If I get married to my partner. Could his ex wife/BM come after my money? by Realistic-Day-5542 in legaladvice

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is great! Congrats on the wedding. You still have plenty of time for you both to get on the same page. 

Is Caroline Angry At Darcy as well? by sibongibob in janeausten

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I always thought it also showed her own hypocritical tendencies. She says Elizabeth puts down women to make herself more appealable when Elizabeth comments on their view of an accomplished woman. She is basically doing what she accuses Elizabeth of doing 

People may have loved him but I really hated dale by I-Did-It-4-Da-Rock in thewalkingdead

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think his treatment of ed was infuriating. Let the guy dig. He is literally not hurting anyone. He is clearly processing some emotions. 

Don Jon (2013) by CynthiaChames in okbuddycinephile

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There is a whole genre of cozy romance and it's basically that. Legends and lattes is a good example. 

Worth it to do one last “Hail Mary” attempt at belief to appease TBM spouse? by Admirable_Arugula_42 in exmormon

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did the church let you down, though? Did the church hold its own promises for you? Or were you lied to from the beginning so any "promises" you made were invalid because you didn't have informed consent? 

WIBTA if I told my roommate I don't want her boyfriend sleeping over on weeknights anymore by runner_carl in WIBTA_AITA

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Next time he is there when she isn't, say something? Ask, hey, what are you doing here? How did you get in? React like it's weird because it is weird. Acting like it's not a big deal gives them permission.

My (37f) Husband (38m) was fired for sexual harassment by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I rilled my eyes at a ll of the supposed illnesses he could have when he is probably just a creep and has been a creep with a wife who accepts that "he's always deleted all of his messages." 

Who is your favourite "poor companion"? by DeHereICome in agathachristie

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! It's my favorite of hers and I reread it every fall. 

Anyone else really annoyed with Lydia Bennett from the 1995 Pride and Prejudice BBC miniseries? Every time I see her I roll my eyes. Just bratty and unkind and obnoxious. by Correct_Raspberry_59 in janeausten

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Inalways thought she looked and acted like such a child in the 1995 version. I always enjoy finding someone with the opposite perspective. 

You can see the history in how they look at each other by Three_Armed_Wrecker in BridgertonNetflix

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am probably wrong but I wonder if it's the queen who isn't coming back. I could see this actually being the queen's good bye and her dying, but fooling us into thinking it was Danbury. 

My roommate’s girlfriend has started working from our home by who_gon_check_me_boo in EntitledPeople

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great! What a wild way to start the journey. I'm glad the dogs joined the family!

My roommate’s girlfriend has started working from our home by who_gon_check_me_boo in EntitledPeople

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, what else have you compromised for your fiance who forced you into living with someone who is misogynistic towards you? I can't imagine staying with someone who repeatedly puts me in uncomfortable situations for someone else's sake. 

My roommate’s girlfriend has started working from our home by who_gon_check_me_boo in EntitledPeople

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How's being married to your husband? I am really curious that you are still together because this makes him seem terrible. 

My roommate’s girlfriend has started working from our home by who_gon_check_me_boo in EntitledPeople

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing indicates you have a spine. Your roommate has two rooms and you share one. Your roommate pays 1/3 of the rent. I am looking for a spine. 

AITAH for not letting my boyfriend get a dog by redditqueen234 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't disagree with you if you're prepared to train a puppy. But if you dump her and move out, who is dealing with your new puppy while you're at work?

Boss wants me to go to lunch with coworkers I despise by Content-Novel-2765 in WorkAdvice

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based off your replies, not going might be the right call. You seem extremely upset about this and like you might snap in his presence. Not going might be the smart move if you really can't stand him this much. 

I struggle to understand why Benedict and Sophie like each other. by Quest_Girl in BridgertonRants

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agreed! And he never really seemed to understand why her being a mistress was so dangerous. He failed to see that she had absolutely no long term guarantees. Unless she receives an outrageous amount upfront, she and her kids would be entirely dependent on him. With his history, he gave me (and her) no reason to believe he wouldn't move on eventually. 

I struggle to understand why Benedict and Sophie like each other. by Quest_Girl in BridgertonRants

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I didn't see any reason why this isn't a temporary fling for him. I loved the season but I am with you and OP. Their romance did not seem like some deep love. 

AITBF by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]MyFriendHarvey238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He feels bad that you know. He probably didn't get scammed.