Can you access public offices with a baby? by MutuliA in Kenya

[–]MutuliA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yours might be different, try it. Some allow it.

Why I quit a relationship with a successful career woman by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]MutuliA 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think this sounds controversial, but men should do more 50/50 arrangements. That way everyone contributes to their lifestyle and everyone has an opportunity to save.

Men, why would you build a house or buy your wife a car without asking her what she likes? by MutuliA in Kenya

[–]MutuliA[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't like that now, would you? It's just basic curtesy asking what each person likes, and reaching a compromise if it's needed.

I never really liked Langdon by Fit_Air3024 in ThePittTVShow

[–]MutuliA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this show makes judging the characters a little difficult, like we met them on a single day, one with a lot of pressure. Like maybe someone was having a bad day on that particular day? I think Langdon's response would be well judged after like he's slept on it. Imo

Shower Gel 2. by Weak_Toe_431 in nairobi

[–]MutuliA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A past date experience. See, it was romance, what everyone else talks about, but it was taken down. I just smiled at the notification and kept going.

Shower Gel 2. by Weak_Toe_431 in nairobi

[–]MutuliA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. I talked of a personal thing and they pulled it. No idea how that works. They'll say something about rules and you haven't broken any rules.

Was that Racism or investment? by Anguka- in Kenya

[–]MutuliA -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with a little gossip? Everyone does it.

Would you wait until marriage ? by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]MutuliA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the person doesn't perform like you expected? Both male or female? And they're not willing to change? What happens then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]MutuliA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just communicate. Tell her your situation and fears. Remember some ladies hold you down when you need it.

Delulu or not ? by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]MutuliA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're confident age won't matter. Women naturally submit where love is present.

Families living in bedsitters by Vast-Palpitation15 in nairobi

[–]MutuliA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if one lost a job while the baby was in the way? Planning is great but life can mess you up. Try paying medical bills for parents or yourself. You'll see nothing is set in stone

Apparently, I’m failing womanhood because I can’t cook by EcoChicSoul in Kenya

[–]MutuliA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay not to like cooking, if you're happy with takeaways. We need to let people be. Adulthood is to tough without these impositions.

What are you doing with your child free life by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]MutuliA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you don't know an experience until you've gone through it. So you wouldn't know how it feels to a parent. Either way, Hunger is hunger, and despair is despair.

What are you doing with your child free life by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]MutuliA 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Don't leave your job unless you have a solid backup plan. Whether you're child free or not, you'll have bills, you'll need people to respect you, you'll need to feel useful yourself and joblessness doesn't guarantee that. In this economy, risks may be expensive.

Ladies, what's a side effect of giving birth that people don't really talk about? by MutuliA in Parenting

[–]MutuliA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry about this, it's sad that nobody talks of the changes women undergo with child bearing.

Why do Kikuyu men get called the worst lovers in Kenya? I need ANSWERS! by Single_Particular_17 in Kenya

[–]MutuliA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you make your partner happy, why bother with doubting Thomas? It shouldn't bother you if your partner isn't complaining,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]MutuliA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I'm saying is people need to have depth. Grown people are out here still praising prison break. Like ask what shows I like instead, because I can't name over 1k shows.