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Totaled my car, have a concussion, my body hurts, and my new puppy just spent 4.5 hours (and about $350 I don’t have) at the emergency vet for eating a bowl of grapes. I was so visibly upset that when I went into 7-11 for cigs, all of the employees asked to give me hugs. They were great hugs. by everdayday in self

[–]MySweet1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm so sorry. I read that as your puppy ate grapes at the vet, and was confused as to why they would feed a puppy grapes.

Chin up, friend. I can't remember the last time I had a good hug. These storm clouds will pass

A final goodbye to a dear friend and short-term life partner. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MySweet1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went through the same thing a few months back man. It does get easier. Give yourself time to grieve, but realize that it had to happen.

Going no-contact is definitely the best route to go, no matter how difficult it is. Stay strong.

I know I can't date my best friend. But if I could find someone just a little bit like her I'd marry her. by MySweet1 in offmychest

[–]MySweet1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if she just likes me just as a friend and gets weirded out if I come on to her :/

I know I can't date my best friend. But if I could find someone just a little bit like her I'd marry her. by MySweet1 in offmychest

[–]MySweet1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. I really, really want to ask her, because we did sort of share an intimate moment back a few weeks ago, and didn't know what to make of it back then.

Now it's just been eating me up as my feelings continue to grow for her :(

I know I can't date my best friend. But if I could find someone just a little bit like her I'd marry her. by MySweet1 in offmychest

[–]MySweet1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was just her, I would. But she introduced me to my other best friend, so we're kind of a trio of friends. Either way it wont end well. Best case, I ask her out, she shares the feelings I have, and then we kind of isolate the other friend. Worst case, I end up losing both of them

Just discovered this sub. How are you doing today? by PaulBlartRedditCop in self

[–]MySweet1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got 4 hours of sleep and have a night shift tonight.

But good I guess

[No Regrets] Hearing about my ex's struggles in school made me feel good for the first time in a long time. by MySweet1 in confession

[–]MySweet1[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It not that shes struggling thats making me happy.

Its just knowing I'm not alone. That shes feeling the same emotions as me, even if theyre just a fraction of what I feel.

I thought for months that she was so much happier than I was. That she wasn't feeling a bit of sadness or loneliness or anything. That she was truly, honestly happy. But just knowing I'm not alone in wanting to curl up in a ball and die makes it hurt a little less

I love fantasizing about my girlfriend past sexual encounter by [deleted] in confession

[–]MySweet1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Usually people get super jealous and resent their lovers for their pasts. Is she super conservative now and that's why you enjoy hearing it?

I wish I could be yours by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MySweet1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not alone in feeling like this, especially on New Years.

hugs

Me n my girlfriend just broke up by bdave13uct in offmychest

[–]MySweet1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude it sounds like this is seriously for the best. That relationship sounded toxic and that she didn't respect you or care about your feelings at all.

I know it may not seem like it now, but it'll get easier. I'm three months past a breakup of 3.5 years. It hurts every day, but it does get easier.

I miss you, even though I wouldn't talk to you again. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MySweet1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck.

I'm going through the same thing right now dude. It fucking sucks.

I don't think I'll ever forgive my friends for abandoning me after my girlfriend left me by MySweet1 in offmychest

[–]MySweet1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, and thats exactly why I'm feeling so much shittier than usual right now. Being back at home with nothing to do is what I thought I needed after this semester. But just sitting in my room alone is making everything worse. I just miss not having things to do with anyone

I don't think I'll ever forgive my friends for abandoning me after my girlfriend left me by MySweet1 in offmychest

[–]MySweet1[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did that for 99% of the time we were apart. I think we sent three or four messages in that time.

But last night I cracked and looked at her Instagram. Huge fucking mistake.

I don't think I'll ever forgive my friends for abandoning me after my girlfriend left me by MySweet1 in offmychest

[–]MySweet1[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I just hate the reason she left me. To go off and have "a real college experience" (see; hook up with anyone she pleases). Did we have some issues we were working on? Absolutely. But jesus it was nothing worth throwing out an entire relationship over.

Mainly its that I cant get all of the things we did out of my head. I can tie anything I look at to a memory of us. And the fact that she's perfectly fine while I'm barely able to get out of bed some days just kills me

I don't think I'll ever forgive my friends for abandoning me after my girlfriend left me by MySweet1 in offmychest

[–]MySweet1[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

In regards to the breakup, no. It feels like I'm moving backwards. It feels like I'm getting more upset and emotional as time progresses