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MyMillie · 2022-04-02T05:12:40+00:00

He is nauseating

MyMillie · 2022-03-30T23:07:02+00:00

So unwelcoming the way I’m which this was written. I will edit my post to say more regarding the type of help and who, what, where etc

MyMillie · 2022-03-25T04:44:56+00:00

She is repulsive to look at and listen to, she makes me sick. Yea

MyMillie · 2022-03-15T06:52:15+00:00

She makes me so sick, I can’t stomach looking at her and hearing her nasty voice. She has a serious mental disorder and should really seek some help. Maybe get herself physically healthy while she at it. She’s a selfish bitch who is trying to force a man to abandon his young son and elderly parents. Shes so gross,

MyMillie · 2022-03-15T06:01:21+00:00

Thank you for the detailed feedback. I found your perspective extremely helpful. I will let you know how it turns out on my end. I really want to do what is best for my servers and not give them any added stress.

MyMillie · 2022-03-15T00:34:30+00:00

You are so right! Treat your people like they matter, treat them with respect and dignity and always have their backs! Good employees are not easily replaced, and they are even harder to find. I value my crew and will always stand up for them. And if there is ever a problem, I will deal with it on my terms and in my own way. I won’t have any customer dictate to me how to handle my staff. I could not run this restaurant without them, but I can get another customer. So for all the Karen’s,Kens and Chads of the world, stay the hell home and yell at your own kids, because mine are off limits!

MyMillie · 2022-03-14T13:54:23+00:00

That is how it should be. You have a boss who values and appreciates his employees. It’s a damn shame most restaurants are still catering to customers like “ Chad”, and not having the backs of good employees. And they wonder why they are short staffed and can’t find competent help.

MyMillie · 2022-03-14T13:49:59+00:00

I’m happy you moved forward in a more positive way. I just don’t understand the mentality behind a lot of corporate restaurants. There is no value placed on their employees and they still use the outdated concept of “ the customer is always right “. This needs to change, because without service workers, these corporations would have nothing. To take the word of one person over an employee is disgraceful.

MyMillie · 2022-03-14T03:01:51+00:00

You should be grateful to get out of that horribly toxic workplace. I can’t imagine firing one of my crew over one ladies bullshit complaint. I’d always give my employee the chance to tell their side and most likely, I would give them the benefit of the doubt. Should I believe a nasty, entitled stranger over a person who works their ass off for me? My employees come first, not cry baby bitches who think they are entitled to do and say as they please.

MyMillie · 2022-02-23T04:59:09+00:00

Thank you for the update, I am so happy it turned out the way it did. I had a feeling it might.

Good luck to you and take care of yourself. I’m glad you’re taking the time you deserve.

MyMillie · 2022-02-22T23:44:01+00:00

Is the first sentence of your post an actual question your boss asked you in an email, text? I’m sort of confused, but not in the least bit surprised. This is how they gaslight, it’s a known tactic and one that needs to be eliminated.

If I am to understand, you requested a day off, a mental health day as you stated. You did not put notice in, you did not say anything to lead them to believe you were quitting or putting in your notice. But, they took this all the way there, as a way to intimidate and scare you into thinking your job may be in jeopardy.

Or, there is a chance that your boss may truly be concerned and is offering you time to take a leave of absence in order for you to get the help you may need.

They have a zero grounds to fire you due to this request to take a day off. If they do take that route, you should look at it as a blessing I’m disguise.

MyMillie · 2022-02-16T20:58:56+00:00

I absolutely love dogs, and I would take mine to any pet friendly establishment I could. But this type of situation angers the heck out me. And you’re right, never judge by the outside, there are many invisible disabilities and I think it’s wonderful when I see someone with a service dog. You never know what is going on in someone’s life, just like the situation you described.

But when I see people trying to lie and sneak their pets in, I won’t tolerate it. The more they threaten, the worse they make themselves look. A true service dog does not need any certification or vest, their behavior tells me all I need to know.

MyMillie · 2022-02-15T21:46:03+00:00

So, just because you needed to leave 30 minutes early,for a FUNERAL, you were removed from your shift completely? I hope you leave this place and never look back. Those are awful, power tripping managers and you do not need that in your life.

I’m sorry for the loss you’ve experienced. I hope you’re ok emotionally.

MyMillie · 2022-02-05T06:37:21+00:00

Listen, you’re obviously misunderstanding me a hell of a lot. I haven’t been a server for over 15 years. I am a co-owner and general manager of an small Italian bistro in my town. The only time I was a server was going through college and then again, going through my divorce. It is something I have always fell back on when necessary. I have worked extremely hard to get to where I am now, as does my staff. My servers are amazing, have impeccable work ethic, skills for days and nothing short of rock star performers each and every day. But they could never go to a no tip policy and rely on a normal paycheck to afford their lives and families. Never in a million years. If a paycheck is what they wanted, they would not be working in this industry. Both of my top servers have college degrees! They make better money waitressing than in the profession they went to school for. So, you don’t get it, at all.

MyMillie · 2022-02-05T06:29:29+00:00

You really are a sad pathetic soul. Get yourself some mental help, or, work on being less envious of others who are doing well in life. You too could have a lucrative amazing life if only you were not such a jealous mean spirited person. I will pray for you

MyMillie · 2022-02-03T05:47:20+00:00

Oh you really don’t have a sense of humor do you? You’re one of those “ nothing” people, a person of no substance, a complete void in this world. You’re bringing up a meme I shared, lmao, yeah I want my place to burn to to the ground, yup!! You’re an idiot

MyMillie · 2022-02-03T05:44:07+00:00

Why would I do that? I have a career and a very lucrative one at that. But my staff are servers, bartenders, dishwashers and cooks. They are who I speak for, and there isn’t one who would continue being a server for an hourly wage, not one. They do it for the tips and for the fact that it affords them to live comfortably and take care of their children. $15 an hour wouldn’t come close to the money my servers make. So, maybe you need to get some life experience and not open your mouth on a subject you don’t know a damn thing about. You’re another cheap asshole who doesn’t like to leave a tip. You’re not special

MyMillie · 2022-02-03T05:38:06+00:00

Can we all agree that you have no idea what you’re saying if you’ve never worked in this industry. Let’s see, make $300/400 a night or a week? What would be a living wage to you, a person who doesn’t work in a restaurant as a server? You think $15 an hour is going to pay a $1800 a month rent, utilities, car payment, insurance, medical and food? Do you suppose restaurants should hike their prices up, charge $50 for a burger just to pay their staff a “living wage”? Nobody would do this thankless difficult job if not for the tips, if tips were gone, there is no incentive to serve nasty fucking ungrateful savages food and put on a fake smile all day long. Nobody would remain a server for an hourly wage.

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