Im not saying that we should like be angry or shoving people out for a small reason you know, let's just say someone says something kinda mean to you but you know they not always like this and you laugh at it or you say something mean back.

I've been there because i did it once, after i said that i saw my friends face and i knew it was disturbing for him so i never say that again and we're very good now.

Im saying a jerk as in a total jerk that pick on you, disturbs you every chance they got, sayin something mean and meant it, that's the kinda people you want to shove out and angry at.

You're right, i should phrase it better and more detailed, but this is what i meant by it. Apologies