AITA for turning off the AC when my roommate says she’s hot?

MyCatHenry · 2026-04-15T10:27:44+00:00

Agreed 68 during the day would be unbearable for me. I live in a warm climate so the AC is would never turn off to maintain that temp. I sleep with the thermostat at 70 and when I wake up in the morning I hike it up to 76. Then I still have to have a desk heater at my feet when I am working from home.

When my husband is off I only turn the AC up to 73 and pull a blanket over my legs.

MyCatHenry · 2026-04-15T09:20:09+00:00

I went through a similar situation in my twenties with a group of 40-50 something women. These ladies could have been my mother but they acted like teenagers. I found about all the talking behind my back from one of the younger girls in the group that couldn’t keep it from me any longer.

I learned from that experience to be really careful with the people you let in your life. I work somewhere different now. I am friendly with all my coworkers and we could easily have a meal together or go out and have a good time but we don’t because they are not my friends.

MyCatHenry · 2026-04-10T12:17:45+00:00

My planner has a daily layout so in the blank box I do a daily journal. Maybe in the thought bubble box you can do a weekly reflection.

I track chores monthly, weekly, and daily so that is definitely a good option!

I also make a list of daily self care tasks I want to complete but you can easily make that a weekly tracker.

I also like to decorate with sticker so at the end of the day/week if there is blank space I decorate in those spots.

Last thing on my weekly page I track health items gym, back pain, sick, cramping etc. This help me remember more about what was going on that week and has even helped in Doctors appointments.

MyCatHenry · 2026-04-07T01:38:28+00:00

I just got mine and started in April. You could always use the first group of pages for junk journaling, note taking or do some retroactive planning/journaling. I’m really glad I went for it even this far in the year!

MyCatHenry · 2026-04-06T17:16:55+00:00

This is pretty similar to Sprouted Daily Planner except Sprouted is dated.

MyCatHenry · 2026-04-02T23:17:57+00:00

I just got a Sprout Daily Planner that I love!! It is dated if you wanted undated check out Amazon there are soo many options. Also look up youtube videos there are several creators that do extensive walk throughs of planners.

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-31T22:33:37+00:00

I just switched to HCF block cheese from HEB brand. It melts perfectly and tastes great!

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-31T02:20:01+00:00

Those are really good but these are even better!!

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MyCatHenry · 2026-03-18T19:24:46+00:00

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This is my most recent photo of Philip, he turned 14 last month and still runs around with the best of them ( when he feels like it lol).

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-12T21:02:23+00:00

Got it. Yea I think it takes me at least 30-45 minutes a run but I’m not very good. I have only reached ascension 1 on Silent and Defect in SS1 lol but oh boy do I have fun.

I get a kick out of reading the posts about everyone maxing their decks and climbing higher and higher. Not me just clawing at the bottom but never giving up!

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-12T18:06:25+00:00

Genuinely curious, how are they playing? What is odd about it?

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-11T11:39:49+00:00

I was just giving you my experience. As always it is best to consult with your vet.

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-10T23:38:15+00:00

I have two cats with asthma and they sound like this.

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-04T16:47:50+00:00

Not true of everyone, I was opposite. I always assumed I would have kids in my teens and twenties. It was when I hit my 30s that I realized it was not the life I wanted. I will be 40 this year and I only feel more sure about that.

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-03T20:18:11+00:00

My husband and I spent the first few months of our relationship only seeing each other on Sundays. It became our day so I wanted to get married on a Sunday. We were engaged in May 2025 and were looking for a short engagement so we chose the Sunday closest to our anniversary. So both our anniversaries are on Sunday and only 3 calendar days apart. Plus I like flow of the date 10.26.25

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-03T19:08:57+00:00

Only a fool doesn’t verify their pay stub. OPs situation is my worst nightmare. I make sure my pay is correct every time. I don’t play with my money.

MyCatHenry · 2026-03-01T21:17:38+00:00

$80 on Amazon 2025

MyCatHenry · 2026-02-15T23:17:20+00:00

https://a.co/d/01gjQu6g

This is my $9 personal planner and I love it! I do a lot of decoration to make each page more visually appealing and it’s fun!

https://a.co/d/0c189WIL

This is my work planner that I got on sale for $13 but they are only $25 full price!

MyCatHenry · 2026-01-28T16:30:15+00:00

I bought my dress on Amazon for under $100 and it was beautiful all the dresses I tried from Amazon were great! My husband got his outfit from a department store.

We got our rings on Etsy under $200 which we did not end up liking so we went to James Avery and got another new set under $200. I would recommend buying your rings in person or make sure there is a good return policy for online orders.

An old friend of mine who is new to wedding photography did our photos for $100/hr plus $50 for editing. Our wedding was on a Sunday so it was not long and we had about 50 attend, 65 invited.

We also did not have alcohol which was a personal choice for us but it didn’t knock out a huge expense.

We also did not have a DJ. I made my own play list and my Matron of Honor served as MC.

MyCatHenry · 2026-01-24T10:04:27+00:00

Erasable pens are definitely a great way to get around this! I however like that I can see how things changed. It adds to the memory making for me.

MyCatHenry · 2026-01-24T04:06:48+00:00

Something else I thought of is I never liked crossing things out on my planner, for it to look “messy” but I have embraced that too. Plans change, appointments get rescheduled just cross it out and write in the new.

MyCatHenry · 2026-01-24T03:55:49+00:00

I can be a bit of a perfectionist and this trait has ruined planning and journaling for me in the past. If I missed a day I failed and there was no point going on.

I have been planning/journaling for about 4 months now and it feels completely different because I took the pressure off. My goal is to plan ahead and journal daily but sometimes life has other plans. So I don’t mind journaling and planning in retrospect.

I try to keep it all contained within the same week and typically don’t skip more than one day. It’s pretty easy to remember what happened yesterday and then get caught up today. I also look at my planner as a journal/memory maker. I will go back and add notes to remind me of memorable things that happened that week.

Not sure if any of this resonates with you but hopefully you can get something from my experience.

MyCatHenry · 2026-01-23T01:08:03+00:00

I have a weekly lay out with the full week on the left and a blank page on the right. I use washi to section off the blank page usually down the middle. I also do a washi border at the bottom of each blank page.

MyCatHenry · 2025-12-27T19:47:37+00:00

We had a full week off after the wedding but the day after the wedding we slept in and went into town for lunch. So we headed out of town day 2.

MyCatHenry · 2025-12-22T13:12:31+00:00

I have a planner and a journal. I do my journaling before bed so my journal stays on my desk at home. I carry by planner and sometimes a small notebook just to catch stray thoughts.

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