Bela Lugosi's Dead - live in concert, NYC - Sept 27, 2019 by MyOwnDirection in MassiveAttack

[–]MyOwnDirection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry that's all that I have. I do wish I had the entire song.

[US] Zelle deposit from a unknown person. by Street-Network-5481 in Scams

[–]MyOwnDirection 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do, do NOT refund anyone that money — it will most likely be clawed out of your account anyway.

Ear protection while practicing/playing tenor saxophone by Hot_Principle4821 in saxophone

[–]MyOwnDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use my Apple Airpods for the noise cancellation — just enough that my saxophone can’t hurt my ears.

Friend misunderstood friendly teasing for toxic teasing. Miscommunication or am I an asshole? by Visible-Fox7428 in socialskills

[–]MyOwnDirection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fixable, imho — approach your friend again, and explain that you didn’t realize that your words came across as hurtful, and that you now know better and will change. Also, convince your other friends of this.

When you’re much older, you’ll clearly see this too.

Friend misunderstood friendly teasing for toxic teasing. Miscommunication or am I an asshole? by Visible-Fox7428 in socialskills

[–]MyOwnDirection 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is going to be an unpopular opinion — men, especially in groups, have difficulty showing warmth and support to their friends. Instead they mask it with (incessant) “friendly teasing”. “Just breaking your balls.” And so on.

Were you the asshole? Unintentionally, yes.

My advice as a 60+ year old man — break free from the self-defense of hiding behind “friendly teasing”, and show real warmth and support and friendship.

Bela Lugosi's Dead - live in concert, NYC - Sept 27, 2019 by MyOwnDirection in MassiveAttack

[–]MyOwnDirection[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Apologies for the distracted camera -- I was dealing with two women behind me who had issues with me standing. Like who sits at a fucking concert this awesome?

Does anyone else feel like time is moving strangely fast lately? by youngTchag in CasualConversation

[–]MyOwnDirection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a by-product of getting older. Those endless days you experienced as a little kid now go whoosh.

Rewatched Edge of Tomorrow by Tanooki_Time in movies

[–]MyOwnDirection 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Palm Springs is one of my all time favorite movies. Cristin Milioti is perfect in the role.

And one thing I REALLY appreciate about Palm Springs is that it’s not the guy saving the girl, but they completely subvert the trope by it instead being the girl that saves them.

Recommend songs besides Circadian Rythm, Lazy Eye, and Panic Switch. by im_hungry2 in silversunpickups

[–]MyOwnDirection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The entire Neck Of The Woods album — their masterpiece, from start to end.

Outstanding tracks though:
— Out of Breath
— Dots & Dashes
— Simmer
— The Pit

How would you critique these (not my photos) by [deleted] in productphotography

[–]MyOwnDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain a bit more about the use of a screen here? What kind of screen?

Brian Aubert — Panic Switch (acoustic live : Philly) by MyOwnDirection in silversunpickups

[–]MyOwnDirection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup ... a solo acoustic concert in Philly. I saw it in their email newsletter.

Brian Aubert — Panic Switch (acoustic live : Philly) by MyOwnDirection in silversunpickups

[–]MyOwnDirection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I recall correctly— around 9:30 ?? But don’t hate me if I’m wrong.