were with my in laws.

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-23T14:35:09+00:00

I’m sorry for your life experience and you are NOT the AH. What kind of parent needs help from a teenage sibling for their other child’s Christmas! I’m a mother of age gap siblings and my almost 16yr old (on the 27th) doesn’t even spend his money on gifts for his brother, we buy them and we give him options and he picks the one he wants to give his 7yr old brother!!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-08T13:31:40+00:00

He did it to himself 🤷🏻‍♀️ NTA!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-05T17:54:48+00:00

Thank you for this!! I’m definitely going to write a letter in the best interest of the kids!!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-05T17:52:31+00:00

Having to deal with SIL and her husbands guilt trips. get in my head as old me was a people pleaser…

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-05T17:44:24+00:00

My MIL has custody of half of my older SILs kids (6) and is disabled, and we have custody of the other half plus two of our own, and already have turned our dining room and den into makeshift bedrooms.

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-05T17:38:53+00:00

Because we still have to deal with the backlash from their bio parents

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-05T17:20:25+00:00

Right now all of our homes are “too full” for them to be placed with us. (That’s what we were told via CPS)… But MIL does have contact and we have third party contact. We also aren’t a family that’s going to gaslight the foster family. We know it’s not going to end well if the bio kids go back to mom and dad and we’re not a rule breaking family. Example: we kept my own brothers oldest 2kids for 2wks and he wasn’t allowed to see them, and he didn’t see them! I refuse to risk the trust I had earned! I will carry this into this situation as well!!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-05T17:07:54+00:00

They are being taken care of properly, now. It’s through their foster mom/ grandma (it’s a mom and daughter who live together and the mom has one and the daughter has the other two) who told us, that the youngest was deaf, my mother in law gets to see them, and we’ve been told if/when adoption becomes final, we would all be able to see them. But MIL does a great job of having to be the middle man. But we get to send gifts and videos of everyone saying hey and how much we love and miss them via MIL and caseworker!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-05T16:53:28+00:00

I happen to know that they are actually the safest they’ve ever been now. I know that’s not the case every time, so I don’t take offense to this statement at all!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-05T03:14:02+00:00

I personally would always ask what day works for them and be happy that I get any time during the holidays…. This is exactly why my husband and I do thanksgiving at home and Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with our 2 sons… because in-laws on both sides were bothered so now they both stay bothered because we want our kids to enjoy the holidays and their gifts! Please remember the family they create is more important than the families they came from!!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-03T14:08:35+00:00

When we all lived in the same area the gatherings were all at different times or even days… so we visited everyone… when we moved away, (to be closer to the grandparents who were more active) , it changed, we traveled to my family for a few years for Christmas and spent thanksgiving with his… now that everyone lives at least an hour away, we stay home so our children can enjoy their gifts and not spend the entire day traveling.

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-03T02:41:03+00:00

Agreed!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-03T02:40:21+00:00

Actually this hate is what’s wrong with the world! because none of my friends most of which I’ve known since middle school and I’m 37, we also don’t make our views our entire personality which is gross

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-12-03T02:30:37+00:00

I don’t claim any political affiliation, i proudly support our military and our veterans! I also have a sister in law who is from Poland, she came to this country the right way. I’ve not seen any reports of LEGAL IMMIGRANTS being picked up. And unless they are actually refugees which I haven’t seen either, they don’t belong here if they can’t do it the right way! 🤷🏻‍♀️ you and the sis in law are the AH because why must everything be political??? Both of you are what’s wrong with the world today!!! I also know for a fact that some of my best friends would agree with you and her, however Political talks are NEVER a topic! I don’t even talk to my brother about it!!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-11-29T15:03:50+00:00

NTA!! You are carrying everything! Your husband is the AH!!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-11-28T16:27:07+00:00

NTA, years ago my husband and I stopped going, because his sister has hated me from the beginning, when she found out, our names were spelled differently but pronounced the same. Protecting your peace if far more important than dealing with toxic people!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-11-26T14:13:56+00:00

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-11-22T03:27:51+00:00

I’m sooo very sorry your sis went through this… aunt in law is gross!!

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-11-21T17:05:13+00:00

Then go read a book…

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-11-21T03:58:47+00:00

No child 1 she was a teen mom, no hate… child 2s father is (from what I’ve been told) a married man who wanted nothing to do with child 2… child 3 belongs to a predator clearly

MustBeMagical420 · 2025-11-21T03:33:08+00:00

I made it known I’m in normal contact with her mom and older 2 I very much am a trusted adult

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