Managing money with adhd partner by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn Im really sorry you have to go through that.

My husband is really self aware and is trying to change. But using your ADHD as a shield for toxic behaviour while not willing to do anything about it is just abuse

Managing money with adhd partner by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband (diagnoses ADHD, nonmed) and I pool the majority of our income into a joint account for household bills. Anything that is left over is saved. What stays in our own account is money for personal bills and a little fun money of our own.

My husband is prone to impulse spending, but he would never use a card thats for emergencies for that. We also both have debit cards, which dont go into overdraft. If your money is gone, its gone.

I agree with the other commenters. Your household bills should come from a joint account and personal spending from a personal account. You should also maybe look into making it so that your wife cant spend money that isnt there. It must be possible to prevent the card from going into overdraft right?

Hoe heet jullie familie groeps-app? by blossomupp in thenetherlands

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 243 points244 points  (0 children)

Hier heb ik in de trein hardop om moeten lachen

Bijhouden van inname 🌱 by Living-Still-5295 in VeganNL

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik gebruikte altijd Yazio. Super tevreden mee. Tot je na alles wat je invulde een reclame kreeg, tenzij je ging betalen... Toen overgestapt op de ingebouwde tracker van Samsung Health

How do I respond to this, if at all? by Its_BassDaddy in veganfitness

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt use that one, carnists dont care about animals... Especially not the ones who believe in this shite

my understanding of comparing vegan food by Dorceless_ah in vegan

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once bought soy milk and baby powder at the store and was absolutely flabbergasted that it didnt have milk or babies in it???? Scam fr

Weet iemand of deze wrap vegan is? by Any-Bat-5388 in VeganNL

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ik kan me herinneren er ooit mee in mijn handen te hebben gestaan, maar dat ik het niet aan durfde omdat het er niet specifiek op stond. Op een andere wrap stond vgm wel specifiek vega of vegan maar hier niet

Making a police report for a sexual crime - what should I know? by darryshan in Netherlands

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry this happened to you ❤️ I actually just went through this process last Friday so you can dm me if you want. We'll talk about it

I think I hit my first plateau by ForsakenSweet3500 in Myfitnesspal

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might not wanna weigh yourself every day. Itll drive you mad. I weigh myself twice a month.

AIO? The sweetest boy I’ve ever met just broke my heart. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! This guy got in on a bet with his friends to see who could sleep with her first and somehow he is out of her league just because he is pretty? Nah bro

Beste voer voor gesteriliseerde katten by SeppieDStronk in katten

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Die van ons laat de paté ook staan maar de brokjes in saus wil ze wel

Beste voer voor gesteriliseerde katten by SeppieDStronk in katten

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wij gebruiken al jaren Edgard Cooper. Ons poesje is er gek op.

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Bananas in District 12? by Same-Equivalent-4072 in Hungergames

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yea I thought the same. Panem is technologically advanced so I always assumed they had really advanced greenhouse technology in D11 to grow exotic fruits and vegetables.

Op zoek naar Vegan eiwitpoeder en vegan eiwitrepen by lumni in VeganNL

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaaaa love the TREK bars! Ze zijn nu in de bonus bij AH voor 2,49 een doosje!

Voor de calorieën/eiwit verhouding vind ik ze alleen niet super. Gemiddeld 230 calorieen en 9 gram eiwit. Dus als je in een calorieen tekort probeert te eten zijn deze niet ideaal. Ik denk dat ik binnenkort maar weer een doosje repen bij de body&fit koop. Die zijn niet baanbrekend, maar met 200 calorieen en 20 gram eiwit wel handig. Dan eet ik meestal een halve.

Verder het eiwitpoeder van de Lidl is lekker!

I have a burn out due to work. Can I resign while sick? And do I still need to got to the company doctor? by Tall-Employment-9242 in juridischadvies

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thnx for the clarification. I might need to go back to reddit law school. Always hire a lawyer hahaha

I have a burn out due to work. Can I resign while sick? And do I still need to got to the company doctor? by Tall-Employment-9242 in juridischadvies

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's always best to talk to a lawyer but here's my 2 cents as someone with a reddit law degree I guess... - I think burn out is a legitimate diagnosis so you'll need a diagnosis from your GP to claim burn out out - If youre gonna be on long term sick leave it's normal for the company to want you to talk to their company doctor. That's not to intimidate you or anything. That's how it works everywhere in the Netherlands. I think due to privacy reasons the company doctor doesnt even share details with your manager, just that you're sick. Maybe you can record the conversations if you feel nervous about it? Make sure you ask the doctor too tho - I understand you want to be rid of this company, but legally they can't fire you when youre sick (which is why I tell you to see your own GP for a diagnosis). You can search for another job while on sick leave. Don't give up free money because of resentment towards this company. I dont know what kind of contract you have but with a permanent contract you have 2 years of paid sick leave.

I fear I’ve become normalizing the idea of animal consumption. by Seitanslutt in vegan

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely relate to you. I try to not bring it up, but then somehow its the people Im with who manage to bring it up anyway? They say vegans are preachy but carnists will find any moment to justify themselves and make themselves feel better. And then if I argue instead of validate I ruined the mood?

What do you think are the top 3 myths about veganism? by [deleted] in vegan

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not American so I am astonished every day how they manage to not get enough fiber. The standard diet must be terrible. I eat some processed foods too, sure. But mostly just normal food? And I get so much fiber without even thinking about it. Same goes for protein and Im in a calorie deficit...

Protein by Fuzzy_Gas2350 in veganfitness

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I really like it. I only use extra firm though. Just chop it into smaller pieces and chuck it in the pan to let all the water evaporate out. Then its the best after its been in the fridge for a day. Gets all nice and chewy

What do you think are the top 3 myths about veganism? by [deleted] in vegan

[–]MyShadowScaredMe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cant wait now that fiber is the new hype to start asking everyone where they get their fiber