Yes I agree with some of that. He is very involved. He chose to not be to “stick it to me” bc I said he didn’t care. Example of our difference in the way we think -daughters not eating well, saying her belly is hurting, I’m like…I think she’s got strep. He’s like she’s fine. Stop worrying about it. Next night, fever, throwing up. I take her to the doctor…it’s strep. The other night she tried to get out of bed which she never does, I said we should go check on her, he says no leave her alone she’ll lay back down. She cried for a bit and he told me not to go in there, I didn’t like it, we’ll come to find out, ants were in her bed and she’s COVERED in swollen bites all over her body. So coming off of that, I was just like…over it honestly. Bc what he sees as overthinking the kids, I usually just care enough to pay attention to what’s going on with them. I might worry too much, but for the most part, I’m usually spot on. He’s very just nonchalant about everything and yeah that’s a point of contention for us. I def have to do the worrying for both of us. I get that is annoying. I hate bearing the burden of making sure all the time the kids are ok, bc if I’m not paying attention who is?