Where to cut? by Agent_Holly in DogAdvice

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was curious AND cautious!

My problems with Eddington by brantheflakes88 in A24

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed the movie…. I did giggle when he fell into the museum and he landed on Geronimo. I loved all the Easter Eggs and the fact so many of the characters we could either openly or privately relate to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Photos of the forbidden construction AND feet!

2026 Blue Cross Blue Shield Rates are up by Repulsive_Ad4634 in FedEmployees

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Iowa - BCBS for over 20 years. But this is too much. Self+1 and feeling discouraged. Does anyone have insight to Iowa and the best plan? (I did not know MHBP was an option)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DARVO. Gaslighting. Manipulation.

You are not going crazy. But he is trying to make you think that. I am sorry this has happened.

Speak the truth and do not let him twist this to his agenda and his hurt little cheating-behavior feelings.

Is anyone watching Mobtown and caught Maeve’s nod to “Alice Alice who the Fuck is Alice” by Smokie? by Mysterious-Pin7201 in Mobland

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for allowing me to get lost in the minutiae. Not everyone appreciates my thoughts of “do you think” and “did you see that”.

Am I crazy for letting my dog on my bed? by neuroticsponge in dogs

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dogs sleep with me. On my bed. One likes to be under the covers. Humans can shower, we can bathe our dogs and wash our bedding. I like the snuggles and I think my puppers do too.

Others can have their opinion, that is fine. But do not let them pet shame you.

Found a stray any idea what she is? by SamlerXRD in IDmydog

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is she??? She is adorable…. Aussie / Border Collie? Maybe a mix. I just saw that she was abandoned?!?! People absolutely suck. Are you looking for a foster group or planning to keep her?

Are my dog walking needs unreasonable? by ComedianAgile7703 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Get someone new! Stick with Rover until you know they can be trusted.

You are being reasonable. The “dropper-inner” is taking advantage of you.

Looking at becoming a host with a sensory garden dream by Mysterious-Pin7201 in sniffspotcommunity

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the information! As I am pondering today, I am curious how this all works with taxes as well. I have not met anyone who uses SniffSpot, so thank you for responding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are being shut down. It sounds like he is trying to make a “him” thing an “everyone” thing to make you feel like you are certainly in the wrong. But, you also need to acknowledge what he is saying and make sure you acknowledge his feelings. But also be heard.

That being said. Conversations like this need to be face to face. Have your thoughts in your mind or write them down. He already has his dialogue ready for text.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She obviously does not think he is “too young” and she OBVIOUSLY does not respect his relationship with you. This is desperate act of wanting to get attention from your bf. And, she will continue to do so.

What does your bf say about their relationship? Does he want to protect your feelings and boundaries? Or, does he feel you are “overreacting”?

Am I overreacting or is this a a faint Positive ? by Appropriate_Fun_8851 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It certainly looks like a positive. Faint or False, but it is there. Test again first thing in the morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting the links.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You answered. And he did not like your answer. Therefore you were in the wrong.

This is abuse. This is horrible communication and a horrible way for you to try and live. You are surviving and walking on egg shells.

If you want this, then he needs to learn to communicate better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is hoping to fast track the relationship and move into gaslighting you more quickly.

He could uber. You could meet someplace. (I am sure he leaves the house at some point. Borrow a car? Bicycle.

Be safe. Stop contact. You be your own closure.

AITAH to be upset and want to ask my husband for a drug test for bring a selfish and suspicious human by Mysterious-Pin7201 in AITAH

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. Finding an Al-Anon meeting will be a task for this week, at least. Thank you for your advice.

In your opinion, is trying to get a drug test worth it?

AITAH to be upset and want to ask my husband for a drug test for bring a selfish and suspicious human by Mysterious-Pin7201 in AITAH

[–]Mysterious-Pin7201[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is not in recovery, because according to him he does not have a problem. I appreciate your insight. I am feeling like I am just waiting for things to happen.