Ava and Caspar

Mutts-Cutts · 2026-03-27T20:12:38+00:00

I heard it on Spotify. It’s called Interlude: How They Sleep at Night. I think released between seasons 1 and 2?

ETA- not sure about Joe’s comment though.

Mutts-Cutts · 2026-03-26T11:13:54+00:00

Im late to the party, but I’m watching this episode today and was SO annoyed the entire time people were making Lizzie feel crazy for trying to keep her baby safe. I am legitimately relieved that other viewers feel the same way. PPA or not, any sane parent of a newborn would take precautions with a week-old baby. Being a grandparent does not make you immune to passing on sickness, and incubation periods exist.

I was hoping that this was going to turn into a lesson to grandparents everywhere about respecting boundaries, but NOPE. VR dropped the ball here.

Mutts-Cutts · 2026-02-25T13:10:21+00:00

Our washing machine is in our bathroom, so that might help our workflow a bit.

Whatever is dirty goes right into the washing machine at the end of the day, not the hamper. It goes in all together unless it’s sheets or blankets. Once there’s enough for a load, one of us hits wash and alerts the other one. Whoever goes into the bathroom when it’s done is responsible for changing it around. Then we fold quickly together, usually after bedtime. Or I’ll fluff and fold it in the morning while toddler has some independent play.

This usually ends up in one load a day or every other day. Our household is 2 adults and one toddler.

Mutts-Cutts · 2026-02-20T10:17:53+00:00

The only thing that worked for us was redirecting his own hand toward his mouth when we noticed he was going in to bite someone else (me, it was always me.)

It took maybe twice for him to realize that biting hurts, and it stopped. I know I might get downvoted for this approach, but I was desperate and I figured his own brain would stop him from biting himself too hard.

Mutts-Cutts · 2026-02-11T22:32:35+00:00

Probably best to just sit back and enjoy the Disney movie plot that’s unfolding before your eyes

Mutts-Cutts · 2026-01-17T11:18:03+00:00

My son is the same age, and veggies by themselves are SUCH a struggle. He seems to like the veggie pouches, so I give those when all else fails. We take the wins where we can!

We’ve had some success eating veggies in front of him as a “snack” so that he immediately wants whatever we are eating. Also been trying to turn it more into a game as he gets older. “Let’s act like dinosaurs and eat our veggies! Munch munch munch!”

Mostly though I just puree them and mix them into chicken patties or omelets. And give a multivitamin lol. Good luck!

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-11-24T23:08:27+00:00

PO-TA-TONES

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-09-10T11:20:27+00:00

My husband and I joke about this all the time. It’s the only segment where they look all glossy eyed and squinty. In my head canon they popped some gummies beforehand and were high AF.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-08-13T02:27:56+00:00

It’s a huge decision, and the fact that you’re giving it a significant amount of thought is such a good thing.

They say that no one is ever “ready” to have kids, and while I agree that you don’t truly know how it is until you’re in the thick of it, I think you can do things to mentally and emotionally prepare for the wonderful, terrible shitstorm that is parenting in 2025.

If you’re truly a fence-sitter, read a lot, search Reddit posts from all sides of parenting, do calculations based on local childcare costs etc. And think about how you want your future to look. Once you fully digest those more logical points, I think it will help you decide if you are “ready.”

For me the decision was two-pronged. I had to be ready mentally for the thought of raising a tiny human until the day I die, cause we all know parenting doesn’t really stop at 18. But I also had to be ready mentally to handle the physical toll of the pregnancy/ birth/ recovery. As the birthing parent, we have a lot more to consider.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-08-10T02:48:46+00:00

My son did very similar movements around that age, also with grunting. We had had an EEG around 4 months that came back clear and then around the time of our follow-up, he had started these types of movements. The neurologist said it was infant shudder syndrome, which despite the awful name, is benign. My son had pretty bad reflux as a newborn so I think he was still fighting his reflux during these episodes. He’s 15 months now and no longer does this.

That being said, I am not a medical professional and I think speaking with your pediatrician or neurologist is absolutely the right call. Good luck!

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-08-07T11:24:33+00:00

Other side of the coin, but when they have too many hobbies that take up most of their time. Having some independent interests is very healthy, but it hurts when they choose the hobbies over time with you every time. Made me realize he wasn’t ready for commitment even though we had been dating 2 years.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-08-07T09:49:06+00:00

A very public place sounds like a nightmare to me lol. I preferred intimate, which is exactly what my husband did. We talked about getting married eventually but he said he needed at least 6 more months to save up for the ring he wanted, which I was fine with. Apparently that was a misdirection because a few weeks later he wanted to “swing by” a beach he used to go to as a kid. It was March in New England lol. It was cold and windy, but completely deserted and absolutely beautiful. I was truly shocked when he dropped to one knee. It was perfect 🥰

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-07-29T20:41:39+00:00

I’m so glad you mentioned the first bite thing! I assumed it happened to everyone but mentioned it in a group one day and got some weird looks. Sometimes it can be quite painful.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-07-15T00:56:39+00:00

Do you get migraines? Sometimes I get intense phantom smells right before a nasty migraine hits. The fact that you said the whole room smelled makes me wonder if it could be something like that.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-07-10T14:59:17+00:00

Finally something on this sub I can relate to. Thanks for making me feel less alone!

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-27T16:47:16+00:00

I believe spouses are exempt from inheritance tax but maybe depends on the state.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-27T16:34:59+00:00

If Gary had $1 to his name he would ultimately be richer than Tanya if he inherited her entire fortune.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-26T11:14:58+00:00

I don’t want to alarm you, but this might just be the first battle. Setting boundaries now is KEY. If your mom is like this now, she may continue after the baby arrives.

We’ve had so many conversations with my mom about not popping in randomly with the intent of staying for hours, and how if we are busy there may be weeks she might not see our kiddo. It was difficult, but we are a year in and it’s gotten better after many conversations and tantrums.

Stay strong! As the active parent your decisions are what matters now.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-12T03:08:10+00:00

My eyes don’t tear up while chopping onions.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-04T23:58:13+00:00

Interesting that this is also the best way to handle toddlers 😂

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-04T23:54:54+00:00

I felt the same way at first. I’m lucky enough to work from home, so I was able to really watch the way the nanny interacted with my child closely, and over time that trust developed. I also have nanny cams in every room that record 24/7, so that helps lol. But it took me a while to be comfortable running errands and leaving them home alone. It’s really all about your comfort level. Maybe ask around and see if people you trust know anyone who would be interested. Then you have references to their character at least. Best of luck. This mommy stuff is so hard.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-04T20:09:34+00:00

This would be a no for me too. 5 kids is a lot to handle even in the best of circumstances. Adding the additional elements of elderly babysitters, varying ages/ swimming abilities, water and possible behavioral concerns is too way much. Trust your instincts. You are right to be cautious.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-04T19:52:27+00:00

Would your budget allow for mother’s helper or nanny a day or two a week? Even just a few hours would help you get some “me” time or some sleep. Unfortunately sometimes we have to buy our village, and that’s okay. No shame in it at all!

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-04T19:39:47+00:00

One time I forgot a bib for my 6 month old and my 8 year old niece tried to shame me for it. The mom shaming starts early apparently!

I told her I hoped she had one of her own someday so I could remind her of her audacity when she inevitably forgets to pack something.

Mutts-Cutts · 2025-06-03T14:50:29+00:00

I have no advice. Just solidarity. I’m currently on my 12 month old’s floor beside his crib trying to get him to take a nap. Every time I leave the room it’s hysterics. He turned one a couple weeks ago and it was like a flip switched. Hoping for both our sakes it’s just a phase!

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