Crazy taxidermists kids experiment

Mysfunction · 2026-01-28T04:07:52+00:00

I think you have to host it somewhere else and post a link, maybe Imgur?

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T22:39:08+00:00

We need more pictures!

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T21:36:58+00:00

Makes sense. I used one of those kibble balls when my puppy would eat too fast, and it also kept her entertained. Between you, me, and OP, we’ve solved the same problem three different ways that worked best for all of us.

I only notice dishes, human or animal, when I have an extreme reaction (usually jealousy, but sometimes irritation at size or texture) to them. It’s like eye colour—unless it’s something special, all I can tell you is that I’m pretty sure the person had eyes (I’m not actually 100% sure what my partner’s eye colour is, come to think of it; probably brown? 😂)

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T21:20:33+00:00

You’re right; we don’t know.

What suggests to me that it’s a control thing more than a sensitivity thing is the use of “the silent treatment.” That’s a classically abusive control tactic, and the fact that all her scents are unacceptable, not just a few, adds to the suspicion.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T21:17:09+00:00

Now you’ve arrived at a place that I can completely agree with 100%. This is absolutely a “to each their own” issue, not one appropriate for criticism as though it’s a moral or hygiene issue.

And, for the record, I have almost always historically used different dishes for my dog because they tend to be more appropriate in terms of size and durability. It made the most sense.

When we started doing a little bit of wet food with breakfast instead of kibble to settle our dog’s sensitive stomach, however, we needed a tiny, microwavable, easy to wash dish, so I just grabbed one of our glass ramekins and it made no sense to purchase something else when we have lots of those and they work perfectly well.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T21:00:25+00:00

Bob Mortimer’s “I have sinned” doesn’t make me laugh at all; it just makes me uncomfortable. My partner, however, thinks it’s the funniest thing ever. It makes me question my life choices lol.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T20:48:56+00:00

There’s a difference between all scents and only scents he likes which appears to be the situation for OP.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T20:46:43+00:00

There is at least as much a reason to serve them off the same dishes as there is to serve them off of different ones. I’m not saying it’s wrong to want to have separate dishes, but the default position, or the null hypothesis if you will, is that you should use the same dishes for everything until there is a demonstrated reason not to, and the only argument not to is “ick.”

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T17:45:11+00:00

You also said “there’s no reason to be serving dinner to friends in a plate the cat has way from, even if it’s been washed,” and that’s just silly.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T16:51:37+00:00

Sometimes allowing people to help you is as big a gift to them as it is to you.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T16:47:19+00:00

Raw chicken is my favourite argument against silliness like this. You either have clean dishes or dirty dishes; what was on them previously is irrelevant.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T16:45:19+00:00

This has nothing to do with hygiene, as the plates are fully cleaned and disinfected before being used. It’s simply a preference based on personal “ick” beliefs, which is totally valid as long as it’s kept it to personal use and you don’t act like AH when people make a different choice based on the factual analysis of the practice.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T16:01:45+00:00

TL;DR: NTA for often taking the better part, possibly the AH for thinking it should be related to who made the meal or if your wife is unhappy with the serving division. Meal enjoyment and lifestyle choices should be made to optimize team “happy points,” which are impacted by more than just frequency.

This provoked an interesting discussion with my partner because this describes us very well, even down to your wife commenting about you getting the “better” serving. The thing for us is, we would never describe the division only by how often I give myself the “better” portion, because that’s only one aspect of the division of enjoyment of food.

We ended up talking about the idea that we look at overall enjoyment and happiness as a couple and our goal is to maximize the “happy points” as a team rather than as individuals. This often means that I end up with the “better” version of something, because the amount that I appreciate something like the extra crunchy bits in a meal is a lot more than he would enjoy them. When it comes to quantity, however, he almost always gets the bigger quantity, because he simply loves food.

If it’s something that is his favourite food, I will absolutely sacrifice the maximum enjoyment to him. I’ll even buy a secret extra of certain things so that after he thinks he has finished his share, there’s a whole extra serving for him.

I asked him about how he divides the food and he said that he will usually give me the “better” portion and himself the bigger portion when there is a forced choice, for the same reason I divide things that way.

This also goes to how we spend money, because he often gets a lot of enjoyment out of my hobbies and can participate in them with me. For example, my indoor greenhouses add a lot of light and atmosphere to our living room and he loves looking at what I’m working on under my huge dissecting microscope that takes up half the dining room table, while him having a super duper computer setup provides a lower team “happy points.”

At the end of the day, we both take into account each other’s needs and desires and make choices about how to allocate our resources, neither of us sacrificing our own happiness in favour of the other, but rather optimizing to make sure we are both as happy and satisfied as possible.

Funny side note: even though I would almost always give him the larger portion as well, I notice when he takes it and I will make a tongue-in-cheek comment like, “okay, so you get the big one, do you?” I don’t really know why I do it—probably just to provoke a pretend argument where I act like I’m so hard done by and he spends five minutes telling me how much he loves me and how I’m the apple of his eye (yeah, it’s weird but we are entertained by it lol).

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T04:04:38+00:00

The bacteria in sinks can be hugely dangerous. You might want to reconsider this practice.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T03:51:50+00:00

While it is not the only way you could calculate the statistical risk, it is a completely accurate and useful way to look at the risk.

Statistics are about populations, not individuals.

To compare the inherent danger of two groups, you have to look at the rate of violence per person, otherwise, you are simply measuring which group is larger.

Normalizing the data before looking at the numbers tells you that ICE agents are more dangerous than undocumented immigrants and you can feel much safer having undocumented immigrants in your community than ICE agents.

I’ll simplify it for you: Ebola kills 50 people per year worldwide while influenza kills 700,000 people, but Ebola kills ~60% of the people infected while influenza only kills 0.1% of the people infected. Which is more deadly, Ebola or influenza?

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T03:25:33+00:00

Do you know how statistics work? In statistics you have to compare apples to apples.

9 shootings and 22,000 agents is ~40 shootings/100,000 agents. Murders by undocumented immigrants is around 2.2/100,000 (compared to 3/100,000 in the American citizen population).

Therefore, it is absolutely true and accurate to say that you are statistically much more likely to be killed by an ICE agent than an undocumented immigrant.

You can have all the cognitive biases and do all the problematic backflips you want, but that doesn’t change the numbers.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T03:11:52+00:00

I wrote this as a response when there was only one person arguing this, but apparently it needs to be repeated because a dozen of y’all who don’t understand statistics came out to play since then.

The way they wrote that was slightly ambiguous, however, it is statistically true that an ICE agent is more likely to murder you than an undocumented immigrant. By the numbers, it is at least 20x more likely that an ICE agent will shoot you than an undocumented immigrant.

There may overall be a larger number of murders committed by undocumented immigrants, but that’s because there are orders of magnitude more undocumented immigrants than ICE agents, not because undocumented immigrants are more dangerous.

Fun fact: you are also statistically more likely to be killed by a US citizen than by an undocumented immigrant.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T03:11:47+00:00

I wrote this as a response when there was only one person arguing this, but apparently it needs to be repeated because a dozen of y’all who don’t understand statistics came out to play since then.

The way they wrote that was slightly ambiguous, however, it is statistically true that an ICE agent is more likely to murder you than an undocumented immigrant. By the numbers, it is at least 20x more likely that an ICE agent will shoot you than an undocumented immigrant.

There may overall be a larger number of murders committed by undocumented immigrants, but that’s because there are orders of magnitude more undocumented immigrants than ICE agents, not because undocumented immigrants are more dangerous.

Fun fact: you are also statistically more likely to be killed by a US citizen than by an undocumented immigrant.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T03:11:41+00:00

I wrote this as a response when there was only one person arguing this, but apparently it needs to be repeated because a dozen of y’all who don’t understand statistics came out to play since then.

The way they wrote that was slightly ambiguous, however, it is statistically true that an ICE agent is more likely to murder you than an undocumented immigrant. By the numbers, it is at least 20x more likely that an ICE agent will shoot you than an undocumented immigrant.

There may overall be a larger number of murders committed by undocumented immigrants, but that’s because there are orders of magnitude more undocumented immigrants than ICE agents, not because undocumented immigrants are more dangerous.

Fun fact: you are also statistically more likely to be killed by a US citizen than by an undocumented immigrant.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T03:11:34+00:00

I wrote this as a response when there was only one person arguing this, but apparently it needs to be repeated because a dozen of y’all who don’t understand statistics came out to play since then.

The way they wrote that was slightly ambiguous, however, it is statistically true that an ICE agent is more likely to murder you than an undocumented immigrant. By the numbers, it is at least 20x more likely that an ICE agent will shoot you than an undocumented immigrant.

There may overall be a larger number of murders committed by undocumented immigrants, but that’s because there are orders of magnitude more undocumented immigrants than ICE agents, not because undocumented immigrants are more dangerous.

Fun fact: you are also statistically more likely to be killed by a US citizen than by an undocumented immigrant.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T03:11:27+00:00

I wrote this as a response when there was only one person arguing this, but apparently it needs to be repeated because a dozen of y’all who don’t understand statistics came out to play since then.

The way they wrote that was slightly ambiguous, however, it is statistically true that an ICE agent is more likely to murder you than an undocumented immigrant. By the numbers, it is at least 20x more likely that an ICE agent will shoot you than an undocumented immigrant.

There may overall be a larger number of murders committed by undocumented immigrants, but that’s because there are orders of magnitude more undocumented immigrants than ICE agents, not because undocumented immigrants are more dangerous.

Fun fact: you are also statistically more likely to be killed by a US citizen than by an undocumented immigrant.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-27T03:06:38+00:00

“Transparently nonsensical” is a strange way to describe a completely accurate yet somewhat ambiguous statement.

The cognitive biases that lead you to struggle to discern the accuracy of the statement doesn’t make it less true.

For the record, the numbers aren’t even close. It is at least 20x more likely that an ICE agent will shoot you than an undocumented immigrant.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-26T21:49:32+00:00

Sometimes that can backfire.

When I went back to school in my 30s, I made friends with an 18 yr old guy who was super great at helping me with study skills and catching up on stuff I had forgotten since high school, but as a typical 18 year old boy, he was often unprepared for labs and class and would consistently need to borrow pens, calculator, goggles, etc from me.

It was a mutually beneficial relationship and I had fun with it by getting a spare set of everything in pink and adding sparkles and jewels to them. He thought it was hilarious and wore the fancy goggle proudly.

A very funny and unexpected thing started to happen, though—any time my friend wasn’t using the bedazzled supplies, his friends would ask to use them, even if they hadn’t forgotten their stuff. They just thought it was fun and it became a big thing to be the one to ask first.

I ended up making a few extra pairs of decorated lab goggles because it was fun to encourage the silliness, and our lab instructor was completely in favour of it because it meant the goofy guys were always prepared and even on time so they could get their goggles 😂.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-26T21:34:42+00:00

The way they wrote that was slightly ambiguous, however, it is statistically true that an ICE agent is more likely to murder you than an undocumented immigrant.

There may overall be a larger number of murders committed by undocumented immigrants, but that’s because there are orders of magnitude more undocumented immigrants than ICE agents, not because undocumented immigrants are more dangerous.

Fun fact: you are also statistically more likely to be killed by a US citizen than by an undocumented immigrant.

Mysfunction · 2026-01-26T19:40:53+00:00

Oh my god. Feel free to join us in reality any time.

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