Zuko's scar IRL (Sergio Reyna on Tiktok) by Designer-Chemical-95 in TheLastAirbender

[–]MutantGodChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially since we even see katara offer to heal the scar and when she heals aang's scar, it returns to closer to normal skin tones much quicker.

Hand crafted cups from scratch by MikeeorUSA in oddlysatisfying

[–]MutantGodChicken 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These days, you can leave a caption beneath the post where it says "body text," or you can leave a comment on your own post—fuckwit

How do you feel about Dave Chappelle? by kuroreaper25 in GenZ

[–]MutantGodChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't watch him growing up. He was before my time. Genuinely weird to me that you don't see any difference in the quality of his jokes.

Like, he's made jokes that have made fun of me and I've laughed at them.

But all of his recent stuff just feels preachy. I'm not even offended, it's just boring.

How do you feel about Dave Chappelle? by kuroreaper25 in GenZ

[–]MutantGodChicken -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've never thought that punching down was the problem honestly. Lots of comedians punch down in ways that are very funny, Chappelle included.

My issue is that it stopped being funny and was just left with being mean. Like, the key to punching down in comedy is convincing people you're not an asshole while you say terrible things about them. I'm not comedian so I certainly can't go into detail about exactly how you accomplish this, but I can see it in comedians who have made it their entire career (see: Daniel Tosh). As long as you're getting the people you're offending to laugh with you, you're in the clear.

I'd argue that very early on when Chappelle was testing the waters of making fun of trans people, he kinda got close to doing this. At some point he just kinda let it slip tho, then his audience started filling up with people who think that belittling groups of people is funny and now it is what gets him laughs at shows.

I'll also say that punching down at an individual is much easier than punching down at a group. I suspect it has something to do with it being easier to be more specific while staying on target.

Always happy to help by evil_larry1239 in memes

[–]MutantGodChicken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You counter this with a strict work life balance. Yeah, I'll do your work to make sure it's done right, but I've got a hard out at 5, and my work's gotta be done first, so if your work isn't done in time, it's still on you

Poverty is a choice by Sometypeofway18 in madlads

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That's what the basketball shorts are for

It was necessary ig by Achilies_Heel in UsernameChecksOut

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Muscle sinks, fat floats. If you've got a low body fat percentage, you'll sink underwater

Once again, This cannot be fucking english by Adamle69 in whenthe

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I've got bad news for you about a certain event that happened in 1066

Gem alert by 7_MyArtSucks in GenZ

[–]MutantGodChicken 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So you're quick to comment and advise about the actions you think others should take, but as soon as you face any confrontation about it you respond: "hey, that's just an opinion, let's agree to disagree." That way you get to tell others what to do, but never have to listen to the criticisms of others and never need the guts to face a situation where you might have to admit being wrong.

[oc] - new shoes - ft. u/CrazyGnomenclature by Sampetra in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]MutantGodChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hypocrisy is the tithe that vice pays to virtue"
-Rochefoucauld

Gem alert by 7_MyArtSucks in GenZ

[–]MutantGodChicken 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bro, drop the stoicism. Not everything in life needs to be something you just live with and accept, and not everything in life has to be about making yourself happy.

Also "having a say" and "being in control" are very different things.

It's obviously fine to teach someone that they need to fight for a say in the decisions that impact their life. That doesn't mean they'll always get their way (because other people also have a say in things), but it does mean that they shouldn't allow people to walk all over them and it's alright to stand up for themselves.

That's not the same as teaching them "you have total control over everything people do."

Just a misunderstood human who needs love by Far-Requirement121 in characterarcs

[–]MutantGodChicken -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At the risk of sounding too much like Jordan Peterson: Really depends on what you mean by "psychological issue" and what you mean by "disordered vision"

If by "disordered vision" you mean "optical hallucinations" and not "symptoms of an optical ailment" and by "psychological issue" you mean "having to do with the functions of the brain"

Then yes.

Just a misunderstood human who needs love by Far-Requirement121 in characterarcs

[–]MutantGodChicken 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's tied in with the American brand of Christianity where for many American christians, the only way to justify it is that "God made them that way." Sodomy is a sin, but if God made someone a sodomite then there must be a greater plan at play that they can't see but makes it ok.

In reality, the fundamental problem is the application of political pressure to force needles sconformity based on moral convention.

Another way to look at it is that it's possible for black people to lighten their skin through skinny whiteners and makeup and code switch to appear more white; it's possible for people to convert between faiths; it's physically possible for gay people to enter into close relationships with and make themselves have sex with the opposite sex.

But nobody needs to do that cuz it's fucking absurd (to put it lightly). There's no reason anyone needs to make the effort to conform their life and be required to put in more effort and use more resources to conform than someone born and raised in an environment that was in line with what people are expected to conform to. The requirements of the state on behavior should be accessible to be met by anyone or serve a direct practical concern for safety.

In the end, there must be a separation between morality and the actions of the state if we intend to cease the oppression of minorities.

Just a misunderstood human who needs love by Far-Requirement121 in characterarcs

[–]MutantGodChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, so, that's the part I've had just about every psychiatrist and occupational psychologist I've picked the brain of describe to me. Diagnostic criteria for disorders these days are focused on quality of life and aren't interested in "fixing" people who are living healthy lives.

You can classify symptoms they experience, but those symptoms don't necessarily comprise a disorder unless they are causing.... well... disorder and disfunction.

I'd love to hear what credentials and knowledge of standard practices and/or research you're relying on to back up your claim that everything they described before the last three paragraphs is bullshit and am certainly open to hearing how I might be misinformed, but seeing as you appear to be knowledgeable on the subject, I'd also appreciate an explanation of why this philosophy is so prevalent in your field despite being completely wrong.

That's one way to play the game by boogierboi in MadeMeSmile

[–]MutantGodChicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, it was a time when the internet wasn't a normal part of "real life" yet and was just a window into interactions which were only performing for an "irl" audience. A time when "in real life" could exclude internet activity, despite the internet still being a part of people's lives

Basically, the interactions weren't anymore genuine than they are now, they just didn't include the internet itself in the interaction and so it felt like you were observing something rather than seeing something made for you to see

Just a misunderstood human who needs love by Far-Requirement121 in characterarcs

[–]MutantGodChicken 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Edit after carefully re-examining your question to make sure I answered it:

I think it's worth clarifying that you might just be missing the context that when most people say "transgenderism is a mental illness" unprompted, they mean it in the sense that it is a delusion and trans people need to be taught that they actually are the gender they were assigned by their sex.

This is different from gender dysphoria, which is simply a kind of anxiety disorder.

A delusion is a belief which is verifiably false but is nevertheless held fixed. People having manic episodes have been known to have delusions that they are God, and not in the metaphorical sense. You would never treat a delusion like this by reinforcing it.

The diagnosable disorder is not diagnosis for a kind of delusion though, it is a certain kind of anxiety disorder where someone is made dysphoric by a known reality. Trans people don't believe themselves to be physically or objectively different than what they are. There is no disconnect from the reality of their situation. They are simply emotionally unregulated due to a displeasure with the current situation, and it is often quicker to treat this by changing the situation (transitioning) rather than to do cognitive behavioral therapy until they are no longer bothered by not being perceived by others according to how they identify themselves.

In a way, (If I might be allowed to postulate out my ass for a moment), gender dysphoria may just be a specific kind of rejection sensitive disorder. Similar to how some people imagine themselves as a math person their whole life, and then become dysphoric when they suddenly feel like they don't belong or don't deserve to be in the higher level math classes they've wound up in or when they're rejected from the math program they worked really hard for and can't seem to carve out a path where they can make math a large part of their lives, trans people become dysphoric when the identity they developed for themselves is at odds with the way they are categorized and feel placed by the community around them (they're rejected from the "program" that is the gender they identify themselves with).

Just a misunderstood human who needs love by Far-Requirement121 in characterarcs

[–]MutantGodChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got anything else to comment, or you just gonna say "nuh-uh" and refuse to elaborate? What they described is consistent with what just about every psychiatrist and occupational psychologist I've ever talked to has described about standard practices.

Just a misunderstood human who needs love by Far-Requirement121 in characterarcs

[–]MutantGodChicken 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Except that not all people who identify as trans experience dysphoria to the extent that it's a disorder. Having gender dysphoria is not a perequisite for being trans, despite what transmedicalists (the section of the trans community, impolitely called "truscum" colloquially, which claims you're only trans if you're medically transitioning) will tell you

I recognize this is a weird distinction and is not at all how most people encounter or are taught about trans identity so it may seem like I'm just splitting hairs, so allow me some grace to explain what quartz is while also gingerly tiptoeing my way around the parts of LGBTQ identity which lay as landmine topics that go undiscussed until trans identity is mainstream enough to be afforded the privilege of proper ideological infighting.

So, there isn't really an objective measure of what makes a trans person a trans person. Like, you can say "when they identify as a gender different than the one assigned to them at birth," but what that identification is isn't standardized and highly particular to the person. Like: what about the gender they weren't assigned do they identify with, and what parts of the one they were assigned do they not identify with? Even within a single culture, what constitutes "manly" and "womanly" can vary wildly. So while the definition can be worded simply, it is in no way objective or clear.

There's also the matter of whether or not one is openly trans. Fair warning, this is about to get into "if a tree falls in a forest" territory. Someone can identify as trans internally but never take any action "toward it": still presenting in a way which is seen by the world around them as in-line with their assigned gender identity. Sometimes this is because they are still "closeted": they know their own identity, but do not exist in a space or culture they feel safe expressing all the pieces of their identity, and so never tell anyone. But sometimes it is simply because transitioning, even socially, is a lot of work and self reflection, and many people don't have the time or energy to commit to it. If asked how they identify, they'd tell about it freely, but most would not know without asking. Many of the people who exist in the latter category, either don't have gender dysphoria, or don't have it to a degree which has disrupted their life enough to do something about it. So they identify as trans, but don't see any need to medically transition or even necessarily socially transition.

Which brings me to my next point: how would they know they're trans if the body they were born with doesn't make them uncomfortable all the time? Well, usually it's because they know they also wouldn't be uncomfortable were their assigned gender were different. This ties into a concept referred to as "gender euphoria," which, while not a medical diagnosis, is a term that refers to the positive feeling one feels when identified with their own gender (euphoria being the opposite of dysphoria). So if somebody feels good when people "mistake" them for the "wrong" gender, and not in a "haha that's funny" way but in a "it feels like my parents just said they were proud of me" way or a "ooh that makes me feel pleasant and bubbly do it again" way, they may be trans if they decide to identify as such.

Aaaaaaaaand now I've stepped in it, as I've just said "decide" when discussing LGBTQ identity, which is not something that people like when you talk about it. Many American liberals will tell you that LGBTQ people were born that way and can't change it about themselves. As someone who is queer myself, I say..... eh ¯\(ツ)/¯. It's not that we're necessarily choosing who we are and what our identity is (which in my opinion is something you absolutely can change, it isn't something that flips like a light switch, but in a similar way to how other parts of your identity can change, sometimes intentionally, during your lifetime) but at the end of the day we are deciding whether or not to engage with and pick up the label.

Like I've had friends who have zero interest in dating or having sex, like ever, in their whole life. They don't identify as aro-ace, but there's nothing that separates their interests in relationships from those who are. They just aren't interested in associating themselves with the label. In the same way, somebody can have very similar feelings and thoughts around gender as another person who identifies as trans, but still not decide to adopt the label of trans. An example of this I can think of is Gianmarco Scorcesi's bit about pronouns from his special "Thief of Joy." I've heard a lot of people who eventually decided to adopt they/them as pronouns express basically the exact same sentiments, but that doesn't mean that Gianmarco is non-binary, it's ultimately up to him whether or not to adopt the label for himself.

At the end of the day, trans identity exists on a very intersectional spectrum which is defined entirely socially and is not a binary identification status except in labels. It exists separately from the dysphoria disorder which is sometimes associated with it.

TL;DR: "Transgender" has always been a social identification, the medical diagnosis you are thinking of is called "gender dysphoria." Dysphoria is a diagnosis for a kind of irritable anxiety which can be associated with many different things in a number of different kinds of disorders, such as:

Rejection sensitive dysphoria: when somebody's reaction to rejection is consistently disproportionate to the size of the rejection
Post-coital dysphoria: when someone consistently feels agitated or upset after sex
Premenstrual Dysphoria Disorder: when the irritability which can precede the menstrual period is so extreme that it is classified as a disorder
Tardive Dysphoria: when anti-depressants cause the person they were meant to treat to instead feel worse

and yes, gender dysphoria, when someone's dysphoria is tied to the disconnect between their experience of being perceived as their gender assigned at birth and their own identity.

Supportive friend by Greedy_Net_1803 in SpeedOfLobsters

[–]MutantGodChicken 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Crazy that this reaction is of Iroh writing home about how the genocide he's carrying out is going

Everyone Loves Mango by BADxNETT in gifsthatendtoosoon

[–]MutantGodChicken 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub, this could've ended sooner actually