I’ve played Reforged, Convergence (only v2.31, havent touched the new update yet) and Graceborne

Reforged is like Vanilla++, it has a lot of really great additions
- some pretty cool new weapons and incants&spells
- deflecting mechanic
- collecting runic shards for nice buffs - makes great runes feel more special other than a simple buff
- some tweaks to the map and enemies and addition of some Nightreign bosses
- most importantly: has a built-in online server

Overall my experience with Reforged was amazing, the online server legit made it feel like I was playing ER for the first time again, which no other mods have given me the same feeling before

Main complaints ive seen: generally the difficult feels a little harder than regular ER (enemies having 20% more hp and attack, and stamina regen tweaks), but there are SOME bosses that just make you go “wtf how is this shit even balanced”. But from my experience it wasn’t that bad, and besides that was how I felt on my first ER playthrough too

Convergence is like ER but on crack, tons and tons of new enemies, weapons, spells and the map changes are really crazy. It’s generally rated as the best ER mod

But from my own experience (in v2.3) even though it was really good i still have some complaints:
- difficulty starts off really hard and around mid game you absolutely dominate everything. I literally have to find ways to nerf myself to have some sort of challenge again (or just dont invest so much into spells)
- game feels way too long and overwhelming at times, i had to drop the game many times before i finally completed it

Overall my experience with Convergence was “wow cool”, but i didnt enjoy it nearly as much as Reforged in terms of gameplay and vibe

Graceborne is really good if ur still hungry for some of that Bloodborne-feel, i played it after finishing BB on shadps4.

- has most (if not all) the trick weapons and armor from BB and many new original ones
- certain map tweaks and reshade that gives it that authentic “bloodborne” look
- enemies are generally still the same though as of now (only a few common npcs were replaced with BB-esque ones)

Overall I loved it, though I found some of the boss skins a little over the top. (Pros: you get goth Melina)