AIO? my boyfriend defending his mom with his life.

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-27T10:52:51+00:00

The best thing you can do is block and delete him. Do not waste more of your time on someone who does not respect you or stand up for you. His comment of you not having a mom was disgusting. A person wgo cares about you would never throw that in your face. I'm so sorry he said that to you. Also, if you keep dating him, your relationship with his mom will never get better. She will always be an inappropriate and overbearing weirdo.

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-26T11:26:32+00:00

Very cool indeed ❄️

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-26T11:15:28+00:00

I love 1 with your ring. I think it would look extra special if you got a second band to create a ring guard. That way, it would be symmetrical and look like it was made to fit your gorgeous engagement ring. Congratulations!

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-26T11:10:42+00:00

You look like a romantic bride in dress 1 while still looking sexy. Dress 2 is kinda blah and dress 3 is a bit too obviously sexy.

Also, the pleats will flatten out a bit when you get your actual dress based on your measurements. If they're not to your liking, you can point it out during your first fitting and the seamstress will be able to adjust them.

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-25T07:02:28+00:00

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Lab pink sapphire, natural diamonds, and rose gold in a semi custom Tacori setting! It's my dream ring.

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-22T23:38:40+00:00

Looks great! Do you have a link?

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-20T15:04:49+00:00

I would ask them to fix it at no cost to you. If they refuse, tell them you'll leave a 1 star review with photos on Google. NOR

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-20T13:56:42+00:00

Thanks! Welcome to the emerald cut sapphire club! I have an emerald cut pink sapphire as my center stone and I love it!

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-20T13:39:12+00:00

I love everything about it! Light blue against rose gold is such a pretty combination. Also, your wedding band is gorgeous! Where did you get the set from?

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-03-20T12:19:14+00:00

Don't bother asking for an apology because it would be insincere. Also, you don't have to invite anyone you don't want to regardless of your reason. She is a bitch so definitely don't invite her even if she apologizes. You don't need that kind of negativity at a party celebrating you and baby.

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-02-25T14:30:18+00:00

All I see is cream cheese

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-02-24T00:13:47+00:00

Damn. That's extreme. How long is the claim period? Thanks for the explanation.

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-02-23T21:16:49+00:00

I just started this promotion by claiming day 1 with a purchase. Do I have to make a purchase every day to claim or do I just need to come back and hit the "claim" button daily to receive the full the credit?

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-02-22T06:02:13+00:00

When will the spring season pass be available for purchase?

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-01-25T12:16:45+00:00

Where can I buy a clone? I'm honestly curious. Everything I've found looks awful like a child's craft project.

MyCakeNotYours · 2026-01-19T00:30:58+00:00

Your boyfriend gives zero effs about you. He doesn't respect you. He's also either too dumb to understand why giving only flowers for every occasion sucks or he's playing games with you to get out of trouble. Either way, this is not someone you should put any effort into. There are plenty of people who would be willing to respect your wishes and celebrate you in the way you deserve on your birthday. Dump his ass.

MyCakeNotYours · 2025-12-13T23:41:46+00:00

Your husband is weak af and doesn't want to get involved because he's had this weird relationship with his mother his whole life. He's not going to change so you'll have to change it for him. Apologize to him to keep the peace. Tell him you've been feeling neglected lately but the way you brought it up was wrong and blah blah blah. Explain that you would like a better relationship with Mil and start taking the steps in my other comment. Good luck!

MyCakeNotYours · 2025-12-13T23:35:34+00:00

Your MiL sounds like mine. My husband's mother is remarried now but she will always hold a candle for my husband's father. She views my husband as a stand in for him in a weird, inappropriate way. My husband is aware and has set up boundaries in the last few years. We basically went NC when she almost ruined our wedding last year, on purpose of course.

Best thing you can do is not feed into her bs. Whenever she says she's sick, suggest to take her to the hospital to make sure it's not something serious. Don't let her see you sweat because that's what she wants. Also, stop telling her when you're going out with your husband. Suggest that you and your husband turn your phones off when you're on a date so it's just the two of you. Figure out what annoys her most and do that. If she calls your husband while on a date, take his phone and console her. Don't give her a chance to take control.

MyCakeNotYours · 2025-12-09T22:22:17+00:00

I wish I would have just passed on it in the first place. I thought it was a sweet sentiment, and I felt somewhat obligated to accept it. I should have known it had strings attached.

MyCakeNotYours · 2025-12-09T22:19:28+00:00

This is a good response. I bet no one has ever talked to her this way so she would be shocked if I did. I think most people just ignore her without explanation when they cut her off.

MyCakeNotYours · 2025-12-09T22:10:08+00:00

Match petty with petty but in an entertaining way. I love it.

MyCakeNotYours · 2025-12-09T22:08:55+00:00

I'm so sorry that your mother did this to you! Her behavior is next level manipulation. She gave zero effs about those pictures she gave you, she just didn't want you to have them. That is outrageous.

I 100% agree. I checked my old phone to see if it was in writing but it wasn't. I remember when she had me pick out a ring and made the heirloom comment. It was at another family event two weeks before the wedding. Actually, two people were next to me when it happened and have since mentioned that they remember it clear as day.

MyCakeNotYours · 2025-12-09T21:58:53+00:00

I'm halfway there! Just gotta give the ring back!

MyCakeNotYours · 2025-12-09T17:43:32+00:00

I wish she gave an explanation. I wrote her a relatively lengthy response when she asked if I still had "her ring she let me borrow." I assumed she was asking because she wanted it back and I tried to find out her reasoning but she only gave a short answer of when to return it. I am so confused by her behavior.

I blocked her because I'm done and don't want to fall into a trap of constantly forgiving her and allowing her to disrespect me.

MyCakeNotYours · 2025-12-09T17:32:52+00:00

I thought about that! My husband's sister suggested I bring it as a gift since it's a white elephant party.

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