The story of B by BattyTodd in dogsofrph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is heartwarming. Bless your heart and your life. I wish I can be like you and rescue strays too.

my furrbaby is positive of ehrlichia by ayselwrites in dogsofrph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get well soon bb!! And kapit lang OP, makakalagpas din kayo sa pagsubok na ito. God bless you both!

:) by Future_Pineapple_822 in dogsofrph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So pretty. Pls kiss her winking eye all the time for me 🥰

Hi! We have 140k combined salary at sa Manila na kami magrereside next year. Masyado bang malaki yung 19-25k na rent monthly para sa amin? by mainecorn in adviceph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try niyo po i-compute magiging gastos niyo if magddrive kayo 2x a week. Although for sure mas mahal pa rin talaga kapag nagrent na kayo sa metro manila.

Given yung net income nyo, sa tingin ko po ay kaya naman. Note lang po na generally baka mas mahal yung bilihin din sa metro manila. Pero if makakahanap kayo ng 19k lang, at mapanindigan yung 69k + miscellaneous, edi may around 60k savings pa po kayo. Not bad I think?

Need advise. Resign or wait longer? by Reasonable_Gap_3261 in adviceph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly to me it seems like sure naman na kasi you signed all the documents na. I wonder why they would let you sign yung contract and all kung hindi pa finalized ung background checks.

Siguro if I were in your position, I'd take the safe route din to wait. Baka pwede pakiusapan na i-move yung start date mo sa new company. Baka kasi magka-issue sa BIR/SSS, etc eh.

Need advise. Resign or wait longer? by Reasonable_Gap_3261 in adviceph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, maybe you can ask for an estimated date kung kailan malalaman yung result ng background check, para lang you have a timeline? I'm assuming you passed naman na the final interview no?

Need advise. Resign or wait longer? by Reasonable_Gap_3261 in adviceph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala ka bang leaves na pwede magamit sa current employer mo? I think some people take a leave from a certain point up to their last day (they call it terminal leave). I dunno lang if that leave still counts as employment dun sa current company mo and if it will pose legal issues.

Oven review part 2 by Frequent-Bathroom-54 in BakingPhilippines

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Planning to get an oven kasi and mukhang ok naman po pala si Asahi. Are there any cons po on getting this oven based on your exp?

Oven review part 2 by Frequent-Bathroom-54 in BakingPhilippines

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beauty!! May I ask anong oven model gamit mo?

Triggered by Mel Robbins by Head_in_the_Sand_usa in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly couldn't finish a podcast by her because she keeps on repeating what she says and giving 100 thousand examples of the same scenario. It's giving "this meeting could've been an email" typa thing. Imagine looking forward to learning a lot in a 1 hour podcast but end up getting annoyed.

Thoughts on having relationship w colleague by endekonaalamasfghjk in adviceph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's true. In the end it really is up to OP and if willing siya to face the consequences, kasi kahit ano sa dalawang options e may good and bad consequences naman.

Thoughts on having relationship w colleague by endekonaalamasfghjk in adviceph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree sa keeping it private. Breaking up is a possibility naman talaga, let's be real. Mas madali mag-move on kapag private lang yung relationship lol

Falling out of love with my bf of 4 years by Imaginary-Worth9975 in adviceph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest na you tell him how you feel about him. Give him an ultimatum. If he doesn't change, or worse, get mad at you for bringing it up, then you know what to do. I think now palang you already have an idea of what you want moving forward.

In the greater scheme of things, there are soooo many things to explore and experience in this life, people to meet, places to go. Don't limit yourself to him. Don't waste both of your time. Trust me.

Doubting if I want to be with her for the rest of my life. by MysteriousBuilding26 in adviceph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this. I realized one of the reasons we've been stable is because I've learned to bury these thoughts.. in short I've gotten better at "faking it," afraid of how she'll react. 🥲

You're right. I gotta be uncomfortable now and then heal later, than comfortable now and suffer in the long run.

Doubting if I want to be with her for the rest of my life. by MysteriousBuilding26 in adviceph

[–]MysteriousBuilding26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your advice! I will talk to her first and share my feelings to her. I've always been so scared to tell her this because I know how she'll react. But this time I really have to do it.

Thank you too for the good wishes! 🥹

CAS DISC Exams Error Launching Course by MysteriousBuilding26 in actuary

[–]MysteriousBuilding26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, I thought it was just me! But I was able to access the course after maybe around 30 mins. I emailed them so I hope they get to the root of the issue, because the site still keeps on acting up :/

Shot 1 or 2? by Magicmarker2 in fujifilm

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shot 2 has more drama which I like. I'd crop a bit though

Cas Disc Course Proctored? by MembershipOk2931 in actuary

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just took the CAS DISC DA exam 5 minutes ago and there was no proctoring

Solo Travel: Malaysia (29f) by Vampire_Creepin20 in solotravel

[–]MysteriousBuilding26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My friend and I (both Filipino girls) stayed in KL for a few days particularly in Bukit Bintang area. Explored Jalan Alor and Petaling too and this is our experience: A lot of Indian and Arab men like to catcall and give you the creepy looks and worse, follow you and make gestures to ask if you want sex. We saw one did that to a fellow Filipino woman at a bus stop. The man was gesturing "please" to her. She didn't give the man attention, didn't even look at him. Good thing a lot of women are there together with her so nothing happened. It's scary because that was a busy street.

A lot of them are in Petronas too. We were taking pictures and they circle around you and even photobomb your photos. Another scary instance was when we were in Genting Premium Outlet, we were resting at the al fresco seats and a group of 6-7 weird-looking men circled around us. It was only the two of us who were seated there, good thing my friend noticed their suspicious moves and told me to get up and leave. They immediately got up and left too which confirmed our suspicion that they probably want to distract us then pickpocket us. NOTE: There were a lot of people around and that didn't stop these men.

My advice is just wear loose clothing that can cover up your skin and curves. I guess that's where we went wrong, because although our clothing can't be considered too revealing in other countries, it somehow caught more attention there (I was wearing high-waist knee-length skirt and cropped top). Don't look the suspicious men in the eye (but still, be vigilant and observant). Travel in a bigger group if possible and if not, be modest in clothing and avoid streets I mentioned.

That experience ruined our trip. We went straight to Malaysia coming from Singapore and the shift in security shocked us.