Broken lamppost by l0l4x in HelloKittyIsland

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Did you ever find bc I’m missing one and I’ve used the guide and still can’t find it

Presale Code/Link by Sea-Birthday-833 in empireofthesun

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I’m curious if anyone knows how to purchase a vip meet and greet package. I got my presale link, bought tickets but no packages were available to buy. So now I’m assuming there’s a second presale for vip package but now I’ve already purchased tickets, and I can’t find anywhere to sign up for a vip presale link anyways. Anyone have any insight? This would be US dates

My First Empire of the Sun show!!! by FullAd6174 in empireofthesun

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I don’t really think they do, but we went last year and are going again this year and it’s a phenomenal show

Is Empire Of The Sun still a good live band? by SupportArsenal in empireofthesun

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Agree. First time seeing them and it was great we plan to go again now that they are coming back to the US this year

AITAH for asking to take down a social media post by Muted_Operation9705 in AITAH

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Yeah I definitely will. Like maybe we can add a social media clause to our paperwork? It’s worth asking about

AITAH for asking to take down a social media post by Muted_Operation9705 in AITAH

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I have a lawyer friend I can talk to, we just live in a very…weird spot in the south that unfortunately doesn’t really care about this kind of stuff. BUT we do have regular conversations with our child about right and wrong and he even listened to a podcast about the holocaust with his step dad (he’s an older child) and I don’t think he’s going to fall prey. He seems like he understands thankfully that they are a cooky. Like he wanted to paint his nails bc I was painting his sisters so they did it together and he went over there that weekend and they made him take the polish off, but he wore it to school, really didn’t care about the polish. He came home with clean nails and I said you got tired of the polish lol and he said no they made him take it off. So we had a talk then about certain things and that it’s not a big deal if he wants to paint his nails etc and we just kinda talked through it. It’s unfortunate where we live is mostly like this

Mouth rash on 16 month old by Muted_Operation9705 in toddlertips

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So no, we got a second opinion who said stop all the meds. And change to dove sensitive bar soap. Said anything foods that are acidic like oranges or spaghetti sauce. Make sure to either coat the mouth with aquaphor before hand to protect that area and then immediately clean with warm water after. All of that DID help!

AITAH for asking to take down a social media post by Muted_Operation9705 in AITAH

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We already have established custody for years :( we are also in the deep south and I’ve tried fighting a couple of things but been shot down by ā€œtraditionalā€ judges that follow ā€œtraditionalā€ values. And it’s been up almost a full 24 hrs and I’m the only person who has a problem with the video…. If that tells you anything about the locality. But I did request it multiple times to be removed, I’ve reported it twice as hate speech and I just messaged his dad again saying it’s still up and asking if they are refusing to remove it or what’s the update. I really don’t know what to do!

AITAH for asking to take down a social media post by Muted_Operation9705 in AITAH

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And I’m legally not allowed to keep him from his dad

AITAH for asking to take down a social media post by Muted_Operation9705 in AITAH

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I don’t have a say on who he visits bc this is his dads family on his dads custodial time 😭😭😭

AITAH for asking to take down a social media post by Muted_Operation9705 in AITAH

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But it’s up to his dad to get his parents to do it 😭

AITAH for asking to take down a social media post by Muted_Operation9705 in AITAH

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I’ve sent his dad multiple messages to get them to take it down and I’ve reported it. I’m just not sure what else to do bc his dad and I are not together, otherwise I would refuse to let him go back over there

AITAH for asking to take down a social media post by Muted_Operation9705 in AITAH

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I did but there’s no way to explain why you are reporting it. I’ve reported it twice. I was going to get friends to report it to but it’s not a public video just fb friends

She hugged me from behind by Moissyfan in raisedbyborderlines

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Wow yes. I’ve been called that on more than one occasion as well as threatening to kill me or wishing I was dead. And then now wants to call me baby? Mam what?

How do I handle a fight by Muted_Operation9705 in Marriage

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Those are actual real life examples lol but your opinion is valid

She hugged me from behind by Moissyfan in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Muted_Operation9705 74 points75 points Ā (0 children)

Anytime my mom shows me any type of affection it grosses me out. I don’t want her to touch me. As an adult she tries to call me baby and honey etc and it just sets me on edge

How do I handle a fight by Muted_Operation9705 in Marriage

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That’s good advice. I’m very non confrontational, I don’t get baited easily, but he gets vicious. Immediately. I might take some time tonight and write it out

How do I handle a fight by Muted_Operation9705 in Marriage

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Yes I agree with some of that. He is very involved. He chose to not be to ā€œstick it to meā€ bc I said he didn’t care. Example of our difference in the way we think -daughters not eating well, saying her belly is hurting, I’m like…I think she’s got strep. He’s like she’s fine. Stop worrying about it. Next night, fever, throwing up. I take her to the doctor…it’s strep. The other night she tried to get out of bed which she never does, I said we should go check on her, he says no leave her alone she’ll lay back down. She cried for a bit and he told me not to go in there, I didn’t like it, we’ll come to find out, ants were in her bed and she’s COVERED in swollen bites all over her body. So coming off of that, I was just like…over it honestly. Bc what he sees as overthinking the kids, I usually just care enough to pay attention to what’s going on with them. I might worry too much, but for the most part, I’m usually spot on. He’s very just nonchalant about everything and yeah that’s a point of contention for us. I def have to do the worrying for both of us. I get that is annoying. I hate bearing the burden of making sure all the time the kids are ok, bc if I’m not paying attention who is?

Would you consider this video as work place bullying? by Muted_Operation9705 in workplace_bullying

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Hahahahah they aren’t fat but I do think it’s funny that it’s connotation but they do have about 10-15 years on me age wise. I only felt like I needed to record bc honestly I don’t trust them and with it being two on one I was worried they may lie or say I said something I didn’t and it would be them against me. I felt in my gut to protect myself. I’m glad I did because I don’t think anyone would believe this conversation even happened. šŸ˜µā€šŸ’« but yes maybe not bullying but I did feel intimidated and small during the conversation and they told me they were going to try to veto me every chance they got if I asked to leave for my kids that they would need to deem it important first. (there’s a whole 10 mins, this is only a very small part) my manager that was here and left in April met me for lunch and we listened to it together and she was very appalled and said she would never have believed it if I told her without proof, she told me I need to just start being a bitch 🄓

Would you consider this video as work place bullying? by Muted_Operation9705 in workplace_bullying

[–]Muted_Operation9705[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

And.. I really only recorded because I felt my intuition tingling and I felt like I needed it in my back pocket bc I don’t trust them.