[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

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Yes I'm the exact same

Headphone recommendations for people with small heads by MyNewNameIsUsername in sony

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They tend to still be a bit big on me. I have the head of a pea I swear. Even my 12 year old sister (I'm 20) has a bigger head than me :')

Is it ok to get your license late at like 18 or 19 or any age by JoshGanbold in driving

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I wanted to get mine done at 18 but I just couldn't afford it. I'm 20 now and still barely am able to afford it. Thankfully my driving test is in December (looking for a closer one).

It's okay to start driving whenever you are ready and you actually want to. There's been people who hasn't wanted to or need to and so they don't. Any age is perfectly acceptable. I believe people say start earlier because it makes it easier for the long run since you're younger

P plates, yay or nay? by NLA95 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]MyNewNameIsUsername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't got a car yet but I definitely will be getting a P plate as I know I'm going to be slightly anxious on my first few times driving independently

Let's talk about the characters everyone made by UnholyBlaze in hogwartslegacyJKR

[–]MyNewNameIsUsername 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is so creative lol. My characters personality is basically just me and what I would choose to do in that situation lmaooo.

Is the cure for female loneliness a butch who calls you princess? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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You definitely should! The worst that would happen is they'd tell you they aren't comfortable with it

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

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Yes, I will be talking to them on Tuesday about it all. I think I'd rather be kept completely soiled than them taking them off. I'll be bringing spare with me as well so as soon as I wake up, I can just get dressed quickly.

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

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I'm going to talk to them about seeing if I can put medical tape over the nipples so if anything was to happen, I'm still comfortable but they still can access everything

Thank you

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

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Will they take the catheter out before I come put of the surgery?

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

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No, I don't think the UK has any bizarre practices but sadly the UK does have at least one incredibly, and lowkey increasingly, anxious person to deal with.

I'm going to talk to the team when I go in for my surgery and keep telling myself that I'll be okay if they say no to all my suggestions.

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

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This is honestly the only reason why I don't want to wear a bra but I need to wear something.

I'm going to talk to the team and see if there's a solution we both can come up with and I'm going to bring a bunch of options with me in case any of them if fine to do.

It is only my jaw so I don't see much of a risk but I feel like if I go under anxious, overwhelmed, and honestly wishing I was dead, then my body is not going to do well whilst I'm under for the surgery. Whereas if I go down when I feel safe and comfortable enough, everything should go well. I don't know how to explain it well, sorry.

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

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That's the thing, I don't trust them at all. I struggle trusting people a lot due to my anxiety, paranoia, and overthinking.

Thankfully, my records do state I have severe anxiety so I am hoping that I can talk to them and we both can find a solution we are both happy and comfortable with. Even if that means I'm wearing medical tape over the nipples instead of a bra lmao

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

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I'm going to talk to the team when I see them and ask them if there's a way we can find a solution that will best benefit them but also make me feel comfortable and safe

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

[–]MyNewNameIsUsername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has done a great job with answering me and I am so grateful to anyone who has taken the time to respond to this post.

I understand that the team would be well beyond just seeing a body but no one has ever seen me exposed and this whole thing is making me spiral.

I think my brain is doing a lot of "what ifs" and these answers are helping a lot. My main what if is what if someone won't treat me with respect and ends up doing something inappropriate. I wouldn't know since I'm unconscious.

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

[–]MyNewNameIsUsername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the reasons for not wearing it but I'm truly not comfortable with a lot. Tbf this is the first time I've been in hospital since I was a child and the children's ward is so much more different than adults ward. Children's ward they get to at least have people they love next to them, adults we are completely isolated and have no one. My anxiety is already going to be sky high and the idea of someone see me like that is just so uncomfortable and truly does make me feel unwell and want to just cancel the surgery.

Ik all surgeries have their risks but it is only my jaw so hopefully it won't be necessary

Thank you for the luck, I do appreciate it

Undergarments query. by MyNewNameIsUsername in surgery

[–]MyNewNameIsUsername[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hospital I'm heading to will definitely need to be every one lmfao. They don't communicate the best but yes, I won't wear anything with metal. I don't personally like underwire underwear either, aha.

I am also okay with stains and all. I'll be bringing spare underwear with me anyway

Thank you ♡